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 No.15419

How attached are you to your role and level of submission versus dominance in the cuckquean dynamic? Is it very specific and only works for you in one way, or is there more leeway into what part you play?

For example, if you were a cuckquean in an environment with other cuckqueans, does that change anything? Sort of like how frogs change from female to male in a single sex environment - if the cuckquean role is taken, would you be willing to go vixen, or does that do nothing for you? Like say you're single and meet a really great cuckquean couple that you like, would you go all vixen for them? Or does that hold no appeal for you?

Similarly for submission versus dominance - if the other girl, regardless of role is more submissive or dominant, does that change your behavior towards her?

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 No.15448

Bumping in a slowboard.

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 No.15568

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women can only be trusted to hold their own remote if they have been properly trained

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 No.15577

File: 908cd8d507b459d⋯.gif (1.24 MB,303x307,303:307,1454134139524.gif)

Not sure if relevant but I wanted to share my story and ask for advice:

>be student in town far far away from home

>find couple of sugar daddy and sugar mommy through ads and I essentially prostitute myself to them for running expenses

>despite that they act kindly and parenty to me, even scold me when I fuck up at my academic responsibilities

>even provide some psychological support with some minor issues I had even though it usually ended in sex

>though I try to not get emotionally attached I do to the point that I cannot even flirt with other people

>now I see them as the naughty uncle and aunt I never had

I of course don't expect something that will last forever since they probably will have real children at some point in the near future and my presence as a vixen would not be welcome but I am kinda tormented by the prospect of it being as superficial as realism dictates and I am kinda scared to to really look into what I am to them. Deep down I want to remain their naughty little girl forever.

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 No.15578

>>15568

I have no idea how that's supposed to be related, but that girl is adorable.

>>15577 (dubdubs checked)

Interesting! I do hope they keep you. It's hard to say one way or another how they would proceed without really knowing them. I would assume that they do feel very attached to you if you've become as such to them, but children do complicate things. It'd be nice if they promote you to full sister wife and you can act as a second mother/nanny to their children, but even if they want that, some people would get second thoughts later. People do change when they have children, as it shuffles around their priorities.

Ultimately, though, you already answered your own question - you need to talk to them and find out where you stand. Broaching the topic can be scary and difficult, so you may want to start finding topics about the future, yours or theirs, to see how they view it, and whether they assume you'll be around or not.

Bear in mind, they might be worried over the same sort thing. If was part of a couple that shared a college girl vixen with me, I'd love the idea of keeping our girltoy around indefinitely, but I'd also be nervous to suggest that. I'd be afraid that it's asking too much - she might want to go on and get married and have a normal life, and who am I to stand in the way of that?

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 No.15580

>>15568

Keep seeing more of these after that famous one of the guy buzzing his gf in all different locations. Trusted to not activate it I assume? Agree very much anon, to be genuinely happy women require proper training.

>>15577 (🐸🐸)

Very nice digits. Well done.

>>15578

>who am I to stand in the way of that?

Good point and very true. Having children is usually part of a serious heterosexual relationship which has obvious implications if she wants to move onto the next level herself. Is it with them or should she move on? Eventually every vixen has to figure that out. Thinking about it, I like the idea of a vixen "growing up" as it were and becoming a cuckquean herself, giving opportunities for new, younger, hotter vixens.

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 No.15581

>>15577

Have they shown any signs of being emotionally attached to you? They’re kind and supportive to you but how’s the cuddling? Do you spend and enjoy non-sexual time with them? Do they enjoy your company to the point that you’re all sad when you have to part, even for a short time?

The fact that you’re their sugar baby complicates matters. When you graduate and get a job, would you still want to be with them even if they weren’t paying for your things? If I was in their position, that’d be something I’d ask myself if I ever thought about making it a more permanent thing because it predicts stability.

Speaking from experience, I love it when a vixen becomes emotionally close with us. I would love the right vixen to pledge herself to us exclusively and for that relationship to thicken into mutual love. But let’s be realistic - that’s rocky territory. You need to understand the emotional risks to yourself and to them.

But you want advice. First, be sure this is something you want. You know what it’s like to have a girl play with both your hearts? It hurts. So I wouldn’t be surprised if they’re maintaining a little emotional airgap to prepare for the time when you leave. If you make them close that gap and then you leave, it will hurt them. So be sure.

Second, be prepared for them to not want it. Think of reasons why you might not work in their household. Consider the danger that if you do become more than their sugar baby to them, they may still break it off with you and it will hurt. This will help you anticipate possible points of resistance and work around them.

