>>711402
>that there's nothing you can do to co-operate even with being saved, or you can't even reject it
Well, that's what the text says
<All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never cast out. For I have come down from heaven, not to do my own will but the will of him who sent me. And this is the will of him who sent me, that I should lose nothing of all that he has given me, but raise it up on the last day. For this is the will of my Father, that everyone who looks on the Son and believes in him should have eternal life, and I will raise him up on the last day.”
>>711405
>Jesus won't override your free will
Correct, Jesus doesn't "override" your free will, He restores it to a state of freedom and holiness.
>if you wish to leave Jesus
None of Christ's sheep wish to leave Him, because they have been set free from sin. They are slaves of righteousness.
>>711493
>meaning that some people are given "irresistible grace" their whole life, so they can do nothing but follow God essentially, and others don't get it and that's the end of that
Double predestination means that God is sovereign over the process of salvation. It means that if you're saved, it isn't because you met some condition to earn it, there was nothing so special about you, the only reason you are saved is because God gave you mercy you did not deserve. Single predestination is the idea that the only thing God really "predestines" is the task humans have to perform to be saved. So in this synergistic framework God's only choice is which special group gets to be saved of themselves.
>Catholics do believe there is irresistible grace but that's only baptism
Considering the term irresistible grace refers to the monergistic doctrine of regeneration, "Catholics" do not believe in it.
>it's up to us to co-operate with that grace or to reject it
That isn't what efficacious means
>The idea that no one can snatch the ones out of His hand refers to that God anyways knows who the people who will comply with Him are
Read straight into the text from an external tradition. What it actually meant when Jesus said it is that He is such a perfect savior that no one who receives His justifying grace shall ever fall away and lose it.