I video call to my Mom abroad weeks ago and there came a neighbor in our house there (whom I am not favor of) and was in the way in the video call and said hi to me excitedly and asked how I am doing, then she told my Mom that I seems looks fat. After few days I video call again my Mom and this neighbor again came in a way again and said to me hi and she said that I seems beautiful. So which is which? I look fat or beautiful? People really love to gave false flattery to others, lies and deceptive idle words in the hope to please others. This is why our tongue should be gripped by the Holy Spirit and only should speak what is True, which encourage and edifies. But most of people's tongues are gripped by Satan speaking lies, deceptive and false flattery to offer to others.