/christian/ - Christian Discussion and Fellowship

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https://www.christianmingle.com/

https://www.match.com (secular, claims to have the largest Christian dating pool on the net, proceed with caution)

>Does it cost money?

You can set up a profile and browse for free, as only communicating via the site/app costs money. This can be circumvented somewhat by leaving your full name on your profile and the smart ones will make their cm handle the same as their fb/ig handle.

>What about whoresand whoremongers?

List yourself as "ultra-traditional" or whatever that setting is, regardless of your denomination. This shows you are serious about it and serves to avoid attracting the lukewarm and the desperate. You will still get them, just kindly reject them.

>What about pictures

Post pics from your social media to make you easy to identify if you're gonna be a cheap skate. Make sure the pictures show you at your best. No property showcasing or trashy club/party pics, good Christians don't do those things anyways, right?

>What will people think?

Don't worry about it. Care about your goal of embarking on a proper Christian journey of marriage with a mate you will see as your peer.

>What tier should I get?

3 months tops. You will either find enough suitors to keep you busy, find the one, or you will completely burn out due to lack of success.

>What can I expect?

This varies on population density, as larger towns will have more mostly low quality local suitors and rural areas will have fewer, yet higher quality and distant ones. Your distance tolerance is to taste, but be prepared to find the perfect person outside of your comfort/taste zone. If you don't find someone in 3 months, take a break, continue to improve yourself in Christ, then try again when you're ready.

>First date?

Coffee shop. Low investment opportunity to see if the truth lives up to the small talk.

>I can't find my denom, what do?

I and my waifu were both protties at the start of our relationship. Now I want to be chrismated Greek Orthodox and she's studying St. John Chrysostom for fun. As long as you both believe the Nicene creed and the Chalcedonian Definition, personal and familial tastes/compromises apply.

>What's your personal experience?

There are tons of lovely christian girls 18-25 on the site. I was starting to burn out because I was in my late 20's and all the christmas cake on the site were either divorced, had kids out of wedlock, hit the wall, desperate, etc. If you are <28 years old should have much more success than I did if you're just as devout yet younger than I was. I got the six month plan, got burned out 2 months in, managed to find my waifu right before the 3 month mark, and wasted the other 3 months I paid for. I am certain that my personal adherance to all of the above mentioned was essential to my success but your mileage may vary.

PLEASE FEEL FREE TO DISCUSS IN ORDER TO UPDATE OP FOR FUTURE THREADS, MAY THE PEACE OF THE LORD BE WITH YOU

>found my muse

>she is 12 years older than me

Life goes on for me I guess. Now that I think of it, I kind of more likely to be with someone older than I do. A nurse 6 years older, a college student 3 years older, a singer 12 years older. The only time it is someone younger (2 years younger) we both ended up sibling'ing each other because we do not really felt that way towards each other. More like familial love or platonic love. Want to live with and lean our backs on each other, but do not want to bone each other kind of way.

>>574991

>Friendzoned

Dude you have to be more assertive to set the parameters of the relationship. You don't want to get burned out like I was, its a hard place to recover from. You seem personable enough considering you met 4 women, but you have to take control or the woman will assume you're the one friendzoning them. Women want married sex as bad as you do. Best of luck!

>>574993

Not really friendzoned by the one whom I regarded as my little sister, I do not really feel like marrying or doing it with her. Like a sister from another mother. The nurse was a tragedy in the end. College student was when I was still a 1st year high school student, it was a frolic on both sides. The singer though, a case of one-sided bittersweet.

>but you have to take control or the woman will assume you're the one friendzoning them

You speak true in this case. I am kind of always drawn towards older women because of the sense that I can lay down all trouble and lean on back on her and her wisdom. Problem with that is because I am a guy, I have to take the lead.

>>575018

You could adopt.

I'm a MGTOW, because I oppose civil marriage. Civil marriage is degenerate, but it's also the only marriage option in my country.

Regardless of that women of the age group I'm in already failed to reproduce and are now infertile.

>>575034

Beats being unmarried or marrying and not having children, when there are orphans out there that need someone to care for them and be a father figure for them. You are benefiting the child's life. Being too wrapped up with /pol/'s obsession with cucking is not healthy. Remember a lot of them consider Joseph a cuck because God impregnated Mary.

