/cuteboys/ - Boypussy

>>359678

You just have to "stretch it out", so-to-speak. Have more sex and eventually it'll come to you. Don't try to become loose though.

What I tried doing is using a dildo and just letting it rest. Get your hole used to being opened up. I'm still trying myself and I feel that sensation as well, but it's getting slightly better with practice

>deep breaths

>relax

>practice

it's not rocket science

>>359678

I've been really enjoying anal a lot lately, like better than any other masturbation in my entire life, and I find what makes it so good is to fully relax and submit. It's like the opposite of jerking off, instead of being forceful you have to just give yourself over fully. really relax and just put yourself in the frame of mind that you're giving your body over and losing all control and then it become heavenly and amazing. Chastity actually helps make it even better. I finally get the boypussy meme because my ass actually starts feeling like it's a pussy and I just get such an amazing tingly orgasm feeling all over with every thrust, pushing me to the edge like no other way has done for me. Other than that I'm not sure, I never really had burning except when I wasn't relaxing or if I used certain lubes and it was all over not just my hole. If you keep having issues maybe try different toys and lubes and see if you get the same feeling.

>>359678

Lube allergy?

Id fuck a boy in his butt tbh im Str8 btw

When you think about it kissing a cuteboy is actually very Str8

>>359678

If you're not using lube, that's the problem

If you are using lube, then try a different one, as you can be allergic to some brands. If you're using some other product as lube (eg shower gel, soap etc), fucking stop. That shit irritates the sensitive skin around your asshole which is probably the burning you feel, and once inside it can be absorbed into your bloodstream and be toxic.

The other possibility is that you're not relaxed enough. It can be difficult to learn how to do at first, but as >>359692 says, it's very important.

>>359678

Could be a lube allergy yeah. Put a quarter sized drop on your wrist, let it sit for ~5-10 minutes and then wipe it off. If there was any burning/redness or you develop a rash, you're allergic.

I do it for pretty much any lube I buy tbh, it'd suck having to stop in the middle of stuff because my butt is literally on fire.

>>359678

imagine the worst sexual pain you could ever feel but worse

Are you sure you are relaxing correctly? It's gonna hurt if your * is too tight.

>>359678

I had the same problem as you when I started out with anal masturbation. Turns out my ass didn''t like the lotion I was using. While the lotion was slick, it didn't "stick", it wasn't viscous enough, so it didn't help reduce friction between the toy and my ass.

The current one I'm using has a runny-jelly-like consistency. It's very slick, and it creates a slippery slimy layer to whatever you apply it on. It sticks so much that it's very difficult to wash. The downside is it dries rather quickly from friction caused by movement, so I need to use a lot, and they're not cheap.

>>359836

>>359837

Totally and like, wearing girls clothes isn't really gay either. I mean clothes don't have a sexuality anyways and if they did i'm pretty sure it would be straight so like, when you think about it, crossdressing is actually a manly activity. Hell soldiers used to wear skirts and fuck each other's asses and I mean, they're straight I'm pretty sure so ultimately i feel pretty manly being a trap sissy who wants the dick. If you aren't comfortable dressing like a girl and sucking cock you're probably just insecure a out your homosexual tendencies. Yep definitely not a faggot here, no sir

I've been trying this for years and I could never achieve a prostate orgasm. So much money wasted on dildos and lube.

Fuck ass-wanking.

Are my dildos too soft or something? Should I practice with something more firm? I hate this so much.

>>359909

It's the trip, not the destination, buddy. I've never had a prostate orgasm either, but I still fucking love anal play.

However, from what I've read it seems to be like 80% mental. You need to relax and get in to the right state of mind for it.

>>359883

Honestly, that might be the problem. I'm using astroglide which is pretty thin. Maybe I need to pick up something thicker.

>>359968

I got close a couple times, and I think it's got something to do with the firmness of the toy. The harder the toy, the better the stimulation.

>>359968

I seriously want a buttslut like you for myself.