Third, if you are sure you want it, try pledging yourself during sex. Dirty-talk about how your body is only for them, say how much you love being their dirty little girl, how they’ve made you not interested in boys your age, and so on. Dirty talk is deniable - you’ll be able to gauge their primal reactions (well, try to since you’ll be distracted yourself) without putting them under pressure to give an “answer”. Also pay attention to how they act afterwards. This might lead to a more serious conversation right away or trigger a conversation between them later about what you said.

On that last sentence: Letting them have this conversation over time and away from you is very important because no solid couple is going to allow themselves to make any serious move without settling it between themselves first. They already have you as a sugar baby, which indicates they’re very able to have that conversation, but remember that they need to talk new developments over away from you. Understand that this is happening, will happen, and needs to happen.

Fourth, you should talk with them about this. Post-coital haze is a good time. Talk about how much you love this and ask them what you are to them. DON’T do this before you tip them off with the dirty talk and give them sufficient time to talk between themselves, or they may feel ambushed and give you a pleasant-sounding but noncommittal answer (which is couple-speak for “eh, what the fuck?”).

As >>15578 says, remember that they have concerns too and if they would like the same thing you would like, they might be thinking you wouldn’t want it. Don’t play with them on this. Be sure. Also be prepared to maybe be played with. If they reject your advances, will you still be happy with just staying their sugar baby?

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 No.15583

>>15581

One thing I forgot to mention: In between tipping them off, giving them time to talk, and asking them both, it might be a good idea to talk to the wife separately. You could ask her out for coffee or whatever your local equivalent is (discreet location and noise-muffling seating a must), then quietly admit to her that you’re worried about things and lay out as much as you’re comfortable with. Do not be presumptuous and make it very clear that your feelings extend to her and not just her husband.

The reason you do this is that you are planning something that crosses a boundary. She’s in the position to feel most threatened by this because she’ll be the one who can be hit by a nightmare scenario if you have bad intentions. If you sound things off her first, she’s more likely to be comfortable and courtesy costs you nothing.

This is a classy move with plenty of historical precedent. Wives of kings were known to meet with their husbands’ various mistresses to plan his schedule and perhaps even enjoy each others’ company. A polite vixen is a high-grade vixen.

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 No.15585

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>>15581

>>15583

Not the anon you're replying to, but what an amazing answer. You clearly put a good amount of thought into it.

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 No.15589

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>>15581

>Have they shown any signs of being emotionally attached to you?

Mostly what I've said in my first post.

> They’re kind and supportive to you but how’s the cuddling?

"Daddy" is not a very cuddly type, that's why I many times spent overnight in their bed to be "mommy"'s teddybear.

>Do you spend and enjoy non-sexual time with them?

Hardly any with both of them. Me and daddy are always horny when we are together and most times we sit altogether on the couch to watch a movie we usually end up with me blowing him, him fingering me and her watching us more than the movie. I can hardly make sexual advances towards her when we are alone since she defuses them with massages, innocent-ish caressing and "THAT'S FORBIDDEN LOVE" scolding but she works mostly from home where I stick around more and more lately so we spend much more time together.

> Do they enjoy your company to the point that you’re all sad when you have to part, even for a short time?

I am not sure about them, their life seems to slow normally when I'm not around but for me lately I hate staying in my apartment and I feel lonely even when out with college friends.

> When you graduate and get a job, would you still want to be with them even if they weren’t paying for your things?

I am already trying to find a job and be financially independent in hope that I make a point across but it's kinda hard, so I am mostly cutting down secondary expenses since I can hardly feel joy from spending and socializing with Chads and Stacies anymore, it's only mostly bills and food right now and most of my vanity expenses goes to looking good as a sugar babby.

> would love the right vixen to pledge herself to us exclusively and for that relationship to thicken into mutual love.

I feel really nervous to confess. It feels like there's so much built up in me I'll end up crying if it gets awry.

> I love it when a vixen becomes emotionally close with us.

Can you please elaborate on that? What has happened with yours so far?

>If you make them close that gap and then you leave, it will hurt them.

I have no intention, urge or capability to live for the foreseeable future.

>Second, be prepared for them to not want it.

I can't. ;_;

>Third, if you are sure you want it, try pledging yourself during sex. Dirty-talk about how your body is only for them, say how much you love being their dirty little girl, how they’ve made you not interested in boys your age, and so on. Dirty talk is deniable - you’ll be able to gauge their primal reactions (well, try to since you’ll be distracted yourself) without putting them under pressure to give an “answer”. Also pay attention to how they act afterwards. This might lead to a more serious conversation right away or trigger a conversation between them later about what you said.

I am not sure I can be that manipulative. As my ex from hometown shit said I can only get away with things because of how cuteshy and childlike I am and not because of my "feminine persuasion".