I would say if you're going to adopt, adopt a kid of the same race to save the embarrassment of being regarded as a cuck though (and also for the child, as growing up with parents that don't look like him will be confusing), and don't tell people the kid is adopted unless necessary.

>>575038

Also adopting is not being a cuck. Yes I'm aware of the etymology with the cuckoo and all that but it's not relevant to what the word means now. Now it means someone whose wife has sex with another man. If you were raising your wife's daughter from a previous marriage or even if she used a sperm donor you could consider that you being a cuck, but adopting is not that.

>all these cute Catholic girls near me and a bunch of them are wearing veils

wew nice

>>575073

it's ok, i won't be contacting them because i'm too much of an autist

also online dating has too much competition

the best place to meet a girl is in your church by getting involved in activities, you should definitely go for it also

>You can set up a profile and browse for free, as only communicating via the site/app costs money. This can be circumvented somewhat by leaving your full name on your profile and the smart ones will make their cm handle the same as their fb/ig handle.

>Post pics from your social media to make you easy to identify if you're gonna be a cheap skate. Make sure the pictures show you at your best. No property showcasing or trashy club/party pics, good Christians don't do those things anyways, right?

What do I do if I don't have any form of social media?

>3 months tops. You will either find enough suitors to keep you busy, find the one, or you will completely burn out due to lack of success.

What do I do if it is the latter option? Going off of THOT standards, I am not unattractive, but had zero luck on Christian Mingle. I've never had a gf (but before coming to Christ got laid plenty of times in degenerate one-night stands) but my 'fortune' (read: God's will) with women is so poor that I'm seriously thinking that God may intend for me to join a monastery…

>>575076

What if I am the youngest person in my church and the youngest single girl is in her mid-40's?

>>575013

>Make up haram

They're also supposed to shut up during the service, but you don't see that do you? The privilege of femininity is being as cute as possible.

>>575018

Don't allow society to determine which genes are or aren't dysgenic. You could always adopt some slav kiddos.

>>575035

>MGTOW

I used to also be dude, I'm sorry you bought into the meme. But there's no way you're 50+, and even then I'm sure with a bit of working out you can find someone in her mid 30s.

>>575122

>too autastic for faceberg

Scan in some pictures from family gatherings, have mama take one of you in your sunday best. You orthodox are good dressers.

>what do if bernout

I already said that I personally recommend that you should bow out, continue to work on yourself via the OP, then try again when you feel up to it. You can get the 6 month plan, but I don't think its healthy for the soul. Don't blame God for your perceived lack of success, read the wisdom of the bible and see if you are lacking in something you might not be aware of.

>>575123

Invest in a cheap car, expand your search. I only met 2 on cm, the first one, which was almost as nice as my waifu, was 3 hours away. If it wasn't for my waifu, I would have made that trip in order to foster a christian relationship.

>>575128

Women eat up the Steven Anderson routine. But you gotta be able to quote the Bible as well as he does in order to make them see you as learned and trustworthy.

>tfw 5'6

Looks like Christ-chan needs to be pocket-sized to compensate. ;_;

>>575193

Plenty of short girls out there brother. Back in HS and even in college now I tower over most girls 6'3 master race but still see lots with similarly height men, even a few that are an inch or two shorter.

>>575193

I used to banter about with the manlet meme, until aesthetic bodybuilders started killing themselves because of it. There are lots of short women out there, girls just like taller guys because it allows them to wear heels and still be shorter. A Christian girl will compromise with flats and shorter pumps, bro.

There are no churches here which are not outright heretics. What are my choices? Joining one even though I don't agree with what they say, just to find someone? Seems incredibly immoral and unethical.

>>575202

>Argument from ignorance

I don't care what your dull senses lack to perceive, but I know I'm doing the right thing if I'm able to predict all the whining in the OP alone. Even if you live in Utah, being strong in doctrine will allow you to convert almost anyone. If Steven Anderson's goofy self is capable, as a college student, to turn a german pozzed feminazi into a traditional Christ-chan, then are you saying you're too stupid to even attempt it? If so, I agree!

