Lurker of 5 months and I'm in the same boat. It's discouraging at first with the constant Cathodox banter but it's get better with time. And if it doesn't, there's always the qtddtot thread. Here's a few pointers to get you started:
>1. You failed the CAPTCHA
>2. Any thread that begins with "Everytime you-" is bait
>3. Don't unironically post anime
>4. Flags are enabled IRL
>5. Despite the constant bickering amongst caths, prots and orthos, we are actually in a PvE server. It's us against the World. If you'd like to think of it as the NPC meme then go ahead.
Lastly, don't visit Reddit. r/christianity is Canaan and brucemo is Moloch.