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>So I should love the man who kidnapped my sister?
Yes. Jesus told us to love your enemies, so we should love your enemies.
>I should love my sister for being a fool and falling for him?
No. You should love your sister despite that. Jesus loves us despite us being fools, and you should do the same.
>How am I supposed to love my sister
With difficulty. Following Jesus isn't easy. After all, anyone can love someone who loves them back, but if you love those who hate you back, then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High
>I should love that man's family?
Love your enemies, and do good to those who hate you. It's not complicated. Difficult, yes. It's been said that it is the hardest commandment of Jesus. But it's the second most important part of Christianity, after loving God.
>Are you for real?
I'm struggling to understand how you managed to find your way to this board while missing the absolute core of the Christian faith - love. It'd be like someone on /islam/ saying that we should be polytheists or someone on /buddhism/ saying that we should try to obtain as much wealth as possible.
> I should welcome him with open arms and make him food?
If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head. Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
You won't convince anyone about the love of Jesus by hating them.
>I should cater to his every need?
If you can, why not? If you physically cannot, or could be more productive helping others, that's fair. But if something won't stop you from helping others, there is no (godly) reason not to, unless you are directly helping them do evil.
>Sometimes you have to be angry
Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.
>Jesus got mad
But did he harbour hate?
>how am I supposed to love someone who did something so horrible to family?
The same way that Jesus loves you despite your sins.
>you should love everyone despite their transgressions against you
I'm not sure about how much you know about Christianity, but surely you've heard of the Lords Prayer, which says "And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us".
Get a bible, and read the four gospels. Reading them in order that they are printed works. Get out a physical pen and paper, and write down any commandments of Jesus as you see them, with no exceptions. Some of them will seem absurd. That's to be expected, as many (perhaps most) teachings of Jesus have been forgotten by the mainstream church. Sometimes they might even be contradictory. Mark them and come back to them later so that you can figure out a way that reconcile them. Ignore any miracles and the like, unless they are done to explain a teaching, because you either already believe in them and there's no point to being distracted, or you don't believe them and there's no point to being distracted by them. Once you're done with the four gospels, move on to the rest of the new testament, and do the same.