No.387275
This is for the guys, have any of you ever escaleted the kinda gay-vibe flirting you have with your guy friends? If so, how did you do it? I have this friend, and last night at a party we were doing sexy dancing, but it didn't go any further….. How do i go forward with this?
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No.387434
>>387275
I do this with many of my friends, some with great success and has lead to interesting discussion or.. well, ya know..
My advice would be to make small, non-committal comments about things, and be playful with it. It's safest to direct them at yourself so that people don't feel targeted by something they may want nothing to do with. If your lewdish comments remain personal and aimed at you, it's open for interpretation for any listeners
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No.387436
>>387275
That is a cute boy
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No.387440
>>387434
What do you mean exactly? I dont understand what u mean by direct them at yourself?
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No.387487
>have you ever escalated the gay-vibe flirting?
Yeah, it was fun.
>how do you do it?
Depends on the person. Put a little pressure on but if he doesn't show genuine interest then don't continue.
Be careful, Anon. You may end up starting something that may be difficult or even painful to finish.
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No.387492
>>387487
Who is the guy in the pic?
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No.387498
>>387492
Huey Long, the man, the myth, the legend
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No.387625
>>387498
Never heard of him to be honest, care to fill me in?
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No.387862
>>387440
let's say that you see a cute gril out in public, and you're with a buddy that you find cute and want to make cute/suggestive/lewd comments to him. This gril that you see in public is wearing thigh-highs and a nice skirt. so you stay something like,
"wow I really love her thigh-highs. I can never get mine to stay up, though."
you make an easy, non-committal comment that is directed at yourself. Your friend won't feel targeted, and if he is curious, will push you for more information.
"you wear thigh highs?"
now for my favorite part: you give them a mysterious final response. let their imagination go crazy with your vague answer:
"only in the right setting." [grin playfully]
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you just gotta learn to be playful, to tease, to be suggestive, to be confident and open and unabashed by your own actions and attitude. It is a lot of fun anon. I highly recommend you give it a shot. It opens a LOT of doors with friendship, topics, sex…
most people are shy and will not initiate into "risque" territory, such as talking about wearing thigh highs as a boy. You must be confident.
NEVER fault somebody for not responding/playing back. they may be uninterested, nervous, or unsure. Don't pressure people. don't put them in the spotlight. let their curiosity bring them to you.
your job is to create the curiosity.
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No.387867
>>387625
He's a meme from Kaiserreich. There is nothing important beyond that.
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No.387892
>>387862
if you said that to me I'd just look you straight in the eyes and ask you if you were a faggot.
Nothing playful in saying you wear thigh highs thats just way over the top.
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No.387944
>>387862
Yeah maybe i'll try this, i think i have to use something less intense but it sounds like a good idea actually, thank u anon
>>387892
That was my first reaction as well, but i think the method can be used with other things :)
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No.387946
i think this is the right place to ask this as something like this just happened recently.
I got together with my 2 male friends ive known for about 6 years as it was the birthday of one of them. We like to smoke weed and are somewhat experienced with it.
We had the whole weekend (friday night, saturday and sunday). The night from friday to saturday was awesome we had an appartment for us alone so watched some movies and smoked weed. We were laughing a lot, feeling the music, eating snacks and sweets basically the usual when doing weed until we fell asleep. Next day was pretty normal. In the evening we smoked only one joint but for some reason it was very potent and made us extremely high to the point where we could barely move and that is where it began.
I don't know who made the move first but i ended up touching and caressing him and vice versa. I also think he tried to kiss me but i didn't give in as i was not ready for this and the emotions hit me hard. I was pretty sure that he is into me but i didn't know how to react so i turned around and thought about it with all these emotions overwhelming me. I am not homophobic (actually i am not sure about my sexuality at all) but it was going so fast. But i came to the conclusion that i would be ok with a relationship with him as we really have gone through a lot and we know each other pretty deeply but i am not sure if he is really into me or if it was just an act of unrestrained weed lust. We have not talked about the events yet and im confused and too afraid to ask directly
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No.387948
>>387946
I think you should ask him. If you don't it is normal to "become gay" when high
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No.387951
>>387946
Well anon do you want a relationship with him or would you like to have sex with him?
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No.387955
>>387950
well as i said i am not really sure about my sexuality or am i?
i fap a lot (pretty high libido) and to a lot of different stuff and fetishes. i don't have all kinks and fetishes but a lot so yeah i fap to straight and gay (only feminine stuff not hairy and bulky men) stuff so maybe i am just bi.
as far as my feelings to my friend go he one of my 2 best friends he helped me a lot through college, we go watch movies, hang around and play video games and chat daily online when we can't see each other so i'd say it's a pretty solid friendship.
i didn't like the idea of something more than we have at first but i see now that i would date him if he wanted to. we've known each other for so long that i think that we are inseparable at this point.
but i am not sure how he feels about us but i think us touching each other was a strong message from him but as i said maybe the weed just made us horny and unrestrained
>>387951
i just want him to be happy
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No.388004
>>387892
I wouldn't be hanging out with you / mentioning something like that in the first place. I'm talking to OP as if he's flirting with his friends, not some random le edge who would call me a faggot
it is entirely easy to guess who's going to be open to the flirt and who won't. don't flatter yourself buddy. Youd never be included if you hold yourself so aggressively.
>>387944
you guys must hang around with aggressive people
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No.388006
>>388004
I hang out with a lot of people that are homophobic atleast, but there are not a lot of people i would consider saying thigh high things too, i feel that that would get me judged pretty hard lol
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No.388098
>>387957
i could try that but i wont see him the next 2 weeks as he is going abroad on vacation
so it could take some time
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No.388263
>>388006
fearing judgement is silly. people judge you every day every moment Everytime their eyes are laid onto you
to consider anothers judgment is impossible, as considering the opinion of 7 billion people would be
I've flirted with enough of my closer buddies to know that I'm at least somewhat effective in my methods ^^
all in all, you have to read the person you're flirting with and work from there.
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No.388271
>>388263
Yeah i suppose that's true :3
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No.388724
>>387867
He was a US senator dumbass not a meme from gay mod for a paradox game. Didn’t mean to be a cunt abt it ily bb <3<3
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