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The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

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ea269c  No.825334

I need advice from my fellow christanons. My younger sister (19yo) is sleeping with her boyfriend, and I don't know what to do about it. It started a while ago, but she confessed to me about it only recently. Since I've been living abroad for many years for studies, there wasn't much I could do. She doesn't go to the mass anymore, her friends are degenerates, etc. I had a talk with her about it and tried to explain to her what chastity means, but she's way too far gone at this point. She barely spends any night at our home now. A couple of years ago I asked my parents why they didn't worry that my sister wasn't spending the night home. They said she was staying at her friends place, and that they were sure she wasn't lying. I didn't know what to say at the time because I couldn't prove she was lying. Now I know for a fact she's lying because she confessed it to me. I don't want to tell my parents because I don't want to betray her trust and break the thin connection I still have with her. That's why I don't know how to confront my parents now. Is there anything I can do, beside trying to show the example to her by living in chastity and faith? My parents seem too stupid and irresponsible to do anything, but I think if they knew for a fact she's lying to them, sh*t would still hit the fan somehow. They are the only ones who have authority over her. I wish I could just tell them but I can't. What's the right thing to do? Has anyone been through something similar?

tl;dr: my boomer parents are too retarded to notice my sister is having sex with her bf, and I don't know what to do about it.

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acf329  No.825336

Nothing you can do. Let God do it. Forgive her. Pray for her. Do nothing but be kind to her. God may move her or she may be deeply affected by your opinion, whether she shows it or not. You may plant a seed in her that will take root and correct her behavior later.

I've got a similar issue. My sister isn't promiscuous, but she's come out as lesbian. She's also atheist. She's very, very liberal. She's a part of ANTIFA and she meets up for anti-Trump parties with some of her friends. Now, I'm not pro-Trump. I voted for him, but I'm not a fanboi. Every since then, our relationship has been tense. She thinks Trump and anyone who supports him in any way is evil. She stopped talking to me for three years and she's only recently allowed me to get a foot in the door. She hasn't spoken to my dad in 10 years for political reasons.

Anyway, I feel you. We've got to let God work and you've got to be personally moral. The actions of other people are beyond your control. Honor thy father and mother. Your parents aren't stupid and they aren't retarded. Lots of people are going to Hell because of their own choices. Don't be one of them.

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