>>359909

I have a vibrating dildo I've used maybe 5 times. I'm really not into frequent buttplay, but the last time I did it I got really close to cumming just from the high vibration along with quick bouncing.

it was also the fastest I had bounced on it. I think aside from getting it to hit the prostate gland, the pleasure is really in your head. you've gotta really be into that kinda thing.

honestly my dildo is too long/thick for me to use regularly. I have to start with a toothbrush handle then move up to a hairbrush handle before I can have a chance of fitting it. although I think I'm just really tight.

>I'm not part of this board but saw this thread in the top spot on 8chans main page and wanted to help

I'm not a butt slut but here are some protips I've progressively learned from training girls to have vaginal orgasms and then the realization that any girl that can have a vaginal orgasm can easily have an anal orgasm after her ass has been properly stretched. I take the lessons learned here and apply them to your ass which is now your pussy.

So I'll start with the background I am legit 9.5" x 6.5". I realized that women who could have vaginal orgasms loved big dick and those who only had clitoral orgasms greatly disliked it. I also realized that women who had vaginal orgasms were more feminine and submissive while women who had clitoral orgasms were more dominant and feminist type and that I could tell which type they were through observation of her characteristics.

With much thought and practice and many cool women we learned how to start having vaginal orgasms. In the process i figured out that both men and women can have what is archetypically considered "male(ejaculation and clitoral)" and "female(vaginal and anal)" orgasms. The women that started having vaginal orgasms became more submissive and feminine as they moved away from clitoral orgasms and began to prefer the much more intense vaginal/anal orgasms.

>Don't stimulate penis at all, no fap for a few weeks and use that sexual energy for anal play only.

The women and men had to stop the ejaculation type orgasm to first discover the more powerful but less dominant vaginal type orgasm, you've trained yourself your entire life to ejaculate. The vaginal/anal orgasm is the exact opposite of the ejacultive/clitoral and one does not lead to finding the other, although once discovered they both can be used. So they stopped playing with clit and got rid of the vibrators, you need to stop jacking your cock.

>to anal/vaginal orgasm you don't clench like an ejaculative orgasm you do the opposite you clench quickly to peak sensitivity then push out like your trying to shit it out. The pleasure of you gaping and pushing out combined with feeling of insertion is where the orgasm lies. Your try to push it out with all your might(not clench but push) but it just slams into your asshole against your asses wishes,.THIS IS THE SUBMISSIVE ORGASM THIS IS HOW YOU TRAIN YOUR BOY PUSSY. The intensity of this feeling at a high fucking rate is almost something you cant do to yourself thats where the submission idea comes from. But you can learn to do it with a dildo laying on your back or stomach.

Women who only have clitoral orgasms can't anal orgasm without stimulation of clit but woman who can have vaginal orgasms can easily have anal orgasms without anything other then stretching practice and stretching the ass enough to be able to basically gape around it on its own. Because they are the exact same technique..

The thing you cum on must be less girthy then your max comfortable penetration, the reason is that the ass/vagina must be large enough to open around the thing penetrating . That's why most real vaginal or anal orgasms are accompanied by the lose queefing noise which is a turn on. When you completely stretch and open without clenching it is the submissive orgasm.

But warning is continually doing this will make you more feminine and your penis will start to shrink.

>>360033

I'm not sure if being a buttslut is considered a compliment, but I'm just going to take that as a compliment anyway.

I'm not sure if it accurately describes me though. I don't think I'm really more slutty than the average person. I just prefer a different kind of pleasure. To me, my butt is a sexual organ just like my dick is.

>>360073

You take it as you want. I just mentioned I want someone who enjoys to play with their butt.

I get horny thinking about playing with cuteboys butts.

How do I top? ;_;

I can almost never stay hard enough to get it in

>>360079

are you sure you even want to top?

some guy wanted me to try to fuck him once and i literally couldn't even stay hard enough to penetrate him because i usually don't even pay attention to my dick during sex

>>360079

You might just be too subby anon… Or maybe you're straight

>>360056

I've gotten the whole "pushing" thing, through my own experimentation, but it always just makes me pee (and going before I start doesn't work because it takes me upwards of a half-hour to get to this point). That concentrates the feeling back in my dick, which ruins the whole process. It also feels kinda good, so I wonder if this is what an "anal orgasm" actually is. I hope not, though, because it's not as pleasurable as a normal orgasm, and doesn't leave me feeling relieved in any way.

