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 No.1725

So I've had this fetish for a while, I've just never been able to entertain it. Early into my current long-term relationship, I introduced the fetish to my girlfriend and she hated it. She gets anxiety that I'm going to cheat on her and it's affected her so bad that she had to unfollow a bunch of porn blogs on tumblr that featured 3some porn even if it wasn't overtly cuckqueaning. Needless to say I don't bring it up around her any more.

Now obviously I don't want to satisfy this fetish at the expense of my girlfriend's happiness, that would be terrible. Depending on the feedback I get from this thread I'll drop the idea forever because it's not important enough for me to pursue if it bothers her. But I'm wondering if any guys here introduced this fetish to their girlfriend, had a rocky start, then finally made some sort of breakthrough where they ended up liking it? And how did you convince them? I know it's more common for the woman to introduce this fetish to their partner, so I understand if this is strange.

I'm sorry my hard drive recently failed and I don't have any relevant picture to post so pic unrelated

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 No.1726

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>>1725

>Now obviously I don't want to satisfy this fetish at the expense of my girlfriend's happiness, that would be terrible.

Best possible sentence to read in one of these. You're alright. I'll answer your question.

>But I'm wondering if any guys here introduced this fetish to their girlfriend, had a rocky start, then finally made some sort of breakthrough where they ended up liking it?

I kind of did, but my circumstances differed from yours.

My girlfriend (who is also my sub) fundamentally experienced sex as a way to serve me and derived her pleasure from mine. One day, I offhandedly joked to her that having a mistress would be handy. She said that it would, but that she would never be able to bear sharing me. (It's worth noting at this point that we trusted each other absolutely - for either of us to cheat was unthinkable. She never minded me looking at other women, either; she would even point out the occasional nice pair of legs for me to ogle on the street.)

So we laughed it off, but I got curious about how one actually does get and keep a mistress. The answer, from my research, seemed to be "have a lot of money and lie a lot". But while I was researching it, I stumbled across the cuckquean fetish. It blew my mind.

When I told my girlfriend about it, she agreed that it made sense that it had to exist but was aghast at the idea. Hated the idea of doing it. No more was said for months.

Then one day as we were lying in a post-coital puddle, she confessed to me that she'd briefly fantasised that the squelch of pussy juice around my cock was from another girl and that to her complete shock, she hadn't really minded.

There's much more to the story, but that's the part that answers your question.

>And how did you convince them?

I didn't. I focused on training her well and being a good master to her. She reached the conclusion on her own that it was something she wanted to do for me and something she'd maybe enjoy.

After she mentioned that it was something she wanted to consider, I helped her explore the idea slowly and safely. Then once she was sure she wanted to try, I trained her for it. Then I carefully guided us as we actually explored it step-by-step.

Now she blushes and makes excited little whimpering noises when I remind her how much she enjoys sucking another girl's juices off my cock after watching me pound them.

That said…

>I introduced the fetish to my girlfriend and she hated it. She gets anxiety that I'm going to cheat on her and it's affected her so bad that she had to unfollow a bunch of porn blogs on tumblr that featured 3some porn even if it wasn't overtly cuckqueaning.

You're not just dealing with "nah, that doesn't appeal to me" here - you're dealing with her being so anxious that she changes her behaviour to try and ward off the anxiety. Until she can trust you and no longer get anxious that you'll cheat on her, the possibility that she'll like cuckqueaning is probably out of the question.

Good questions to ask yourself and maybe her: What's at the root of the anxiety? What part of the cheating makes her anxious? Does she imagine you leaving her for the imaginary other girl? Does she imagine being kept in the dark while you betray her? Does she derive security from being your one and only everything? Does she actually think it's likely you'll cheat on her, given the chance?

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 No.1727

>>1725

Should have started with threesomes and gone from there. If she still has an interest in that, it would be good initial approach.

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 No.1734

I would actually start with building trust in each other. And bondage.

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 No.1737

>>1734

>And bondage.

This.

Many cuckqueans, though certainly not all, come from a submissive BDSM background. In general cuckqueans tend to be highly submissive women that love seeing their man be dominant. Not only that but cuckquean is a relatively recent term, only truly defined in the fetish scene a few years back, and as such many people that have this fetish don't actually know the terms for it so they don't know how to go about searching for what they like.

