It's okay if your initial draw to that is to want to have a good family. The family is the cornerstone of Christianity. In fact, throughout the Bible, the people of God (us) is likened to the bride of God. Your want for a good wife and not a harlot is a good want for sure. However, I'd ask to soften your heart a bit and try and learn what Christianity really is, not what you think it is. We believe any true marriage can only happen with three people, a Man, a Woman and Christ. You are right to observe that many men "greater" than you have fallen to divorce, and have their lives and happiness ruined. This is why you need Christ, because with God all things are possible.
If however you are just seeking to hoodwink and deceive someone, and that's your sole intent, without ever trying to give it a shot, your efforts will be doomed and you will probably find yourself in a far worse situation. But if you actually really try and give it a go, who knows, God can really work wonders. You will receive faith, and have a loving wife who believes too, and together with your shared faith you'll have a wholesome family that can weather the inevitable storms that do happen.
I'd encourage you to join and attend church at their community, and try and maybe read the Gospel of John. There are some pretty nice videos on the YouTube channels calles "The Bible Project". They're like animated info graphic type videos that are easy to follow. Also if you have some atheistic objections, you might want to check out the channel "InspiringPhilosophy". There also is a pretty regular bible study going on at twitch.tv/a7runaway - just some readings from the bible and Christian videos with some cool music in the background.
Give it a shot and you might be surprised where the Lord leads you.