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The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

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5c0bf5  No.728437

Hey guys. The other night I hired a prostitute to have sex with me. But actually we didn't have sex, I told her I only wanted cuddle. We cuddled and heavily kissed and she kept telling me we could have sex but I refused. We slept together for a bit then she left and I paid her what little I had since I work at a dead end job that pays me shit. That was it. I'm such a fugly bastard and a loser still trying to escape my parents house. That was the first time I've been hugged since I was like 8 and the first time I ever held a woman or kissed one. I didn't have sex though because I knew that would be fornication. But I just needed a woman! I just needed a beautiful woman to hold in my arms! But now… now my conscience is all over the place… Was this a sin? Should I confess? Should I? Why did God make me so ugly and lonely! It's not fair! :( Help me please..

c52ecf  No.728440

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OP, I think it's a very common problem these days with men. We are living in an age of Hosea as another OP put it in another thread. The question is, what are you going to do about it and how will you be pleasing to God?

And while you're at it OP, read the fifth chapter from the Book of Matthew. God bless.


cb459b  No.728445

you still committed fornication tho


85caa8  No.728447

Was it a sin? Yes, but it could have been worst; go to confession and learn to love yourself. I suffer from slight depression and mood swings (it's basically bipolar disorder), and it took me almost 15 years to come to terms with this issue; what happened the most is focusing on God, on internal turmoils and how to redirect that energy, that raging fire towards things which are, in a Christian optic, constructive. Go to the gym to vent out your stress and despair, not to be vain; take an hobby not to simply kill time, but to develop a skill and talents that God may have placed in you and you left dormant; go out every once in a while, hang out with random people and just chat while having a drink (just don't get wasted).

I see you are in need of love, you want companionship…we all want, nothing is more frightening that solitude (Nietzsche got it right here: it is a thing for the lowest of beasts and monsters or for the greatest of saints), especially in this bizarre world where we are surrounded by idols coming out of the ground everywhere and living, walking, existing in a crowd of atomized individual, monadic nomadic entities bouncing into one another without recognition of who or even what we are, are doing and who or what the people next to us are doing as well. It is the reason why we need to be glad to be blessed with His faith, that we were found by Him…now we need to fight to survive the night, for the sun will rise again and the battle is already won.


ad416e  No.728472

>>728437

Try talking to actual women.

And get your mom to hug you, too.


16010f  No.728478

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>loose weight

>try mewing

>work out

>get a job

>force yourself to talk to people

>get hobbies

If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not, you will find an excuse.


7272ba  No.728479

>>728437

Talk to a priest over this. Also this is a heavy symptom of what lurks beneath. You need love, seriously. You seriously want to be loved but before that you need to feel that you want to love others first. Not the shallow infatuation which many mistook for love, but true love that our Lord taught us and have shown us by dying for all our sins. The true love which is sacrifice.




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