>>819689
First, understand that the desire to ask this question and make these changes comes from the work of the holy spirit in you.
Second, you’ll need to be patient. It will take some time to rectify. Trust God’s timing.
Third - pray often and read scripture (especially New Testament scripture) as often as you can
I’d also recommend avoiding politics, TV news, violent video games, and pornography as these will deepen your hatred. Try to detox from this, spend time outside, spend time with family