I don't see it that way but I will try to understand it. You're saying that for you cuteness or adorability is linked to submission, acceptance and chasteness? Maybe they are feminine qualities turned up to eleven and it makes sense any guy would feel more dominant and masculine in contrast. So it's a mutually beneficial thing.

I guess if a woman is or sees herself as inferior somehow then it seems like being a cuckquean is a logical coping strategy. She can put all of those issues in a neat box and feel secure that her man won't leave her.

I don't understand the part about getting off on inferiority. I get appreciating more attractive or successful people rather than being jealous, but not the rest.

>>7024

I'm not saying all things I find cute are sort of pathetic, but I am saying I find something dorky-cute about cuckqueans sort of loving and living vicariously through vixens.

Sort of hard to articulate. This also may have been a not-quite-drunk post.

>>7013

>Anyone else turned on by the idea of a cuckquean being kind of adorably pathetic?

I have a kind of reverse cuckquean kink, where my man has two girls, one very submissive me and one closer to being his equal. But instead of being cuckqueaned and refused sex, I'm the one for sex. The he and her have sex when they both feel like it, as partners, but when she doesn't, my job is to provide for him on demand. She's a girlfriend, I'm just a concubine, because I'm too inferior and pathetic to get to choose when he gets to sleep with me.

>>7024

>I guess if a woman is or sees herself as inferior somehow then it seems like being a cuckquean is a logical coping strategy.

This is definitely a part of it for me. I don't get to make demands of him, because we all know my place, while he and her are more equal and he has to actually consult her, not just make decisions for her like he can for me. But I don't begrudge her, I just accept we have different places and that my super submissive place is the one for me. She doesn't look down on me either, just understands that I'm not suited for her place. She's secure in her relationship because she knows it's not about sex but about her friendship with him, and I'm secure because it is about sex and I know I'll keep my place by being good and obedient to them both.

>I don't understand the part about getting off on inferiority.

It's part of the coping. Feelings of inferiority are hard to deal with and they become sexual and erotic to be more comfortable to deal with. In this respect cuckqueaning is just like other submissive kinks, including male cucking. It's a way of rationalizing it and justifying it to yourself.

>>7038

Waifu material, right here.

But not good enough to be a wife, unless polygamy is legal, and even then not the first one. You sound like a good girl, though. You'll make some couple very happy. May we all find a trinket like yourself to keep around.

>>7044

I'm complete opposite

>fat fuck

>short manlet

>alpha as fuck

>dominate social interaction, drag people along with me

>wife wants me to sleep with other women because I'm horny 24-7

>have borderline shut-in hobbies so never meet anyone

>>7050

I'm not meant to be a wife. I'm concubine material, not wife material. But it's different from not being good enough to be a wife. It's just not what I ought to be. Part of me desires to be right for being a wife but at the same time I want to accept my place and not feel envy of the people who should be my superiors.

Being "first" shouldn't matter either. A man can have a concubine before he has his wife and that shouldn't make the concubine superior to the wife or anything like that.

>>7063

I can just imagine a harem full of cuckqueans competing to be in the lowest position.

>>7063

You sound like exactly what I want. Me, my wife, and the servant/concubine. She and I have amazing sex, and you're just for getting off.

>She's secure in her relationship

My vision is that my wife is 100% confident in the strength of our marriage, but just insecure/competitive enough that she thinks a bit about which of you I enjoy more.

>>7025

The more I read the more I understand. It doesn't matter if the explanation is rambling or doesn't make as much sense as it should. It all helps.

>>7038

That is a great explanation. You don't make any mention of what makes you inferior in the first place. Is there anything, or do you just like to see yourself in that position and everything comes from that? Is the coping strategy a necessity or all part of the fetish?

>>7044 (Checked)

If your physical description is accurate I don't think anyone cares if you see yourself as beta or not.

>>7055 (Checked)

One of your hobbies should be lifting and watching your diet. I'm pretty sure you already know that so it's time to engage your alpha spirit and get it done.

>>7066

I wouldn't compete to be lowest. It would be his decision to pick my position. But I wouldn't be able to be in charge of another concubine well, so I shouldn't be given a higher position.

>>7069

In my vision, the wife doesn't care if I'm more fun for our husband. She knows he loves her regardless of that. If I'm better, good for him, he gets to enjoy me all the time, and he'll still sleep with her out of love for her. He loves me too but it's also my place to give him pleasure.

>>7076

>You don't make any mention of what makes you inferior in the first place. Is there anything, or do you just like to see yourself in that position and everything comes from that?

My personality. It would be something that's just talked openly about as part of someone, like sexuality. The three of us would all know I can't be a wife and she can't be a concubine.

>Is the coping strategy a necessity or all part of the fetish?

I think it's why I have the fetish.

>>7108

When you put it like that it does sound as if it's your natural sexuality. I think that thought has been brought up before in other threads, so it must be a thing for a certain number of cuckqueans.