No.364510[Last 50 Posts]
Is there a way to stop being attracted to cute boys?
>be 18
>be at decent uk university
>have rich parents
>they pay for living and spending money
>millions of pounds at stake in the future
>also have conservative, I can't stand queers level parents
>be surrounded by cuteboys
I don't want to be disinherited but I don't want roasties either. Is there any way to stop being a fag or do you just have to hide it?
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No.364520
>>364510
Have you ever had sex with said cuteboys? You could find that you're only attracted to the idea of it. If you still feel some attraction to women, you could try and chase that and repress your feelings for cuteboys, but this will have limited mileage depending on your sexuality. If you really don't want women though, and utterly refuse to be a fag, then I guess you have to live the life of a hermit.
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No.364562
just do your gay shit in secret. problem solved
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No.364571
Your parents won't know it's a trap if they never see the dick.
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No.364572
>>364520
Basically this, guys seem to be the only interest at this stage, and its not purely a sex thing either, going out with a guy for hazelnut cake and hot chocolate, and watching them smiling and talking seems more appealing, it's just not viable if it has to be kept in secret.
>>364562
No necessarily possible
>>364571
>100% passable
Where desu?
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No.364578
>>364510
What you do in bed is your own business your parents have no right to butt in or even know.
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No.364582
>>364510
It's a very minor mental disorder at most; it isn't curable, only treatable. Why bother getting "treatment"? Boy pussy is best pussy.
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No.364608
I'm in a similar situation, both of my parents are conservative and 'well off'. They won't disown me because I don't have any siblings, and they wouldn't want the inheritance/ownings leaving the family. It is sort of sad though because I'm the last young person in my family with my surname, so it ends here.
What I've done over the years is slowly eased my parents into the idea of me being a fag. They probably already know at this point, but I've never told them upfront. You could try something similar.
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No.364622
>>364510
In the end it's your life, and you must do what your heart knows is right - even if millions of pounds are on the line.
Just take your time and take it easy. Don't throw any unnecessary fits and stay grateful for your life. Things may or may not change. My homosexual tendencies have been recuded in the past couple of years, and what do you know?
Just be comfortable with yourself, and know what you really want. You are not here to live for your parents or their ideas even.
(And you can always make your own money.) Good luck!
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No.364626
>>364578
In principle but it doesn't change much.
>>364608
Maybe, but they got suspicious as soon as I dropped hints.
>>364622
The problem is I doubt I'll survive in the real world. I've been pretty sheltered thanks to them. I don't think I'll be able to earn enough to keep living my comfy life going, and the idea of having to spend my youth working all the time on top of studying seems frightening. I can post stories if you like, but basically I'm used to being able to just buy whatever I want (other than stuff I wouldn't want them to know about). The only thing I need is someone to treat.
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No.364627
I wish I could stop being gay, but I can't. I'll tell my parents after I move out. My friend keeps telling me my mom most likely knows already, and that might be true, but this is how I'm stilling doing it.
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No.364635
>Faggatory
Is that like purgatory for club shooting victims? Couldn't resist.
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No.364638
OP, when you date a cuteboy just keep the romantic/sexual stuff in private and leave it at being good friends in public. Your parents never have to know.
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No.364640
>>364510
Sometimes you need to give up things you like because there are other things you need. I used to be really cute, had a cute body and nice hair and everything. Was completely hairless as well. But the image I was portraying isn't an accepted one where I live. I had to stop being cute so I could fulfill duties I was expected to do. I realized that life is about sacrifice, and other properties matter over the ones that may seem better in the short run.
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No.367088
>>364510
Please be at Birmingham.
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No.367090
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No.367095
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No.367098
>>364640
this is exactly why i imagine my future image as majorly androgynous/somewhat masculine on outings and a good housekeeper (and hopefully wife) when im indoors, cuz normal people really dont seem to like boys who try to act girly. i think because theyre able to project their failures and insecurities on us
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No.367099
>>367095
Thanks. But it's tough. I really envy OP because he basically has the choice between becoming rich young and living the rest of his life however her wants, or living how he wants now and not being rich. My choice, and the choice I still live with, was between being poor and being homeless. I really miss being androgynous, and crossdressing at friends' apartment parties and such. It's something I can't do anymore, as these changes made me lose people I really liked.
>>367098
I don't think I'll be finding anyone. I used to see myself as someone who would just be androgynous and find a partner who accepted that of me, but now I just see myself as alone and closeted. There's no point doing anything indoors when I have to look the same as I do outdoors. I wish I could just be told to keep it hidden a few years, get rich, then do whatever I want, but life doesn't work like this for anyone other than OP.
