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The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

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e46fc5  No.724839

So as we all know not being able to find a female is a problem that many young men including myself face and as we males know sexual frustration can and most often leads to sin such as porn and masturbation and that's good for many reasons but i'm sure you already know that so since many males can't meet girls to marry and fulfill their natural desires for love what can we do? Now what i'm about to say might sound a bit crazy perhaps local churches could start programs to help young men find a gf/wife perhaps women could volunteer for these programs i mean i know how it sounds but is it better to let young men drowned in dependency that can seriously hurt their psyche and soul

ceb80d  No.724841

Are you eligible for marriage? Employed, responsible, have your own place etc


e46fc5  No.724843

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>>724841

Of course there will be a application they you will have to fill out to make sure you are eligible for the program but to answer your question no anon i am not employed or responsible


ceb80d  No.724850

>>724843

If you aren't employed or responsible then why would you want to be married? It's a massive financial and emotional burden, and takes up a lot of time. It makes no sense to get married just in order to relieve a sexual itch, you'll end up regretting it because of how much difficulty it involves.


6753bb  No.724853

>>724843

So what do you have to offer women?


9f4d77  No.724855

>>724853

This make sense for marriage, but the issues that sprout "incels" start off well before the age of independence. Nobody that has sex in middle/high tends to be employed and living on their own either. It's not a purely transnational deal.


e46fc5  No.724856

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>>724850

Of course i don't want to ge married now but someday i would like to but i have always been bad at talking to people and antisocial but this program isn't just for me but for all the lonely Christian youth god said "it is not good for man to be alone" for a reason just look at /r9k/

>>724853

Not much at the moment but as it stands i can give my love but i know i'm not ready for marriage yet


87620c  No.724859

>>724839

OP, I’m assuming we’re all young adults here. If you have trouble finding a woman perhaps the life of a family man isn’t for you. I suggest spending time in a monastery to see if the life of the cloth is for you.


e46fc5  No.724861

>Having trouble finding a woman

Well you see i haven't actually tried to get a girl i stay in my house all day i don't have many opportunity's to get rejected

>see if a life of the cloth is for you

I can already tell that it's not when god said "be fruitful and multiply" he wasn't kidding we he made me and besides i have always wanted a big family


e46fc5  No.724862

>>724861

Meant this for >>724859


dcef20  No.724983

>>724843

>>724856

Hello, fellow elegan/tg/entleman.


81baf1  No.725023

>>724839

I’m 25, I’m in my senior year, and I just got my first girlfriend. She feels like I’m the Godly man she never thought she’d have or deserve; I think God kept us both single this long intentionally.

But I agree, more churches should put effort into encouraging interaction between the young men and women of their congregation. Seems like it would foster more Christian marriages.


6753bb  No.725121

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Let me tell you boys something that is very useful, you have to offer women something. Female beauty is the most important commodity in the whole world. It has been that way since the dawn of time. In order to acquire a woman, you need to bring something of equal or greater value to the table. So therefore, you need to become interesting.

Think of you as a drink. Once you leave highschool, you are water. You aren't special and there are many better options for girls to choose. You have to be special, you have to have your own unique taste and style. Don't chase after girls just yet, focus entirely on yourself. Get hobbies, skills, muscle, social skills, ect.

If you play your cards right, you will become a Whiskey, that gets finer with age. You may not be appealing to most girls, but only to the ones with good taste, which is what you want.

That is how the world works now, don't expect to get a good quality women with just love alone.


cf11a0  No.725206

>>725023

I'm your age and always been >tfwnogf

your post is encouraging

There are qt devout grills out there praying for husbands, get out there and find them anons.

https://deepstrength.wordpress.com has some breddy gud articles on waifu hunting


c4664f  No.725228

>>725023

> She feels like I’m the Godly man she never thought she’d have or deserve

I think we tend to place too much stock in the material needed to provide for a woman. Do we have a job, a place, etc. Those are important, sure, but this sentence right here is the most important part. The women that you want to attract, all they really want is a Godly man. Work on your spiritual wellbeing and you will be fine.


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34210e  No.726027

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Praying for those people in this thread.




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