Your best bet would be to look for a submissive girlfriend with an interest in threesomes and BDSM. Also you then need to, as many others in this thread have mentioned before, BUILD TRUST with the poor girl. Cuckqueans may want to see their boyfriends fuck as many different women as possible but at the end of the day they also want to know that their man will continue being THEIR man. Just like in BDSM aftercare is a MUST and if not properly handled it could wreck the relationship.

Talk to your girl, OP. If you love her assure her of that love and that you aren't planning on going anywhere. Tell her what you told us:

>I don't want to satisfy this fetish at the expense of my girlfriend's happiness, that would be terrible.

Everything should work out just fine if you do this. After some time has passed you should see if she has an interest in threesomes or the like, though I wouldn't recommend asking her this overtly. Just pick up the clues in her fetishes. If the answer is yes you can probably work each other up to a cuckqueaning relationship, though remember this WILL take a lot of time and trust between you two and pushing too hard too early will devastate the relationship. Hope this helped, OP!

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 No.1741

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>>1725

>>1726

>>1734

>>1737

>all this responsibility and kindness and trust

Posts like these give me hope.

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 No.1778

>>1741

If there's one thing I learned from BDSM and the kink scene in general is that those of us who accept our fetishes are a lot more kinder, trusting, and responsible in our relationships than your average normalfags.

Maybe it has to do with the general disposition of kinksters for us to be that way naturally or maybe it has to do with all the training and discipline we have to put ourselves through in order to achieve the maximum amount of pleasure from our fetish. Perhaps it's a combination of both of those or none of them. All I know for sure is that the kinkier the couple and more open they are about their kinks with one another the happier and longer lasting their relationship.

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 No.1785

>>1778

Can confirm, also seems that way to my sub and I. I think it's because being in a relationship where BDSM plays a big role means that you're communicating a lot more and making explicit the kind of things that in more "normal" relationships fester underneath and become boils of resentment over time. In BDSM we have to strive for clarity.

Also coming to grips with yourself in a kink sense - whether dom or sub or in between - often means a person has to learn a lot about themselves and simply "grow up" a bit more sexually speaking.

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 No.1786

>>1785

You know, now that I really think about it, I don't think I've ever been in a legitimate argument that turned nasty with my SO. Sure we have our disagreements and minor squabbles but nothing that ever lasted past a few minutes after the conversation ended.

Meanwhile I've seen normalfag couples argue about the same dumb shit they were arguing about months ago and continually let their problems fester without actually discussing their issues like adults. These people will have the most benign problems imaginable and they still can't talk to them face to face with their partner. It irritates me to no end, I tell you!

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 No.2308

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Someone understand how i feel. I would like to confess my…dilemma here…

first of all, i am a guy

ever since i discover Cuckquean fetish. most of the time i masturbate its to a cuckquean porn/images/imagination, i got absolutely turned on by the idea of my GF watching me have sex with some other girl especially if its someone close to her

i never told any of my GFs, and to be honest this has been a rather hurtful experience because i sometimes think of doing another girl when i am with the GF.

also for your information, i am 20, still virgin and only ever had 3 girlfriends ever.

the guilt of thinking of doing another woman is what hurts me, it doesnt actually do anything to my relationship because i never mentioned it at all. and because i dont even do premarital sex with any of them the guilt is even heavier….

but to be honest, after looking through these things even more. I grow hope that one day i can introduce my partner to this lifestyle, you mentioned its BDSM and everything else. yeah before i stumbled upon this fetish (which actually more towards women than men…) i love the idea of BDSM which i am scared to mention as well to my partner.

how do i introduce BDSM, and have my partner be sub first? any ideas how to do this? and will it destroy my relationship one day if i tell her about by fetish?…the OP seems to still have hopes.

for your information again, i currently dont have a girlfriend. just want to know how to introduce in the future. and even though i sounds like i want to cheat, i dont actually want to cheat, i just feel turned on if knowing my partner watch me doing another woman.

tnx, and sorry if i have a mistake, this is the first time i am here….

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 No.2310

>>2308

Okay, the answer regarding introducing your girlfriend to a desire to do cuckquean stuff with her: Don't.