Is it wise to look for a wife if you suffer from SSA? I'm not homosexual, but at times I am attracted to men.

>>575216

Steven Anderson is extremely charismatic though.

>>575234

man got a fire inside. I don't always agree with him, but he has some good points.

>>575236

>Lick 9 volts every time you think of cuteboiz

I don't like that stuff…

I am also the firstborn of five and I have suffered from depression since I was 13…I found "refuge" in the furry community and there I explored the darkest corners of my desires. I met God when I was 21, a Filipino priest saved me from myself (I almost had an heart attack due to how bitter and upset with God and the world I was, and he gave me physical and spiritual help). I was later raped by my room mate and now I flip flop from the bleakest of despairs to brief moments of pure happiness. Lately I am quite down, and tempted to just ruin myself once and for all (I live in London).

I don't know if a woman would ever want a "man" like me…I just generally feel like a damaged good, a broken doll, something onto which others should only project their hatred and take it all out.

>>575239

I don't care about your excuses. Maybe you should read the OP instead of making that mistake again. If you're here you have had the truth revealed to you, what makes you think that anything you've been through is an excuse to be a terrible Christian?

>>575240

I just hate myself. The only thing which stops me from committing suicide is I still believe in God.

>>575243

Boo hoo, git gud. I can't get you to heaven.

>>575245

I know, thanks for trying to help. I'm just disgusted by myself.

I tried and for a few months I was doing good…then, something went wrong, I met my sister and I realized how much time I wasted; my brother is a borderline genius, I wish I was as bright as him…and my father, I'll always be a shadow compared to him.

>>575246

Stop comparing yourself to other people. The only people you should compare yourself to are Jesus, and the man you were yesterday. If you are the same person you were yesterday, you're wrong, as you're the only one responsible for your own self improvement.

>>575249

any good read (Bible aside)?

>>575236

How am I wrong? He IS extremely charismatic.

>>575250

The OP for starters.

>>575251

And you can't be because?

>>575255

Genetics.

>wanting to be a normalfag

enjoy getting trampled on.

Based OP.

>the virgin atheist

>the chad tradcat

>>575018

Gene therapy could help you with that.

>>575246

You can still be a bright example for people in the same situation, who need to overcome sadness and vice.

Jesus wants you to be a saint.

>>575290

I think my biggest mistake was going back to /pol/…I even used a racist slur on my workplace due to how much I have been going there.

I just don't know what to think anymore…on one side I know God is real and wants me to be the best I can be; on the other there's this perverse pleasure in bashing myself and hating all I am.

>>575034

>Adoption is cucking yourself

I'm not even going to joke about this. You are blaspheming God Himself. See Romans 8:15-18.

>You both must want children and either desire or already have healthy relationships with family.

What if I don't want kids?

>>575323

Yeah, that makes sense.

>while making it clear that the you of the past is the past, and you have changed.

And in that case I really don't think it fit to pursue a wife for a very good while until that yes, the past is the past and I really have changed. Definitely solidified my instinct that I need to work on myself before even thinking about any of this wife pursuing business. O well, for the best no doubt.

>>575333

So long as you're still trying to get better and you live in Christ's way, you are always worthy of a wife material woman.

>>575337

To satisfy my lusts.

>>575337

The social events surrounding church are often the best ways to find Christian-inclined women. Some are more 'eventful' than others, so it's wise to be involved in many much like all social things in order to meet more people, and by extension more women.

>>575379

>all white/western/american women are whores who will cuck your shit up blah blah blah

What a bunch of BS.

>>575390

You have a lot of hate.

>>575390

>>575379

This thread isn't to point fingers, its for self improvement to inspire the confidence necessary to foster Christian relationships. Just because you've resigned yourself to making hapas that doesn't mean we all have/want to. Cheers.

>>575318

Blog post is what this general is for my friend. Go to the no fap thread, as it helped me realize a sin was being commited. When you start meeting and getting to know a chaste, Christian woman, your lust will begin to transform into a desire for much more than cheapened sex could ever provide. Turn to the Lord and repent, don't leave your "cleanliness" up to "chance". Once you cleanse yourself of that lust, you will honestly never even have to discuss it outside of using the phrase "sin, phase" and "darkness" to your choice girl.

