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The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

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8cfd6c  No.765443

I'm looking for examples of great saints who had to break up with someone they loved, and especially about how they dealt with the sorrow and guilt of that part of their life.

So far I've thought of St Augustine (obviously). Any other?

We ought to always look up to those who paved the way of the Cross for us, poor sinners.

>John 14:12

>Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I. have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father.

d4cc8b  No.765485

Other than St. Augustine I can't think of no other.

He even had a son from the girl (who fortunately was baptised together with his father) I'd like to know what happened to the woman though.

Btw that hitted St Augustine like an hammer. After his family got him an arranged marriage his lover broke up with him and he got another one to vent his sadness with.

Basically what saved Augustine was his thrist for truth and a friend who told him a story about St. Anthony the Great when he saw Augustine had a book with St Paul's epistles. He cried a lot and finally he decided to stick with God.

Last but not least the constant praying of his saintly mother for the conversion of her son and the prophecy of St. Ambrose "The son for whom do you weep shalt not perish"

Tldr: put your life entirely on God

I also lost my loved one too, man my story is absurdly similar with St. Augustine's one, that's why he is my favorite Saint, minus the fornication parts because I was a beta.(thankfully)


eb7a22  No.765650

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>>765485

Do you know where I can read more about this?

Deep down I know I had to do it. I had to pray for it to happen. But I still have feelings and for months my ex has only been throwing fuel at me, it's draining my energy and tears. It's torturing me with wet dreams and doubts about my choice.

I hope yours has been able to find peace without you.

St Lupus of Troyes (pic related) mutually broke up with his wife and sold their goods so both could enter religious orders. They were already married Christians for 6 years.


0d58c8  No.765730

>>765650

There's the confessions of St. Augustine where he tells his story if you haven't read already.

Well there's a relationship general, not the anime one, you can vent your story there if you wish.

I can't really relate that much to you, since first I wasn't dating her, but by being a retarded coward I let her go if though everyone said she liked me.

Took me two years to get through it, porn, fapping and all that shit, and finally I got to the same point as Saint Augustine and "reconverted" to the Catholic Church. This hard as winnie the pooh and I still think of it and dream. But one can't change the past so I just put my life in God's hands, whether he wants me to find some other girl to marry or to become a priest.

btw Saint Augustine didn't exactly broke with his lover. She was the one who broke up with him, since Augustine's family got him engaged with a girl and she didn't want to ruin his life. Of course in this case was even more painful than when a dude breaks up on his own. He really loved her so it was a winnie the pooh shock.

>St Lupus of Troyes (pic related) mutually broke up with his wife and sold their goods so both could enter religious orders. They were already married Christians for 6 years.

Didn't know about this one. Better that way if they can express their love by praising God together.


7f8134  No.766105

>>765730

>This hard as winnie the pooh and I still think of it and dream.

It was the same for me when I experienced something similar. And I didn't learn for a long time. Despite maintaining celibacy, I went years (longer than you), desiring, grumbling, hoping God would lead me to a family life in some other way. But when I realized he didn't, it all became less of a burden. I felt free somehow.

Just pointing this last part out - because you can still commit and not sin.. but "hold out hope" and be frustrated somehow. The sooner you realize where exactly you stand, the better. You don't want to remain the frustrated state.

I'm not Catholic or Protestant or Orthodox tbh, but I'll probably never entertain Protestantism for this alone. They just smugly dismiss Christ's words on this calling, and brush over saints and clergy (or average people like myself) who make this commitment..which is possibly one of the toughest in their lives. It sucks to see one of your favorite virtues turn to dung and ashes in people's mouths.

I only mention this because I'm surrounded by Protestants.. and could never talk to them about any of this. They simply don't care. Or even think there's something wrong with you. It's no better than talking to a bunch of bullies way back in highschool, who made fun of people for not getting laid. Protestants are literally no wiser than the the young and stupid thugs of the world. And that's sad. It sucks not having a support network.. so saints are all I have…even if I'm not part of their tradition.


538578  No.766138

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Gabriel of Our Lady of Sorrows


d828bb  No.766293

>>766138

What's the story? I can't find it.


1f290c  No.766349

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Saint Joseph of Leonissa was offered a nobleman’s daughter in marriage, but refused and joined the Capuchins instead.


ba6905  No.766496

>>766293

>He was a ladies man, and had several romantic involvements and on the night he left for the monastery there were still hopes that he might become engaged to a local girl.