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No.367108
>>367099
yeah, sadly you cant expect a whole lot of people right off the bat. ive never had a friend so i was lucky, i never got "used to" it
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No.367109
>>364510
I'm in a similar situation without the rich parents.
21 y/o virgin, i get " anon why don't you date stacie" etc alot.
Secretly like boys but my dad is a literal gangster.
reeeeee i just want to be free to have a qt bf without my dad murdering me and dropping my body in the mersy.
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No.367113
>>367109
Are you a scouse lad? Just become a bigger gangster than your Dad, then you can do what you want. Or just move to a more civilized place like Manchester
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No.367114
I'm sorry about your homophobic parents, hope such situations will stop happening sometime in the future
I think you can always live away from your parents, using their money and be in gay relationships in secret, while officially staying a bachelor. Also couldn't you talk sense into your parents? They're the upper class of British society, if my Polish middle class tier parents can be progressive and opposed to all the prejudicial bullshit then couldn't your parents see reason?
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No.367117
>>367113
From Yorkshire.
Hopefully gonna finish uni and run away to another country to be gay.
And my dad practically forced me to be a tall muscular monster designed to kill and destroy people in pub brawls.
im like a really shit robocop.
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No.367274
Honestly, us communists are going to take all of your parents' wealth and redistribute it anyway, so you might as well dive in tongue-first into your university cornucopia of cuteboy dick
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No.367781
>>367274
Please don't anon, I'll die without cupaccino and designer clothes.
>>all
Seriously though, how many people are actually getting really mad at us? I hear about the growing inequality all the time but I'm kind of shielded from it.
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No.371811
>>367781
I don't know a single person who doesn't hate rich people to some extent that borders communism. Communist ideology is less common but definitely surged in the new generations.
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No.371819
>>367088
I'm not alone then, weird to think I've probably walked past another cuteboys poster and not realised it
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No.371915
>>371811
I've known only known one and he had me read him a children's book and was unfaithful to his boyfriend with his borderline creepy diaper fetish which he made me do in Roleplay while still saying he wasn't sexual and didn't like nudes . If American tax payers will argue these individuals are valuable members of our society and not degenerate filth and always revert to the usual communist agruement I guess we really are screwed.
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No.371936
It's the same for me.
I'm 21 and so far I've hidden it succesfully due to the fact that it would cause a freaking disaster with my "co-workers".
It may be because I've always been a turbulent kid or because I actually travel quite a lot for work purposes (so they can't focus on me to much) but fortunately my relatives never questioned themselves about my sexual preferences, they would never think about it.
You need to grow a hard skin to face your future (sure sheltering parents don't help) and yes, you'll probably have to hide your homosexuality to your parents if those are the risks.
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No.372020
>>364626
Oh no, you might actually have to earn a living, how terrifying. I sure feel sorry for you!
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No.381448
>>364571
Ahahah best thing I read so far
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No.381458
There is no cure. Enjoy dick while you still can.
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No.381479
>>364510
You could always just finish college, start working and abuse your families nepostic connections until you have your own network, than come out than. Then you would be fully able to be gay and not worry about money.
you do know that eventually you need to make yourself money right? Or are you going to suck momma's teet until she dies?
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No.381748
>>364510
what, you're not allowed to have friends?
your parents don't need to know what you do together as friends.
WINK WINK
also stop hating yourself, that would be a great start before you try and connect with another person? Don't get into relationship with someone else until you're willing to be in a relationship with yourself xD
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No.381802
The only cure for being like this is to stick yourself in the closet, shove all those feelings and desires down very deep, and then just go about your life waiting for the inevitable complexes to take over.
But let's be honest, with that attitude, you're not getting much anyways, so it's not like it'll be all that great for you even if you do come out.
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No.381807
>>364626
Well, if you're still in college, now is the time to work on finding a career that'll make you independently wealthy. Go into finance or something extremely boring but extremely lucrative. The more boring it is, the likelier it is that you'll end up making a killing. Then you can maintain your bougie lifestyle even without your parents, and eventually find a gold-digging cuteboy who'll love you no matter what you do, so long as you keep buying him things.
Alternatively, you could just bite the bullet and start working. Plenty of people don't *like* working, at least, they don't like every aspect of working, but it will make you way more attractive to a cuteboy if you can both provide for him and also have some character of your own. My husband is more of a housewife than anything, and his photography work is so flexible that we usually do it together, I drive him wherever it is he needs to go once I'm home from work, and we'll have that time for us. Providing for him with a job that doesn't leave me drained means I have all that time to be present and to be a good husband–and to receive all of a husband's benefits.
