/cuteboys/ - Boypussy

I think you should focus on losing weight. As far as I know when you aren't overweight, skin diseases either go away (if you're lucky) or at least get reduced. As a Finn you can ride some horse on a steppe to get it down. You can go to a dermatologist, as well. Those two seem fixable and might indirectly help against suicide by helping you perceive yourself better as you'll find your appearance to be more positive.

I think your relationship isn't working if you feel lonely with a partner tbh. And you probably won't ever meet anyway. Maybe search for someone locally where you can realistically find each other, like Finland, Mongolia?

Literally just stop eating all the time

>>392884

I eat once a day if I'm lucky, usually every 2 days and even then not a lot.

>>392875

The Mongolia bit actually made me chuckle a bit.

When winter comes I'll try to see what I can do about weight loss.

>>392888

>when winter comes I'll try to see

And when it comes, you will say spring, and then summer, and then autumn, and then winter again. That assumes you're the average willed human being, of course, but seeing "try to see" I don't think so. I can maybe slightly believe in "try", but "try to see" is beyond heavy doubt and into the area of improbable. Say you will do it, not try, if you really can't start now for some reason.

But in general the earlier you start, the better. I'm not saying you should excercise outside at super freezing temperatures that probably are in Finland during some months, but why delay if it's not that time of the year? Don't you have Finnish saunas? They probably help with weight loss as well. Might either help or make the skin condition worse, tho

>>392901

Yeah…probably should start sooner, gonna look at next month when I get some money.

Sorry about the venting, times just been harder lately.

Do you have kik? we could talk if you like

>>392904

I've never used kik, I don't have internet on my phone because I'm fucking paranoid about Wi-Fi and it costs additional money.

>>392907

fair enough, got Discord?

>>392908

Yeah.

>>392914

Whats your username?

>>392916

I don't like having it in the public

>>392920

You gotta take a step at some point dude. Give us a mail, a Steam account, something, whatever.

>>392936

Give me your Discord?

By the way I believe losing weight is very important if you wish to stop being a sub because you feel ashamed of your peepee size. At such a heavy overweight status, most of your dick is hidden behind the fat of your crotch and stomach, you'll gain a few centimetres after it's gone.

I read somewhere that taking a cold shower a day for a year straight can help you lose around 9 pounds, along with lots of other small but helpful health benefits. It's not the most pleasant feeling the first few times or so but once you get used to it, it almost feels like taking a regular shower. Regardless of what you choose to do anon, good luck.

>>392884

Unironically this being the easiest way to lose weight without having to do almost anything. While being overweight has never been an issue for me since I've almost always been tall at around 5'11" and pretty thin, around late December last year, I hit 165 pounds and was eating around 4-5 meals a day, the heaviest I've ever been and the most I was eating on average per day. By the second or third meal, I would almost be gagging because I was so sick of eating but felt like I had to because I get weak, irritated, borderline nauseous and other unpleasant things when I get really hungry. It was around that time that I remembered something my stepdad once said about how he never dieted and instead just ate a lot less when he wanted to get a bit thinner, so I took his advice and tried to cut down my meals to just 3 a day instead of what I was doing. The first couple weeks sucked ass and I would sometimes get cramps and the like from not eating as much as I wanted to, but I stuck with it and instead just had a very small snack when that happened. Now about nine months later, I've dropped about 15 pounds by doing next to nothing but not eating as much and am now down to slightly less than 150. I now only eat about two actual meals a day with some small snacks in between.

>>392901

Very true. I've had this attitude with lots of things before in my life and none of them ever got accomplished. The best and really only way to start is immediately, otherwise it just won't happen based on personal experience.

>>393235

In my experience, being constantly hungry is good for losing weight, but not for losing fat. Your body will just go into starvation mode and burn up muscle, and you'll turn into a wraith before your belly fat starts to also go away.

>>392873

Try eating anti-angiogenic foods.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OjkzfeJz66o

what is your skin disorder called? just curious

lose weight fatty

>>392873

>Lonely all of my 24 years of existence and not a single dream or goal reached

Would be easier to know the goal, but it can be reached still usually. 25 now and achieving two Milestones (B. Sc, paid job) this year of many to come (M. Sc, Doctorate, high paying job). Most people have not achieved anything of any real value until the age of 35-40…it's healthier to think about all the things you can reach.

>Lives in Finland which is a hell hole for people with even one of these problems

Mostly in Winter, that can fuck your mind really good (to the point that even you don't know who you are anymore). Get some sun, at least 10-15 minutes daily. In Winter, go to sauna. It helps.

> 120KG / 180cm

You have to lose about 40KG. Exercising is one thing. Since you are Finnish, you might want to look into celiac disease and it's various sub-diseases since this is something quite common here it seems. Knew somebody who had a really weird version of it and would only lose weight if she'd not eat any wheat/grain proteins (I think rice was ok, but not barley, rye, wheat etc. If she did, she'd become fat as fast as you can blow up a balloon).

Either way: Change diet to more healthy, eat less, burn more calories.

Do 10 pushups, 10 squats, 10 sit-ups and 10 burpees. Increase amount over time. Alternate exercise and resting days. Two days exercise, one day rest, One day exercise, Two days rest and one day exercise. Every week. It will also help you manage time. If you can keep it up for a month, you should have already shedded some weight + you've accomplished something.

>Still haven't been able to meet because both are unemployed and neither of us have an education despite having professional level skill and knowledge of our fields

The obvious solution is to get a degree in said field, again, you are Finnish so should be able to get it without having to take out loans (or taking a comfy loan instead of yeeting yourself into debt).

> Skin disorder

Probably treatable. We all have our flaws, some have them visible, some deep inside.

>Partner been distant in recent months, afraid of being alone again

That is sadly something you cannot do much about, or if you can, I do not know how. He probably has his reasons. You can always try talking to him (if you still talk with each other).

> Verge of suicide every 3-4 months for years but now it's almost monthly

Must be some reason for the verge, feelings of not being adequate or whatever. Relax, think about why you feel like that, and eliminate the cause of the feeling (for example, by accomplishing something you can be proud of).

One more thing: Baby steps. Small, little steps towards improvement. You decided to take stairs instead of hissi? It's already a step done. And then just comfortably slide into a better life. It takes a lot of power to pull yourself out of a spot like that, but you'll get it done eventually. Step by step by step.

>>392875

Make saddle with dildo attachment, ride horseback. Sounds like a good idea to finally achieve the ever elusive prostate orgasm. Or break your butthole, depending on how fast the horse goes.