>>359678

>burning

Change lube.

>>360091

Going by everything I've heard, I think the problem is that my lube isn't thick enough, so I'll def be doing that.

This is probably something alot of people do wrong so Im gonna go over a few things.

You need to have the proper tools for the job, and training your ass into a cock ready honey pot is no different.

Get some water based lubed from a reputable seller that doesn't have glycerines nore parabens(fossil fuel based gung).

Sliquid is a nice brand.

A SILICONE dildo (smaller not larger at first), there really isn't anyother material as good as silicone.

Also its better to get a good quality (usually more than fifty bucks dildo now).

https://shevibe.com/#oid=1224_1

Has many good dildo's

But tantus toys are the one I recommend.

There pricy but again very worth it.

https://www.tantusinc.com/?rfsn=9573.d56e

Though glass,metal, and even wood can be safer alternative then bad toxic dildo that shed those toxins into your quivering ass.

Latex condems (unlubed, ya never know what lube they use). Always use condoms. It protects you and your toys and can help provide a barrier if your gonna use lower quality dildo's (which I highly from upon)

Niytrl gloves(unpowdered), if you wanna spring for medical grade go ahead I reccomend it.

Buttplugs. Quite a few mistakes can be made with long butt plug wearing play. If you want to wear it for a long time get one with a thin stem so it won't damage your booty from extended use. Too many people wear what are called "dialator plugs" as long term plugs. DON'T! there made for short scene play or like under an hour if you've already trained your ass

An enema bulb. A simple one with a very tapered end that has the shape likethis one

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B06XNWDDG6?psc=1

is fine. A tapered end that matters the most.

I also recomend for those looking for a more deep clean to try

http://siliconenozzles.com/3-Liter-Screw-Cap-Enema-Bag-Kit-In-Heavy-Duty-Vinyl-SNC3LEK.htm

Great site for enema stuff

practicing pushing from you gut and diaphragm and trying to relax during this part of it. Practice and see what feels best.

Silicon lubes don't play well with silicon products but are fine for glass and other materials.

When training your ass the journey begins in the shower where you can do the routine and wash up quickly. Use gloves(non textured, if textured turn inside out) and use some water base lube and begin circling and relaxing yourself. Don't go fast, I know the lube makes you feel invincible but trust me. Begin fingering yourself (1 finger) and practicing relaxing everytime you enter the shower (which is hopefully everyday) for a couple weeks, move up fingers at the same staggered pace (you may also use good silicon dialating dialating buttplugs, they're really helpfull). To properly train your ass it takes time to learn relaxing. The end result is that you want to be able to relax your opening (even if it takes 5 mins to get the right diameter even after weeks of training) to take large stuff and then be able to tighten fully back up. You don't want to injure yourself and strech it out permanently due to injury.the end result again is relaxing to what we want in order to take a cock and then tighteing fully back into a little hole.

When getting into actual dildo play. Spend time relaxing and fingering and dialating yourself to about 3 fingers.Also, Anything over 4 or 3 inches will meet the bend in your colon. For toys over the previous size go very slowely. You have a second spincture thats out of your controll and you have to just naturally relax. Go very slowley and spend time teazing your limit. If you feel any pain stop and evaluate the situation and continue at your discretion though I recomend that be your stopping point for that session. Don't go trying to bounce on a 6 or 5 inche and above cock when its your first or even 8 time m-kay.

Also try not masturbating for a week and practicing slow self controll even when hella horny.

And just like that I have expunged my wisdom. If you have more questions Ill check up on this thread a few times from now.Take care ya'll

>>360175

The condoms and gloves are unnecessary. You can't normally get sick by coming into contact with your own shit because your body is already in symbiosis with those strains of bacteria. I don't mean to say you have to turn into a scat freak or anything like that, and by all means clean yourself out before any anal play. But getting paranoid about so much as a tiny amount of shit getting on your finger (especially when you're already in the shower) or a toy is a recipe for having it happen one and then never wanting to do it again. Shit happens. It's going to happen. One day you're going to be going at it with a dildo and pull the thing out and there will be some shit smeared on there. It's not the end of the world; you can clean it with mild soap and warm water. Trying to sanitize everything around you and wrap everything in latex isn't going to help.

