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5d6999 No.599489

Where can I find quality women to date that can eventually lead to marriage? I tried church but they either say no and say some bullshit along with it like "they belong to the church" (this was from a non-denominational church with no nunnery or nunhood program mind you), flip out and get angry while talking about it with her friends because I simply gave her my phone number (different church, this was at a charismatic pentecostal church), make typical bullshit excuses like worldly women do, or straight up ghost me (the last two happened at a different non-denominational church college youth group). I tried online dating and bars before but ended up getting 2 meet ups and 1 planned meet up that didn't lead to anything, an online gf that only lasted one day, spambots, and some girl that wanted to cheat on her husband because he has erectile dysfunction (she stopped messaging me after I told her that she has to divorce him first before we do anything). Here are my current stats and situation:

>Been saved for 8 years (9 years in a few months) and counting and baptized for 6 years now (7 years in a few days)

>Read the Bible from Genesis to Revelations (this would be my second time going through it again)

>age 27 (going to be 28 this year)

>lives in AZ,US

>has experience in martial arts, material and chemical engineering, programming in C#, Sun Java, and Scheme, HTML, and some in marketing

>worked in retail, manufacturing, and immigration

>used to hold a provisional patent

>currently doing projects with graphene while getting into reselling Yu-Gi-Oh and Magic the Gathering cards to buylisters and people for some money

>currently building a business with two other people I know

>can cook

>not fat but can do better (my body is closer to Alex Jones's body)

>full set of hair

>natural fu Manchu mustache that doesn't go beyond the ends of my upper lip

6ed24e No.599500

File: 4da6cff620f37f2⋯.gif (1.26 MB, 640x480, 4:3, 03e7652cbc7811f28b72c1fbb6….gif)

>my body is closer to Alex Jones body

kek, i am impressed by your choice for body comparison OP.

Also marriage is for normalfags, join the celibate master race my brother.


891068 No.599501

>>599489

BEGOME

I can tell you from personal experience that prottie women are either on social security or not interested.


e42af7 No.599504

File: 5ea766b9c57d1c3⋯.jpg (22.78 KB, 248x255, 248:255, ghheyy.jpg)

>>599500

pic related

>>599489

you need social skills and charisma, you sound really autistic just by how you write online, and having an alex jones body is a disadvantage unless you're in you're 40s


02d8ab No.599506

>>599489

>not fat but can do better (my body is closer to Alex Jones's body)

Young Alex Jones or sucking in his gut Alex Jones?

If you don't have time to go to the gym you could do calisthenics.


9a4033 No.599513

>>599489

>Alex Jones body

Is that with or without "Male Vitality"?

>>599494

>t. kike/MGTOW faggot

Women need to be lead, so you need to do your job finding the woman. Local church groups are a good start.


fa1b9c No.599529

File: 490c28b73dffe18⋯.jpg (16.42 KB, 295x300, 59:60, Dark-Triad-295x300.jpg)

>>599516

>If women are not interested in you it's a sign you are not a good leader

Women are often attracted to "dark-triad" type men.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886913012245

Yes, most of it is physical attraction but being physically fit doesn't automatically mean you'll be a good leader. Being able to physically submit others doesn't equate to good leadership.

Au contraire, most dark triad men are manipulative and cunning, the kind og guy you wouldn't want in charge of anything.

Now you put two and two together and you understand why so many women end up as single moms or get "pumped and dumped" and settle for an inoffensive chump once their look is fading.

I'm not even a MGTOW/redpill/r9k kind of guy, but they do have a point.


fa1b9c No.599534

>>599533

Read my link and my re-read post. It's not just masculine men, but predatory men. There is a difference, and plenty of physically attractive men are lamenting because they're trying to be virtuous people in a world of sharks.

OP seems pretty alright (not everyone is a super model) and yet he's struggling

Also money is important but -call me sentimental if you must- a christian woman who leaves her husband for a lack of money isn't worth it


fa1b9c No.599545

>>599536

A predatory man IS a masculine man.

However, would you let a predatory man in charge of anything?

Would you let a cunning, manipulative narcissistic man in charge of your house? Of your country? Your life?

Unless brute strenght is the only thing you need to be a -real man- in your eyes


309444 No.599563

I think you just need to work out and you'll be good. Make some time for that and get to it.


309444 No.599564

>>599563

Also ditch the mustache.


fa1b9c No.599580

>>599550

>ask god why he made women flawed or men like predators

What is the original sin?

The purpose of your life is to fight your bestial instincts but apparently since it's "natural" it's also ok.

Why marrying at all then? Ask God why he made people like sex for pleasure and pursuing multiple partners.


23fc75 No.599586

>>599489

>Been saved for 8 years

le mao


1b4768 No.599601

File: 9d6991613f6f69f⋯.jpg (9.48 KB, 250x250, 1:1, 1344841417347s.jpg)

>>599489

Here's the thing… you have a lot of sweet skills, but life is not like Napoleon Dynamite. What you ought to work on is your *social* skills.

>find a crew

If you can't attract friends, it's going to be harder for you to attract a girlfriend. Work on your non-sexual life as a prerequisite; learning to be a good friend is a necessary step to being a good boyfriend.

>learn how to be "just friends" with women

This is easier if the woman is not attractive to you, but the stronger your sense of self becomes, the more attractive the woman you will be able to keep at arm's length. If women realize that you're not sniffing after them, they will realize that there is something uncommon about you.

>don't have a time table

If you have a ticking clock saying, "I must be married by ___ date," you WILL fail. Enjoy the journey.


cd1ddb No.599623

>>599489

Dude, just give up like the rest of us.


474954 No.599740

the relationship thread is a good start


19e924 No.599759

File: adb1d716b62cf9c⋯.png (80.39 KB, 200x194, 100:97, Come_on_now.png)

>>599489

>wanted to cheat on her husband because he has erectile dysfunction (she stopped messaging me after I told her that she has to divorce him first before we do anything)

>I told her that she has to divorce him first before we do anything)

>before we do anything

Why are you even looking for a Christian woman if you're willing to sleep with a divorcee, which would make her (and by extension you) a fornicator?



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