4f4a0b  No.766748

>>766105

Than what's stopping you from getting in communion with them?

We and all the Saint are all fallen men and we are together in the pain of his world and in our Blessed Lord.


c0e8c7  No.766800

>>766496

That's when society was still wise enough to put social barriers before marriage. I've dated a girl for 2 years and lived alone with her for 1 year. It's like a small divorce, after 6 months we both still have a very hard time getting over it.


b2fb8d  No.769287

>>765443

saint galacteon. also saint paul the simple if you count finding your wife cheating and becoming a monk about it.


b2fb8d  No.769290

>>769287

There was a rich and distinguished couple named Kletophon and Leukippe, who lived in the Syrian city of Emesa, and for a long time they were childless. They gave much gold to the pagan priests, but still they remained childless.

The city of Emesa was governed by a Syrian named Secundus, put there by the Roman Caesars. He was a merciless and zealous persecutor of Christians, and to intimidate them he ordered that the instruments of torture be displayed on the streets. The slightest suspicion of belonging to “the sect of the Galilean” (as thus Christians were called by the pagans), was enough to get a man arrested and handed over for torture. In spite of this, many Christians voluntarily surrendered themselves into the hands of the executioners, in their desire to suffer for Christ.

A certain old man by the name of Onuphrius, concealed his monastic and priestly dignity beneath his beggar’s rags. He walked from house to house in Emesa, begging alms. At the same time, whenever he saw the possibility of turning people away from the pagan error, he preached about Christ.

Once, he came to the magnificent house of Leukippe. Accepting alms from her, he sensed that the woman was in sorrow, and he asked what was the cause of this sadness. She told the Elder about her familial misfortune. In consoling her, Onuphrius began to tell her about the one true God, about His omnipotence and mercy, and how He always grants the prayer of those turning to Him with faith. Hope filled the soul of Leukippe. She believed and accepted Holy Baptism. Soon after this it was revealed to her in a dream that she would give birth to a son, who would be a true follower of Christ. At first, Leukippe concealed her delight from her husband, but after the infant was born, she revealed the secret to her husband and also persuaded him to be baptized.

They named the baby Galaction and his parents raised him in the Christian Faith and provided him a fine education. He could make an illustrious career for himself, but Galaction sought rather an unsullied monastic life in solitude and prayer.

When Galaction turned twenty-four, his father resolved to marry him off and they found him a bride, a beautiful and illustrious girl by the name of Episteme. The son did not oppose the will of his father, but by the will of God, the wedding was postponed for a time. Visiting his betrothed, Galaction gradually revealed his faith to her. Eventually, he converted her to Christ and he secretly baptized her himself.

Besides Episteme he baptized also one of her servants, Eutolmius. The newly-illumined decided on the initiative of Galaction, to devote themselves to the monastic life. Leaving the city, they hid themselves away on Mount Publion, where there were two monasteries, one for men and the other for women. The new monastics had to take with them all the necessities for physical toil, since the inhabitants of both monasteries were both old and infirm.

For several years the monastics struggled in work, fasting and prayer. Once, Episteme had a vision in her sleep: she and Galaction stood in a wondrous palace before a radiant King, and the King bestowed golden crowns on them. This was a prefiguring of their impending martyrdom.

The pagans became aware of the existence of the monasteries, and a military detachment was sent to apprehend their inhabitants. But the monks and the nuns succeeded in hiding themselves in the hills. Galaction, however, had no desire to flee and so he remained in his cell, reading Holy Scripture. When Episteme saw that the soldiers were leading Galaction away in chains, she began to implore the Abbess to permit her to go also, since she wanted to accept torture for Christ together with her fiancé and teacher. The Abbess tearfully blessed Episteme to do so.

The saints endured terrible torments, while supplicating and glorifying Christ. Their hands and legs were cut off, their tongues were cut out, and then they were beheaded.

Eutolmius, the former servant of Episteme, and who had become her brother in Christ and fellow ascetic in monastic struggles, secretly buried the bodies of the holy martyrs. He later wrote an account of their virtuous life and their glorious martyrdom, for his contemporaries and for posterity. terity.


ff2ea7  No.769435

>>769290

Sad as winnie the pooh, but I wish the same happened to me.




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