>>575341

If you have sex then a child is going to be made.

>>575430

>Custom Robo

all is forgiven

>>575427

Why the sage?

>christianmingle

anyone try catholicmatch?

I haven't signed up for either yet

>>575550

Broscience christian edition™ always equals the worst kind of broscience.

>>575550

>>575551

lol I'm not lying, I've seen it before.

I believe the term is "prison gay".

>>575551

>>575550

It's true. For some men, abandoning women altogether is an easier thing then facing more rejection by women.

There's another reason that is somewhat related: sometimes, the desire for acceptance by females is so strong in young men that they convince themselves that they're gay in order to have something relatable between them and females, making it easier to have female friends - as females have been programmed in our society to let their guard down around gay males.

In both cases, whether their contrived homosexuality stems from rejection of females or desired acceptance from them, they are both centered around the young man's perception of what females think of him. It is NEVER about guys, what guys think of this young man, or what the young man thinks of guys. It is ALWAYS about females - a fact that destroys the myth of homosexuality as an intrinsic part of someone's physical or mental nature.

>>575384

You are doing well and don't forget all things are possible with god

>>575548

Do you think catholicmatch should be added to the next OP?

So I checked out Christian Mingle and noticed a girl that looked liked a girl I've been crushing on from my local grocery store. Checked out her profile and sure enough she lists that store as a part time job.

Should I ditch Christian Mingle and just ask her out in person?

>>575753

Let's not be farcical: You're not confident enough to approach her on the checkout line and ask for her number. You should try it, just say something like "Hey aren't you on cm? That's so cool, I thought that was you! Let's do coffee sometime, can I have your number?" Best of luck.

>>575379

Going on some of those dating sites I was actually shocked how many Filipino and Vietnamese women are apparently living around me. Also, nearly all of them seem to be Catholic. I don't really know if they are just more likely to seek out something like a dating site or what's the deal because they are definitely overrepresented compared to the overall population…

>>575390

>tfw you try for it and make it even with fucked odds and shitty blackpill articles like this

feels good. trust in the Lord

>>575379

asian women have always treated me better. i want to like white women, but none around me are any good. they are obsessed with themselves, they are obsessed with social media, and they dont fear god

a white women will expect you to treat her like a queen. an asian women will want you to be her king.

/pol/ autists, bitter white women, and insecure hapas will hate it but who fucking cares

>>575379

This copypasta is really gross. I sincerely hope you brothers don't do this.

Why would you partake in one of God's most sacred rites if you didn't care about the health of your children? It's effectively just masturbating with a woman's assistance. You don't give a shit about your children. You just want to have a kosher stamp on your cum dump.

Bonus points for not recognizing that the Chinese form of Christianity is overwhelmingly heretical as it includes copy-pasted ancestor worship they've been doing for 5000 years.

Even if it's bait, please don't do this. You might actually throw some people off the right path.

>>575847

its white womens fault for being so shit though. obviously we're going to notice asian women are less likely to be degenerate whores when white women are in their current state

>>575379

>Some bitter white women will say you can't handle a "real womyn".

It's white women, who got suffrage, then abandoned God. The state of previously white countries like Sweden is a direct result of this.

Regardless of where you go on the Internet, it's always about what white women want and how society can serve them.

That's why MGTOW is like kryptonite, even in so-called "redpilled" circles.

>>575548

No, but I am not in the prison gay camp either because I have greatly enjoyed relations with men in the past, and I have had homosexual thoughts since a very early age before I ever could properly understand sex or learn some twisted perception from anyone else.

>>575983

It's funny how everyone interprets his personal bogeyman into MGTOW.

Racists term MGTOW as "anti-white", as if black MGTOW never existed, you view it as anti-Christian.

It's Western (white) woman who opposed to building Christian families over 100 years ago, started murdering babies and spreading STDs.

That's why MGTOW came into existence, it's a reaction, not a cause.

>>576000

The problem is that MGTOWs mostly seems to be anti-marriage as a concept and pro being a bachelor who jerks off into socks and has sex with prostitutes. I can agree with them that marriage as an institution has been massively harmed by feminism and culture of promiscuity. But that doesn't change the fact that marriage as God has intended it to be is good, and should still be aimed for when possible in a persons life. Certainly if you are single, you cannot simply "go your own way" and do whatever you feel but rather must remain chaste.

