>>5395
I’m OP. I’m not arguing relativism, I’m saying I have an issue with every single possible result here. I’ll stop using Lewis and Tolkien (as I realize it’s maudlin to talk about the state of real peoples souls) and instead use unnamed people from a hypothetical example: a Catholic man marries a Protestant wife. They both serve the Lord in good faith, have a full understanding of the theology of their partner and reject it, favoring their own theology of Catholicism/Protestantism
>Option 1: they both go to Heaven
I’ve got an issue with this. We’ve been fighting over theology for years, both in measured reasonable debate and in vile despicable violence. There are entire encyclopedia-length books that could basically be called “We’re Right and They’re Wrong, with references to scripture and sacred history.” Is this all for nothing? I don’t like this relativism
>Option 2: one goes to Heaven, the other goes to Hell, the one in Heaven is aware of /upset about it
Heaven is supposed to be paradise, how can it be paradise if you have a constant nagging feeling of “my loved one is burning in Hell.”? That sounds like psychological torture and survivors guilt for eternity!
>Option 3: one goes to Heaven, the other goes to Hell, the other is not aware of/upset about it
I have an issue with this one as it’s brainwashing. Does God wipe memories of loved ones? Or worse, do you become a sociopathic pharisee once you get to Heaven? Do people think “my loved one is burning in Hell, good! They picked the wrong team!”? That’s sociopathic, it’s evil!
I don’t like the idea that if I go to Heaven, I’ll have my memory wiped or turn into that
>Option 4: they both go to Hell
This one I think is pretty obvious why it’s bad. I’m this option, a person lived a good Christian life but for loving someone on the wrong team they suffer for all eternity
I just feel like every option here renders Christianity either useless or evil, and I can’t think of any solution