As an aside, while silicone is objectively the best material for toys, they have a property where smells "stick" to them. From what I understand, it's actually a type of chemical bond between the surface of the silicone and and oil-based molecule, and it can be impossible to scrub off even with soap. After a while, your dildo is just going to kinda smell like ass. While I've seen recommendations for using baking soda, this has only had mixed results in my experience. The best thing I've figured out is to use the Sun; UV light destroys organic molecules, so just leaving the toy sitting near a window where the Sun can shine on it for a few hours will leave it smelling fresh and new again.

YO OP! even when not fooling around you should moisturize your butt (inside and out) with coconut oil one day, and shea butter the next day. dryness even when not obvious is a HUGE problem easily solved.

>>359678

I'm convinced you're just not relaxing properly. I very rarely use dildos but I've always been able to take them easily just because I can completely relax.

>>379178

1. Use actual lube instead of lotion. You can buy some simple, cheap stuff at almost any general store for less than 5 bucks, and you can use the self-checkout.

2. A lot of toothbrushes have rubber on them for grip, so they're designed to increase friction. Use a sharpie or something if that's all you can get.

3. A little bit of blood is not too concerning, especially if it's red (if it's a super dark maroon, go to a doctor asap, that means deep internal bleeding). You probably just got a small tear near the entrance. Wait a few days for your booty to heal and try again.

4. RELAX my friend. This is the most important thing you can do, and the advice you will hear over and over every time someone asks about this stuff. Practice by laying down and completely relaxing a limb, like your arm. Don't let a single muscle receive a signal for 5 to 10 minutes. Then, do the same for your hole. After that, practice with putting something in there, and once it's in do the same thing again, completely ignoring the muscles and letting them be entirely free of control.

>>379476

Shit first, then use the enema, and it doesn't need to be very much (maybe a cupful). The idea isn't to flush out all your shit, but to just remove the slight bit of residue left behind after it's already gone. You only need to clean the lowest 6-8", not the entire damn colon.

Fasting is a meme. It takes 2-3 days for most people to fully digest a meal.

>>379481

I do already, granted I do about two bulbs worth which is about a cup each. Is that what could be giving me problems, going too far up?

im pretty new to playing with my butt, the other day (playing with my dick and but at the same time for reference) I had something I swear felt like an orgasm but there without any ejaculation, the afterglow was a lot damn longer too like 10 minutes and I was leaking during it

wtf is this and how do I do it on purpose

>>379481

>Fasting is a meme. It takes 2-3 days for most people to fully digest a meal.

It is not a meme.

Even if it does take that long to digest a meal it doesn't mean that fasting for a shorter period won't have an effect. Your body knows how much you've been eating, and that affects your intestines. I reliably need to go about an hour after eating a large lunch, regardless of whether I eat it at 11am or 2pm, and regardless of what and when I ate the previous day.

If I don't eat on a given day, then I'll need to shit at around 6-7pm, and after a small enema I am reliably clean. If I do eat, then I am often not clean.

Since I already prefer light lunches and large, late dinners, it's not even that big an inconvenience.

>>379494

Your personal anecdotes are meaningless.

>>359832

>>359832

these are my thoughts, you aren't doing something dumb like using soap as lube are you?

>>379495

>discussing things that work is meaningless

>>379498

>Being so arrogant and narcissistic you think what works for you must work for everyone

>>379608

In what part your imagination did I imply that?

Why are my bowels apparently so special and unique compared to everyone else who likes putting stuff up their butt that it's such a huge problem to suggest things that work for me might work for others?

And where the hell did your ridiculous aggression come from?

>>359692

this is a solid response, thanks Anon

>>379642

The more important question is: why are you so defensive? You got called out on your bullshit, and now you're upset that your own experiences aren't somehow universal. Too bad, so sad. If you had the slightest idea of the actual physiology involved, you wouldn't take your own stupid eating habits as some kind of incontrovertible evidence.

bumb

>>359836

The only way that's straight is as straight up dope, bro