>>575999

I have noticed that girls seem really interested in bible talk, I don't get why though

>>576003

>The problem is that MGTOWs mostly seems to be anti-marriage

MGTOW are anti (((civil marriage))) which was designed to undermine Christian marriage. (((Civil marriage))) now means that homosexuals can "marry". Any Christian should be against civil marriage.

Also you can't change white women by submitting to them.

>>576036

So how do you separate the bible talking virgins from the bible talking ex cock-carouselers who try to blend in and snatch up righteous men?

Seems like there's not much you can do but leave it in the hands of the Lord

>>574988

>Men should have a sunday best for church (blazer, shirt, tie, slacks, and dress, shoes), business and/or casual in general, and be assertive in regards to considering themselves, their woman, and the people important to her.

I'm not wearing a suit every day.

>>576041

>So how do you separate the bible talking virgins from the bible talking ex cock-carouselers who try to blend in and snatch up righteous men?

No hymen, no diamond.

>>576056

Leave it to a papist to not read. What part of Sunday best for church and business/casual don't you get?

>>576041

Demeanor. Sluts attach themselves superficially to our faith, can't quote the Bible but claims to be "so into it." A Christan virgin will basically act like an animu girl, rarely curse, and quote the Bible with reference. For example, my waifu won't even drink Eucharist wine because she took a goofy oath to never drink alcohol of any type. A whore would constantly try to lead you to deviant behavior.

i want christian gf!

>>576298

I have two sisters…both Christians; are you in Europe?

>>576649

Yes, I'm sure that's not an adbot at all.

>>576658

Reverse image search didn't bring anything up.

>>576664

Doesn't matter. You have to be careful with "omg so super kawaii" images on any dating site. You'll often get the cookie cutter response of "I don't like communicating over this site. Email me!" and that's the gotcha. You email the "girl" and suddenly you're flooded with porn spam. Either that or you'll get hit with the "Come talk to me at [website]" where [website] is full of malware.

>>576649

Asian women have such beautiful features. I'm pretty envious of whites and Asians, and how they sexuality each other.

>>576112

Near 100% organ rejection rates, 200% increased mental illness rates, near guaranteed identity problems, severe issue with peer connections and pair bonding, and children that have less genetically in common with you than some random white kid off the street not doing it for you?

Miscegnation is abuse. Genetic abuse. You're throwing away your heredity and your childrens' hope for a stable future by your current desperation. Let pious Asians marry other pious Asians so they can enjoy a whole family.

>>576705

my favorite feature is their soulless eyes. they look like little demons. its so cute

>>576496

im in america sadly

>>576649

dick her

>>576728

supreme was a result of shitting parenting. i showed his picture to a couple women and they said he doesn't even look bad. he was just an autist

>>576737

Personally, their androgynous features allows them to tip their perceptions to be really feminine looking people, but still unique enough by their eye to be distinguished. I never saw it as soulless, it always look like it was trying to be more like dolls eyes. How are demons cute?

>>575847

>skin idolater

I got oral herpes simplex virus type 1 guy's(I get scabby oozing sores on my mustache area). I never even been intimate with a women, I just picked it up some how. An std is the ultimate deal breaker right? How am I even suppose to navigate something like this?

>>576795

I dated a girl with the herp once. She also got it from birth, you just have to have some herp creme on stand by when you feel an outbreak coming on. I made out intensively with her, even towards the end of her outbreaks, and didn't catch it. However, I'm sure there's some genetic chance that you'll pass it to your kids. Just be honest with a girl you date more than 5 times that you get cold sores, which is what they are called when it isn't an std.

>>577603

*femininity (twice)

>>577603

I think most guys naturally want that affection and companionship from a good woman or else >tfw no gf wouldn't be a thing (maybe a poor example but you catch my drift). I definitely do feel that part sometimes, but what I can more relate to is noticing a genuinely feminine woman.

It threw me off for a little bit since I had been fooling around with modern women for years. I figured it would be good for me to stay single and just be friends with some of these girls, like it might teach me how to overcome my negative opinions on women in general, but it hasn't done much.