>On that last sentence: Letting them have this conversation over time and away from you is very important because no solid couple is going to allow themselves to make any serious move without settling it between themselves first. They already have you as a sugar baby, which indicates they’re very able to have that conversation, but remember that they need to talk new developments over away from you. Understand that this is happening, will happen, and needs to happen.

Yeah. I probably have to spend less time over their place.

>Fourth, you should talk with them about this. Post-coital haze is a good time. Talk about how much you love this and ask them what you are to them.

I kinda do but I am afraid to bring this up in a more serious tone.

>>15583

We already spend time together with her but I don't think she could ever be threatened by me. She's tall, smart, responsible and aristocratic-looking/sounding/mannered and way more feminine than I am if you exclude my arguably-annoying kawai-desu-ne mannerism, also a surprisingly skilled and traditional housewife for a woman with a real job.

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 No.15594

>>15589

>Can you please elaborate on that? What has happened with yours so far?

It’s not very exciting. A couple of them started falling for my bf, apparently couldn’t handle the fact that he was taken by me, didn’t communicate any of it, and then went on a furious cock-binge to remind themselves that they were independent. They hadn’t pledged exclusivity or anything but it still messed with us. Another pledged exclusivity but abruptly ghosted one day, then came back all cold and broke it off. She later did exactly the same thing to another single guy using exactly the same timeline so at least we know it wasn’t a problem with us.

It’s made us both a little hesitant to open that part of ourselves up to vixens anymore. Your arrangement sounds fairytale by comparison.

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 No.15597

>>15594

Other than direct communication what else from your perspective would help my cause? Having exclusivity over me, me having greater financial independence and helping with house chores would help?

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 No.15598

>>15597

Without knowing them, observing their reactions over time, and knowing the circumstances leading up to the present moment, I can’t say. It all depends on what they want, how they feel, and what they value. The way you describe things suggests that you are infatuated with them despite having a limited non-sexual relationship with them (red flag) but beyond that I can’t see very much that I can use to help you.

Pledging exclusivity may help or may not. You’re exclusive to them anyway. If you were our vixen, pledging exclusivity would probably make us value you more. But we don’t pay money to our vixens, so I have no experience of that dynamic. It could be that they value the sugar baby arrangement precisely because it provides them an easy out. On that note, be aware that some of the things you plan to do might register as you wanting to end the sugar baby arrangement soon. For example, gaining financial independance is a good thing. But part of the sugar baby dynamic is the power that being a financial supporter provides, so your working to reduce that dependence without explanation may be interpreted as you growing dissatisfied with it and wanting to move on.

Your posts read very much like you’re seeking emotional security, and that your sugar daddy and mommy have been assigned that role. But remember that if they didn’t sign up for that, they might find it an imposition. Again, I cannot say because I have no information on them or on your relationship with them for now. I know how you feel about them but I have no idea how they feel about you because there’s nothing to draw on.

A good question is, what do you want? You are clearly in a time of transition and it’s weighing on you. You want them to keep you, but why? Would you be happy if things continued exactly as they are? Would you want to move in with them? Would you find yourself chafing at their slower lives? Figure out your ideal situation and why you consider it ideal, and then start changing the variables to see how much more/less ideal that makes things.

From my perspective, you are showing high-grade vixen attitudes (wanting to be less of a burden to them, being exclusive without being asked to be, high sexuality, strong sexual attraction to the man) but what is positive to me may not be to others. I detect insecurity and a little superficiality behind your words. I assume this is because you’re presently in a bit of a froth, focusing on whatever will ease your worry quickest, and maybe speaking English as a second language.

Seriously, talk to the wife. Supplicate. Don’t treat it as a confession, but as asking a more experienced and higher-powered woman that you trust for advice. Most people don’t ever get the chance to do that.

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 No.15612

>>15589

Wait, did she actually call it forbidden love?

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 No.15613

>>15598

Great post and I like this word "supplicate".

>>15612

Cuckqueaning keeps bisexual and lesbian girls straight.

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 No.15614

>>15613

>Cuckqueaning keeps bisexual and lesbian girls straight.

Yeah, but they should be allowed to lez out a little.

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 No.15615

>>15614

Just enough to take the edge off.

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 No.15617

>>15615

Fair enough, but back to the point, I was wondering if she used those words on account of it being hot.

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 No.15625

>>15612

No, you silly.

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 No.15630

>>15625

You could always ask her to.

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 No.15649

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>>15577

Can you explain this ads business? i'm always terrified of meeting people from online, How can my household find a naughty niece we never had without getting shanked?

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 No.15650

>>15649

Ads at campus' announcement boards. Rooms to rent etc. In this occasion they looked for "girl for domestic assistance" aka housemaid not english speaking country btw.

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