Did you try going out to a club? That's the easiest way to find casual sex, and I'm sure many of the girls there would not care if they found out their partner was married.

Correct me if I am talking complete nonsense but it seems to be that there always seems to be way more submissive people than dominant in any particular group of fetish. For example gay men who are bottoms outnumber tops by a lot, there are for more men who like femdom versus women who do, and so on.

However it could also be that no one really knows what cuckquean and vixen mean yet. So although they might be up for it they are difficult to find.

I think specifically looking for a vixen isn't the way to go. I would more target women that might just be into threesomes, are exhibitionists, or that just aren't super concerned with whether or not he has a partner already. The cuckquean dynamic is still a pretty obscure fetish, so women who might find the appeal may have never heard of it.

Big question: Are you approaching this as a couple? Your post makes it sound like you're doing this mostly on your own. If that's the case, it might be your problem. It's great for the woman to spearhead the whole effort, but if you're approaching women entirely on your own, they're never going to bite. They aren't going to be interested in a man they've never even seen. You need to work as a team. Whether it's in-person or online, you need to approach them as a couple seeking women. I think this will maximize the likelyhood, as there seems to be a weird effect where women are more attracted to men who are already with women. Sort of like there's already someone vouching for him, I guess.

Have you tried Tinder? Wasn't there a meme not too long ago where Tinderwhores won't mind fucking married men? In which case so long as you and your partner don't mind the vixens being 'looser' to get in the sack that sounds like a pretty alright option.

>>5412

Clubbing is on the list. Hubbys issue is its been a long time since he's been to a meat market as he put it.

Still, theres nothing like fresh pussy to inspire a male.

>>5419

Hi. I'm willing to try this. As we are about to get our first experience next week (will tell you all about it, maybe some pics too;)) it will help me decide what I need exactly. I'm leaning towards a longer term thing, but im willing to accept compromises.

Big Answer: Yes. If anything, hubbies problem is he works a six day week. His job does allow chances, but they arent frequent.

As a stay at home mum, I can spend a few hours searching the net and other local event such as swingers meets and munches. I'm approaching my friend with the idea, but both of us have contact with her, in fact he has just come back from her house.

Do you think going clubbing together would work? All our on line profile are together. For example, its his picture on tinder,but my writing

>>5411

I find that most girls who are up for being vixens have no idea they're up for being vixens. Not one single vixen we've had has known about being a vixen. That is, they're not specifically looking to fuck a married/partnered man. It's only once they're attracted to me and they find out my girlfriend is delighted that I sleep with other girls that I see them turning the idea over in their minds and liking it. Some turn out to enjoy being watched, others don't. Some like the threesome aspect, others don't. (Actually, I've found more are OK with being watched and seem relieved that there's no expectation of sexual contact between my girlfriend and them.)

>>5423

>Do you think going clubbing together would work?

He's much more likely to be successful if you're there too. A man who already has a woman is more attractive. That said, I've personally found nightclubs a pretty crap place to pick up but maybe that's just 'cause I don't enjoy them very much.

>>5426

I think clubs are too loud.