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6a69df  No.6232

Can we talk about women (female posters please chime in)?

I dont want to bash women or go into sexist tirades. Keep them at the door.

I want to understand the nature of women from the perspective of God. I have started seeing a woman who had past sexual encounters (not many but a few) within the realms of a relationship; she is otherwise a great and dedicated girl. At first I didnt care but it has slowly been eating away at me. When I spoke to her about my discomfort she expressed shame and regret but didnt really understand why it was a big deal - i concluded her shame and regret came from her trying to appease my value for purity; she herself didnt really get it. I feel like I cant look at her as if she is pure anymore because she allowed more than the man she wants to marry to share her body. On the flipside, I have preserved myself up until this point because I instinctively value purity so much.

But what hurts me most is that I am not sure if women innately value purity and chastity. Why do men put a high value on this but women do not seem to? There is a mismatch in nature. God's design should be balanced and I feel unsettled by this.

Women tend to be in conflict: they inherently think they should be chaste but simultaneously they want to do lewd and decadent acts. I cant understand this. Why dont women want to inherently protect their body for the right man? Why do they give it so easily even early on in "relationships"

I understand we look to God to overcome our sins and temptations but sin is a departure from God's design for us. Therefore, a desire for purity should already be baked into the fiber of our being. I feel like this desire exists more strongly for men than in women and I cant understand why for the life of me.

I am feeling depressed and despondent over these observations. Life and nature dont make any sense. Its less about this girl im seeing and more about the implications of what it means in nature and God's design.

Are women incapable of appreciating purity? I feel like they require reinforced learning to value it via the bible, a church community and godly parents; whereas men have an innate love of purity, beauty and chastity. This makes me then question whether a womans striving for purity is real in her heart or just a means of social acceptance.

I dont want to feel this way. In many ways I want to be convinced Im looking at it wrong. Share personal experiences if you can.

This felt good to get off my chest. God bless

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f4c5cd  No.6234

Let me guess, you were raised in an urban or suburban household of a major metropolitan area of a wealthy Western country. Am I right?

You're noticing that egalitarianism is bad for women. They have been corrupted. No, this isn't inherent to the nature women. My wife has disdain for fornication and values virginity, just like our ancestors. You should end it with this woman who didn't save herself for a husband. It is dishonorable.

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4ffdfa  No.6235

>>6232

>But what hurts me most is that I am not sure if women innately value purity and chastity. Why do men put a high value on this but women do not seem to? There is a mismatch in nature.

This claim is patently false. Look around and you'll observe that males are engaging in the same activities unfortunately. Women act as a feedback loop for the behaviour of men, so it's unfair to solely chastise them.

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bf1965  No.6237

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>>6232

I've thought a lot about this, because I'm a criminal defense lawyer who deals with a lot of sexual assault cases.

What I've noticed is that back in common law, there was a crime called seduction

>English common law defined the crime of seduction as a felony committed "when a male person induced an unmarried female of previously chaste character to engage in an act of sexual intercourse on a promise of marriage."

This law was on the books until very recently and Frank Sinatra was charged under it.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction#Contemporary_law

People think common law is stupid and a product of kangaroo courts - what modernists don't understand is that kangaroo courts were often more just and fair, and certainly much more accountable that modern courts. Also the many years of precedence set by many wise men looking over each others decision gave rise to a law that reflected how people think and act and feel.

The reality is that women are different from men. God made men to lead and women are more inclined to follow. This means that women are vulnerable to seduction and can be taken advantage of by men. You can look at how much some virgins got on the internet auctioning out their virginity - amounts are disputed but definately enough to buy a car.

This means that every women carries with her something exceedingly valuable - her chastity and virginity. And there are many predatory men who go around trying to take it from them. They use lies, manipulation, pressure. In the end the woman relents.

In common law we recognized this and punished the men. . . And in that respect I underdstand the femminists cry for sex assault and rape laws. What they really want, although they recognize that it's politically incorrect to say it, is to bring back seduction laws like we had in the past. And they are right

Here in modern society that just takes women as young as 16 - I think that's the age of consent in many places, and sometimes younger. So we take these girls, as young as 16, not fully formed brains. We turn them loose in a world where every pop song is about sex. We set them loose with men, sometimes older, who will push, pressure, plead, promise, cajole and do anything to get them to part with their chastity.

Modernity tells the lie that men and women are equal, and woman are free to refuse. We as Christians know that men and women are not equal.

MEn naturally lead and women naturally follow. We know that women are more easily manipulated by men. Even feminists recognize this, that's what they mean when they talk about the "power imbalance" in male female interactions.

So yeah, if anyone is to blame, it's not women, it's men. If anything women are the victims and we as Christians should be protecting women - particularly our daughters, sisters, cousins, by protecting them from such men and fighting to bring back laws against seduction

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7a6c73  No.6241

I value it likewise and I'm a woman. If you really love her you'll be able to forgive her, if there are any doubts don't marry,

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f4c5cd  No.6244

>>6241

>I'm a woman

Post womanly forearm or you're a tranny

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525b0d  No.6246

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>>6232

> I have started seeing a woman who had past sexual encounters (not many but a few) within the realms of a relationship; she is otherwise a great and dedicated girl. At first I didnt care but it has slowly been eating away at me.

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bbb470  No.6264

>>6232

Women mainly give it up because they desire acceptance. Men coerce them into sex, then bail and defile another woman. Kike culture has made it seem normal and proper to put out immediately, so they do.

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