>>828494
OP, prayer, first, and always, and constantly. God Himself delights to answer questions like the one you posed. So keep that in mind and listen to Him as He directs you toward Himself. Since you are asking here, I will recommend this book for you. I found it to be amazing and immensely helpful in a practical sort of how-to-do-christianity kind of way. It's written by a monk for other monks, about how to be a monk in modern culture. It's great, and super helpful.
>The Arena: Guidelines for Spiritual and Monastic Life - St Ignatius Brianchaninov
You can buy it on amazon. I'd give you the link but for some reason it keeps flagging the amazon url as spam.