I ghosted a girl and she called me out on that, luckily we don't know each other IRL, we were introduced by our parents, is it Christian to just ignore her? We didn't talk that much, I got disappointed in her pretty fast, because she takes a picture with a

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Christanon 03/13/19 (Wed) 03:07:47 c63ce4 No.782999

I ghosted a girl and she called me out on that, luckily we don't know each other IRL, we were introduced by our parents, is it Christian to just ignore her? We didn't talk that much, I got disappointed in her pretty fast, because she takes a picture with a new guy every few days, yet denies having a bf, also these guys are all Muslims. The worst part is I started off our "relationship" by saying that I like her shitty idea to get a tattoo, admittedly I wasn't a believer back then.

Christanon 03/13/19 (Wed) 03:11:33 3be6e8 No.783001

You should put 'Dear diary' above your text and write it in a tiny book.

bye

Christanon 03/13/19 (Wed) 03:19:22 1cb900 No.783007

>>783001

Sorry, if there was a general for relationships I would post it there, seeing other similar thread makes me think this place needs one.

I just don't know what is a moral way to behave in this and similar situations that might arise in the future, I'm worried I might hurt someone.

Christanon 03/13/19 (Wed) 03:22:44 41345e No.783010

>>783007

>if there was a general for relationships

There is.

Christanon 03/13/19 (Wed) 03:31:55 1cb900 No.783015

>>783010

Been here for few days haven't paid noticed it, maybe it should be pinned.

Mods, please delete my thread or move it to that general.

Christanon 03/13/19 (Wed) 03:44:11 3be6e8 No.783019

>>783015

Ok, I was joking and didnt want to be rude. I dont really get your problem, what is it exactly? You met a girl through your parents but you dont like her for several reasons so you withdraw from her. Right? So whats the problem now? Do you feel obliged to stay in contact? I dont get it..

Christanon 03/13/19 (Wed) 03:48:34 1922c2 No.783022

>>782999 (checked)

If you're gonna end a relationship, then you need to tell her and move on. It's not okay to "ghost" anybody, how would you feel if somebody did that to you? If you're afraid that she's gonna try to make you feel guilty or you're afraid of confrontation, then it means you need to man up and face reality that is called life.

Christanon 03/13/19 (Wed) 04:09:57 9ed471 No.783028

>>783019

I feel oblidged to explain my behavior, because for one reason or the other she is still interested in me.

>>783022

It's not about me, I don't want to hurt her, whatever I can think of saying to explain the situation will end up genuinly hurting her, I think. Best thing I can do is to keep ghosting her it seems, hopefully she'll stop trying.

Christanon 03/13/19 (Wed) 04:17:20 0dc158 No.783030

>>783028

Don't be a fag, bro. Man up and tell her how you feel. If you continue to do this, eventually God will humble you and make you go through the same thing with a girl you really like.

Christanon 03/13/19 (Wed) 04:31:03 3be6e8 No.783033

>>783028

So you're just not interested in her but she is interested, i didnt get that. I mean since you were not in a relationship and obvi not even that close if you didnt talk much, then I would assume that it will soon peter out if you stay away. Are you sure that you mean that much to her? I mean since you didnt even talk much? But whatever, if you think it would hurt her if you tell her what you think, you can bet that it hurts her too when you continie to behave like an ass with her not even knowing why. This might even be more hurtful for her! So I would go with tje other anon and advise you to be clear with her. Besides, it seems to be a burden for you too. So simply tell her nicely that youre not interested. Dont wussy out and let her suffer for it!