I want you to flip the script on yourself here for a moment. Your girlfriend comes up to you and says that she's been reading about cuckolding, and wants to get fucked by other guys while you watch. How do you feel you're going to react to this?

As for introducing BDSM: You've mentioned you two haven't even had sex before. I would recommend doing that first. Don't go all pedal to the metal with this stuff.

After that, my best advice is to take it slow. Bring up little things, working your way towards the bigger stuff, and stop if your partner decides its too much for them. Experiment, find what you are comfortable with. But remember that it needs to be about mutual enjoyment, and that when you're both feeling out, it's a good idea to try things you aren't "planning" on doing. Or to put it in a question: Are you willing to let your girlfriend handcuff you to the bed and edge you?

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 No.2321

2308 here, tnx for the suggestion. i understand its going to be painful thats why i always feel guilty inside, and i does not condone cheating either.btw i dont really planning to take it fast either, i can wait until i had been married to have sex. but i have no idea how to even bring up those "little things" haha. what i am curious about is how to initiate it or even bring it up peacefully

i am always under great impression that if i even ask something like this, my (future -wife maybe) gonna go she-hulk on me, slap me with a super saiyan kamehameha. raging her mouth like rambo with machine gun and eventually left as fast as road runner.

ok joke aside i have no idea how to bring it up and i am scared my Significant Other will give absolutely negative impression and worst, left me simply because some "Confession"….. since i dont want to break my girlfriend/wife (if i even get any…) 's heart

then again i dont even know if i can even get married or even if i want to. marriage seems sucks nowadays.

oh btw if it helps, i am not an american, but rather and indonesian which happens to be somehow religious country making it even harder…in a way…

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 No.2330

>>2310

>This, and the fact that "only" about ten thousand people were murdered within it

False analogy.

Boys have a penis and girls have a vagina.

Also chromosomes and shit.

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 No.2335

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>>2330

>"only" about ten thousand people were murdered within it

>murdered

I… I don't understand.

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 No.2354

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Apparently gf has this fetish.

Problem is I find it pretty degenerate but most importantly it seems physically impossible for me to live up to it.

I am next to a complete social retard that did not have sex for four years before I met her.

Assuming I want to give in to it…

What do?

Pic most related within my folder

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 No.2355

>>2354

>What do?

Let her do most of the driving. Picking out a girl, getting the girl interested, etc… You just play your part in the final act. It may have to be a 3way the first few times which would make things easier for everybody. My wife has done this a couple of times and it typically turns out well.

But, as always, you need to sit down and have a good discussion over a bottle of wine so you both are on the same page. Also, read this ahead of time.

http://whitedaddy4cuckqueans.tumblr.com/post/106651751775/how-to-bring-your-best-friend-into-your-marriage

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 No.2356

>>2354

I was in your position. The answer I found is to self-improve. Learn and practice social skills so you can be boldly yourself in social situations instead of just trying to "fit in". Learn about your body and how best to build strength and physique. Learn to have better sex. All these things will give you a foundation of confidence, which is a tremendously attractive trait. I highly recommend Mark Mason's book "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty" as a primer.

The good news is that already having a girlfriend will make you more attractive to other girls. She might want to do the driving, like >>2355 says. Or she might not - my own 'quean loves it when I go and get my own tail. You need to work it out between you, really thresh out what she sees in the fetish, what you see in it, how it'd best be explored and in what steps, etc. Just make sure to enjoy your primary relationship and have lots of sex there at the same time. Unless she wants to be deprived.

Ultimately cuckqueaning has been a force for good in my life. Having to improve so I can attract other women I find attractive was difficult and forced me to confront things in myself I hadn't had to before, but it ultimately made me healthier, happier and a better lover to my girlfriend.

And never, never accept the arrangement turning into a bilateral open relationship. Make it clear at an appropriate point over that bottle of wine that you'll go back to being sexually monogamous rather than countenance the idea of other men getting at her. She'll like this.

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 No.2358

>>2354

Either there are too many fantasizing liars or this freaking fetish is inexplicably far more popular than its obscurity implies.

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 No.2399

>>2358

popular? this board is on the low tier list. stop getting scared at every single thing not passed on MSM.

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