I've avoided occasions of sin by just avoiding showing any interest, meanwhile I still feel like my mind is darkened and susceptible to falling back into past sins if I were to start making myself more available. I am thankful for meeting some women at church that are a cut above the modern woman, but my experiences with them are the same, just without the degeneracy.

If there's anything I've learned recently, it's that giving up drugs, drinking, fapping, porn, or even vidya/tv is peanuts compared to a conversion of the mind.

I'm glad somebody replied before I left for Mass but I need all the help I can get so I am going to go offer it up to God. Thanks for the input my friend.

>>577609

>I think most guys naturally want that affection and companionship from a good woman

This. Or at least a good enough woman to make it through life with.

>>576739

nice doggie

>>577616

And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.

But Jesus beheld them, and said unto them, With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible.

We’re all gonna make it brah.

>>577641

>with god, all things are possible

i’ve literally weeped and felt great inspiration remembering this

>>577616

It's the past, but if she asks be ready to explain yourself.

>You can set up a profile and browse for free, as only communicating via the site/app costs money. This can be circumvented somewhat by leaving your full name on your profile and the smart ones will make their cm handle the same as their fb/ig handle.

Is this really acceptable? I found this chick who checks several boxes. Her profile doesn't mention anything about contacting her via other platforms, but I was able to find her Facebook just by using her first name and location. She was last online back in October. Guess it's worth a shot.

i downloaded tinder earlier today and after 10 minutes of browsing through profiles i gave up. all the women there are gutter trash. all so vain and obsessed with themselves. on top of that most of they don't even want a serious relationship. no idea why i even bothered.

I'm 29 and there's an 18 year old qt at my church and I think she likes me. Should I go for it or would it be scandalous?

>>575847

>overwhelmingly heretical as it includes copy-pasted ancestor worship they've been doing for 5000 years

>Catholic flag

>>578175

You don't want to date a kid.

>>578175

common rule of thumb for determining whether or not you're going to be seen as a creepy weirdo is:

divide your age by 2, then add 7, that's the youngest that would be socially acceptable. (21.5 in your case)

>>578175

>scandalous

The age gap isn't even that bad. Talk to her parents and feel them out. I'd never see you as a creepy weirdo.

>>578175

Don't listen to these guys. If you love each other, go for it. Talk with their parents first. You have a job/home? I would not want my daughter with some loser NEET living with their parents. Age doesn't matter, the AoC is a secular law made up by feminists to put younger females out of the market.

>>578191

>>578187

>>578197

>>578200

I'm actually quite close with her dad. He's protopsaltis and been training me in the byzantine chant for awhile. I've got my own apartment/car but I'm in between jobs atm.

I've never dated that young before and it just feels weird I guess.

>>578205

>I'm actually quite close with her dad.

go for it

>>578155

>Tinder

You get what you deserve.

>>578063

I actually did this a couple of times, but it turned out that the women were incredibly boring. But now you have insight as to how predictable women can be.

>>578175

>>578205

Go for it man, if her parents are cool with it who cares? I'm sure that dad is ready to feed one less mouth. Since you go to the same parish, I'm sure he'll check you out via the church intelligence agency that is parish gossip.

>>578205

Do it, anon. It's only weird by the world's standards.

>>578002

do you think any woman like i described would take me anyways

>>578175

>>578187

Forget that, women bond harder and more genuinely at that age. Why would you wait to date some busted 30 year old who is dating more out of desperation than a desire to find a genuine connection through Christ?

>>578191

>using rules made up by feminists, normies, and faggots

>Caring about the standards of secular society AT ALL

ISHYGDDT

>>578175

Go for it. The younger, the better.

>>578187

My soon to be wife is barely 21. Young age is better for bonding, as another anon said. They may be a little more emotional when they're younger, but nothing you can't handle.

>>578175

It's actually better for men to date younger women. However, make sure there are no weird laws where you live against dating an 18 year old for a 39 year old.

>>578221

Dunno, but if you think about it like this you're doomed to failure before you even start.

>>578234

if it helps shes 17 turning 18

i know i cant be thinking that.