Being a shiftless trust fund kid is really not much better than being a NEET, in fact to be a NEET really means you have parents who can afford to keep you shiftless and without direction. You might think being spoiled is nice, but look at the personal cost to you. You'll be that closeted guy who might keep up a boyfriend for just as long as it takes that cute boy to find an out guy who'll publicly treat him like he's the most important thing in the world. You'll be forever the side piece, never the main attraction. If that's your goal, okay, but it's not a particularly fulfilling lifestyle, is it?
Basically, consider whether or not this is important enough to you to be serious about it. If not, if you just want this as a side piece, if you want to be in the closet and take that risk (and it is a risk, being in the closet. You almost certainly will be outed at some point, that's just math), fair enough. If this is something important to you that you could see yourself committing to, bite the bullet already.
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No.381837
>>364608
Dude, it doesn't have to end there. Invito/surrogate mothers are a thing you know.
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No.381838
>>381837
That or, if you care about 'your line' or something, adopting from people who have extremely similar genetics to yours or your partner's, depending on who would be inseminating whose relations. Getting your DNA/ancestry tested is very cheap and easy, and most people have close cousins they're not even aware of.
It's increasingly rare to see people who are upset about two guys, most normies have embraced it as an easy badge of being good people, you're likely to find someone among your relations who would be down with it.
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No.381839
>>381838
>if you care about 'your line' or something, adopting
I care very much about my bloodline. That is why adopting is not an option. If you give any fucks at all whatsoever about your bloodline, you would not adopt. It would defeat the entire purpose. The whole point of having children is to pass on YOUR genes. Not someone else's. You're a literal cuck if you raise someone else's child.
Gay couples having kids is child abuse anyway.
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No.381840
>>381839
Okay so, you didn't read my post and you don't really care about your *genetics* being passed on so much as, you want it to be yours. Got it.
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No.381841
>>381840
>and you don't really care about your *genetics* being passed on so much as, you want it to be yours.
…What? Yes, I want my genetics to be passed on. My genetics. Mine.
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No.381844
>>381841
No, you want your ghostly cooties or whatever on your kids. You're not in it for the actual genetic makeup itself, or else you very poorly understand how genetics work. That's fine, that's your choice, but you're in it for you and not your race or family. Sorry I cited your post, you're not my target audience.
Good luck having kids while being on this board, my friend.
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No.381845
>>381844
The hell are you talking about? If it's not my blood running through the kid's veins, then it's not my family. That's continuing someone else's family.
>You're not in it for the actual genetic makeup itself, or else you very poorly understand how genetics work.
Pretty sure it's not possible to implant my genes into someone else's child.
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No.381846
>>381845
Your family isn't very close-knit, is it?
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No.381847
>>381846
What makes you say that?
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No.381848
>>381847
Because you don't identify with them as being an extension of yourself unless they're totally immediate, i.e. your mom and dad, your kids, that's it. There isn't a sense of a broader sort of clan structure or identity, or if there is, it's distant.
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No.381858
>>381848
But they are close, and the common blood is what keeps us so close. What makes you think they have to be immediate family? My bloodline goes further than one generation.
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No.381869
>>381858
Because you said this:
>If it's not my blood running through the kid's veins, then it's not my family. That's continuing someone else's family.
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No.381871
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No.381873
>>381871
So your uncle's kids are someone else's family, then, not yours.
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No.382166
>>381873
Not my family as in the one I create, but they would be relatives, yes. That's a pretty close relation there. But if I were to raise his kids, that's raising someone else's child and that's as cuck as it gets.
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No.382173
>>382166
I'm talking about getting a surrogate from within the family. Have your partner bone your sister or something, or bone his sister or some shit like that. Then raise that kid whose genetics are so close to yours. That's as close as you're ever going to get when it comes to having a kid, and if you can't handle being a 'cuck' that way, don't be a parent. God forbid you have a daughter and invest all that time and energy in someone only for her to get fucked by another man, I'm sure that would make you a HUGE cuck.
But you're not having kids so it's not an issue.
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No.382180
>>381839
>Gay couples having kids is child abuse anyway.
Wow okay. lol
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No.382185
>>382173
A surrogate would be fine since it's my genes.
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No.382186
>>382185
Okay so now it turns out we've been on the same page the whole time, holy shit.
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No.383042
>>382186
Except we were specifically talking about adoption the entire time.
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No.383319
>>364510
date a woman publicly, fuck guys in secret?
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