/cuteboys/ - Boypussy

>>375381

Sex is a two person act, you are using him just as much as he is using you (granted its consensual ofc). Everybody has sexual needs. If you want more commitment than he's currently giving you, find someone else. Maybe it wasn't meant to be.

With that said, should you want to start seeing other people why not keep the hook up thing going until you find someone else you like? You both benefit and some sex is better than no sex (in almost all circumstances, specially if you're new and need some experience). So the way I see it you're not actually in a bad place, you just have to understand that sex =/= love and if you can't accept that find someone else.

>>375382

I Told him I was glad someone hit him with there car and honestly he hadn't cuddle or had sex with me in about a month or even visited my house

>>375381

>>375385

Could you clarify a little? Is he currently fucking you even though you used to be in a closed relationship and now sweet talks you to keep getting sex? Or is he just not fucking you period now?

>>375443

Hard to say without more details of his behaviour/your relationship with him, but he could well be just using you. You're letting yourself be used. You have to stop sending pics to him and camming. At the same time take the initiative and try and move you relationship to a more real level, like a date. If he's not interested in something real without the internet enabled gratification then you'll know where you stand.

I met the one and only cutie that lives near me, he wanted to meet up cuddle, date and actually get serious with me. But he would get in moods where he would ignore me and that would upset me more then it probably should. After a while it seemed like he wasn't doing this anymore and things were finally moving forward when he started doing it for a day at a time. I got quite upset and told him i'm done if he's going to keep ignoring me to which he ended it with me, removed me off everything and never spoke to me again. This was late last year just before Christmas

I've tried to keep to my word that i would leave him alone but lately i've been thinking of him more and more to the point where i'm about to try and get in touch with him again and see if he'll even just talk to me again even if its just as friends. Is there anyway i can fix this and be with him? Am i just being stupid and i should move on? I just miss him and he seemed to genuinely want to have something serious with me which seems to be hard to come by

>>375448

Did he ever let on a reason for his moods and ignoring routines? Like a real reason behind them not a bullshit excuse? If not did you ever get an inkling as to why he acted like that?

>>375449

From what i remember him telling me is that he would get into moods some times where he won't want to talk to anyone really

>>375452

Odd. Maybe he had some kind of depression or something but who knows? I think that you could try again with him, but as soon as you can you will have to tell him about why you decided to end it, even if you did the first time. If you miss him tell him and tell him you wish you could both communicate better and that you want him to be able to talk to you. Tell him you want to make another try. Communication is key.

Of course he might outright refuse to speak to you or he could start doing the same thing again. At which point you should definitely cut your losses and not feel bad about doing so whatsoever.

>>375439

We did stuff originally in a friends with benefits sort of way , then he started a relationship and said it was open and we continued it for awhile (basically still having sex at his house and nothing else) he would drive me back to my house which was nice he . eventually I kept asking if he would visit me and he never did , at some point I thought to myself If he had feelings for me and he told he didn't even though suggesting a long time ago and then basically denying he did along with implicated some other stuff about not being sexually attracted for me and me being one of the many guys he had sex with T_T eventually I sent him a text telling him I was tired of what was happening and how it was killing me he simply replied with low effort apologies I got mad and told him it wasn't enough and said he was a spineless prick and I was glad the track team hit his car ..

also update I visited him today just out of emotional comfort and saw his car leaving just as I was walking down the road (I Have a Job near his house)

>>375459

Okay so you're not currently being used for sex, you were used but are having trouble divorcing the situation because of mixed signals. The advice I can give now is much easier because you're out of the situation. You were baited into sex by the offer of a relationship, this has happened to me, it fucking sucks. You being out of the situation definitely helps, you constantly seeing his house and shit is not. You need to stop caring pronto, it took me up to a year to completely move on because I kept in contact. Don't, don't keep in contact, don't meet him, be completely aware that any relationship between the 2 of you has completely failed on move on. The person who cares the most has the least control, you will never have healthy communications with him anymore as he has emotional dominance now. I don't recommend jumping from one relationship to another, but, you were never in a formal relationship so feel free to distract yourself with someone else by pursuing an actual relationship with the instead. However hard that may be.

>>375469

I've been looking for a boyfriend for awhile now and most people simply won't do it because of the distance even after jerking off to my pics and ERPing with me >:( (Yes obviously I Should be aware people will give me half assed replies if I simply give them my pictures and expect them to treat me well with no real saftey net and treat me well but honestly I'm a lonely cute boy with a libido which is extremely high and would like to have it fulfilled)

I'd go pretty fucking far for a relationship which isn't with a spineless cuck ..

I Gladly wouldn't mind being a fucking maid if the guy was attractive and wasn't CIA Nigger levels of creepy weirdo >.> Seriously just one fucking guy who is worth my time and isn't fucking creep who makes me wanna vomit into a bucket and is twice my age and agrees with everything I say like a spineless pussy because he wants to fuck me ! god !! Just someone who wants to actually have something on the simplistic value of affection and not to fuck my god damn prostate >.>

>>375470>>375470

I've been there, anon. I also give away my pictures too easily…

I dont know what I expect happening but most of the time they milk me for pics and then just drop me. I would say I have a pretty good body but I dont know how to handle it ;_;

I dont even have a high libido, I just like making others happy with my pics but most of the time thats the only thing they care about.

>>375470

If you're sending pictures that quickly you're signalling you're looking for sex mostly. While an important part of any relationship, you should probably ease into it more though that's obvious.

>>375464

If you're that worried you should tell him before your date that you won't be doing any sex. Kisses and cuddles should be fine though. If he's serious then he'll be fine with that. Of course he could be playing the long game. He might be patient to get the lewds but in the end anon it's up to you to decide whether your relationship with him his healthy and how far you go with it. Just try not to invest to much of your emotions into him too quickly.

>>375472

^^^^^^this

way too many fuccbois and dudes who need to treat others like actual people and not just try anything to get laid

>>375381

You deal with it by learning to walk away. Respect yourself and realize being alone isn't as bad as everyone makes it out to be and then you'll increase your chances of finding someone worth being with who values you as much as you value yourself.

In terms of E-ships I avoid them. I'll be friends with people online and chat with them about whatever platonically/tongue in cheek lewd but we're always clear it's not a romance or serious thing since we live countries apart and could never make it work, I'm not up for being someone's personal e-whore it's just too much effort and time as with an LDR.