Last 8 months have been horrible…not going into it

It's been a year since I got my first date, and what seemed, to me, like a nice catch. She later said she couldn't do a romantic relationship. I'm a bit bummed since I've had two other "dates" that were obviously not going anywhere, and now I feel like just waiting for God at this point. But waiting hurts hard.

>>578260

I have had relations with a girl I dated, before I became Christian.

I plan to tell my future gf/waifu very early in the relationship.

If she is herself a virgin, I believe she deserves a chance to back out if she isn't comfortable being with a non virgin (also confessing this to her early will make sure she isn't guilted into staying with you)

If she knows you've been with another girl and doesn't like this, she will most likely never be okay with it, and it'll just end up creating a divide between you.

I don't think it's a good idea to explain in detail unless she asks and genuinely needs to know to be at peace.

But it is a big dilemma. I don't think a virgin gf will ever be peaceful knowing her man has been with another girl, it'll make her feel insecure, and as if you could cheat on her at any moment.

I don't know if there's any way to assure your gf 100%, other than marrying her before God. That, constant love and reassurance.

>>578271

>other than marrying her before God

But that should be your goal to begin with. Reminder that heathens date, Christians court.

>>578274

Exactly, which is why I said it's the only way to assure a girl you will be faithful. But even marriage isn't a 100% guarantee of faithfulness, which is why you need to nurture the love after marriage as well.

>>578237

This is literally the thread for it.

>>578255

Y-you too

>>578260

Be honest. You're not a virgin if you've defiled another woman via fornication. You don't have to itemize every single time, but usually when a woman asks about your sexual past she is secretly trying to see if other women have ever seen you as desirable. What do you is apologize for not being as pure as her, and tell her that part of your life is over. The worst thing you can do is to let a thought linger in her brain, because her lack of confrontation will always lead her to assume the worst case scenario.

>>578262

>Waiting for God

Don't fall for that, waiting for God doesn't mean that you can neglect your responsibility as a man to self actualize because of babby's first minimal effort in the Christian dating world. Mingle at church, date socially, study the word, get fit, flatter women via cm/irl.

>>578271

Yeah I would definitely want to tell her early on for sure, I'm just not sure what to tell her.

>Yeah, uh, I've never had sex like, you know, sex sex, but I have had about every other kind of sex

I feel like actual sex is on another level than the sodomy in which I have partaken – obviously I know it is horrible and I wish for her sake and mine it would never have happened. I know that it isn't much of a comfort to her, but it is something to make the distinction isn't it? For myself I wouldn't feel as aggrieved by a potential partner's former sodomy as I would if they had previously had sex (though in all honesty I have no real room to feel aggrieved at either). Maybe I'm weird in thinking that way or maybe I'm just trying to rationalize my way out of feeling even worse about this than I already do, grasping at straws, being pedantic, but regardless I wouldn't feel like I was being completely honest if I answered either "yes" or "no" to the question of my virginity. So the obvious choice to not mislead her would be no I'm not, but I feel the need to qualify that with something. I don't have the words to do that.

>>578279

Yeah I'm definitely overthinking this. I think emphasizing that it's a part of my life is over is a good idea, and then let her ask whatever questions she feels she needs to ask while being completely honest with her.

>>578280

In that case, just tell her you were with a girl but didn't go all the way. No reason to tell her the details, I think even if she asks for the details it would hurt her more than relieve her.

>>578288

Actually that's a much more simple and concise way of expressing what I've been trying to figure out how to say and leaves her free to ask questions without me having to qualify whatever I say. Thanks, I didn't consider an answer would emerge from the vocabulary of the same secular environment that I allowed to suck me into this mess. Merry Christmas, God bless.

>>578175

Back in the day it wasn't even a big deal if a 40 year old man married a 18-20 something virgin. I know of a Russian man who married a Russian woman, beautiful like a painting, when he was 30 and she was 18 years old. Go for it and don't give a fuck what others think because those who condemn you are men, envying you, and women, envying her.

>>578205

I'm 26 and a girl told me she'll contact me when she turns 18, which will happen in 6 months. She's pretty and smart but I'm not sure she's religious, that's my biggest concern. Honestly, I can't even imagine myself with a girl my age because by now they've been in the casual relationship scene for 10 years and did God knows what.

>>574988

The responsibility is mine

to accept or decline

the corresponding privileges are non-existent.

JUST

DO IT

YOU FAGGOT

yes I know what I’m talking about. you just gotta nut up anon. life is short. Cheers

>>578225

>Caring about the standards of secular society AT ALL

>>578220

>It's only weird by the world's standards.

>>578200

>the AoC is a secular law made up by feminists to put younger females out of the market.

consider the following:

>23 “Everything is lawful,” but not everything is beneficial. “Everything is lawful,” but not everything builds others up.

>24 Do not seek your own good, but the good of the other person.

>25 Eat anything that is sold in the marketplace without questions of conscience,

>26 for the earth and its abundance are the Lord’s.

>27 If an unbeliever invites you to dinner and you want to go, eat whatever is served without asking questions of conscience.

>28 But if someone says to you, “This is from a sacrifice,” do not eat, because of the one who told you and because of conscience –

>29 I do not mean yours but the other person’s. For why is my freedom being judged by another’s conscience?

>30 If I partake with thankfulness, why am I blamed for the food that I give thanks for?

>31 So whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do everything for the glory of God.

>32 Do not give offense to Jews or Greeks or to the church of God,

>33 just as I also try to please everyone in all things. I do not seek my own benefit, but the benefit of many, so that they may be saved. (1 Cor 10:23-33)

Paul here is saying there's nothing wrong with eating this food,

but, since this pagan thinks that it's not something that a Christian should be doing, we shouldn't eat it.

moral of the story is that sometimes we should go out of our way to limit exercising our Christian liberty to avoid scandal, as would typically be the case with a man who's almost 30 dating a teenager in [current year.] i can't really articulate why, but the fact that this guy is close with her father makes it seem like it would be less scandalous though.

>>578260

it does not matter. male virginity does not exist. virginity is concept that can apply only to females.

>>579389

^Found the Mudslime

>>579389

nowhere in the bible does it apply the concept of virginity to men

>>579394

>most of math doesn't exist

>>579395

why are you holding men and women to the same standards when the bible clearly does not? a man is the leader, the woman is his follower. a woman should not care how many women her man has conquered in the past

>>579400

Extra-marital sex is sinful, so a man should not have had sex with any women whatsoever prior to marriage to his wife. The only exception is if he is a widower.

my fear of w*men IRL is making me gay, now I dont like womn because im very afraid they dont like me,

I dont want to end up being a sodomite. my libido is unhealthyly high,thus,problems arise.

Give me scientific or practical advice on socio-cultural grounds and not cliched directives to read the Bible. please

>>579427

stop watching porn. stop masturbating. go get help for your anxiety

>>579427

also, start with ugly or fat women, just to get your feet wet. you'll feel much more accomplished being with even an ugly/fat woman than a man

>>579435

All women are the same.

Dont be hiearchical of beauty please

>>579439

you're right. though i figured he'd be better being hierarchical of beauty than a sodomite

>>579427

>Give me scientific or practical advice on socio-cultural grounds and not cliched directives to read the Bible. please

Why did you come here?

>>579463

To receive advice.

why Should I receive the cliched advice or "just pray more m8"

many scientists are christians,do you know?

>>579473

You wanna play this game?

https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/cdc-homosexual-men-account-for-61-of-new-hiv-infections-but-only-2-of-popul for starters

http://healthland.time.com/2010/09/26/study-20-of-homosexual-men-are-hiv-positive-but-only-half-know-it/

http://www.wnd.com/2013/04/anotherkiller-disease-striking-homosexuals/

Then realize that due to God giving you up to your own reprobate mind means that no matter how good you think you are, your stubbornness in spite of many of our faith begging you to stop your faggotry guarantees you hell and an end to your genetic lineage. Then realize that by virtue of the above, you will guarantee your life will be shortened by as much as 30-40 years, and at the end of that life you will be poor paying for those expensive grids treatments. All because you're too much of a bitch to do the requisite legwork to prevent it from happening, all because EW GRILZ HAB COOTIES. That you would come to the thread, designed to help you succeed, and continue your whining makes me hope satan places you next to all the child molesting satanists to be purged in the coming years.

>>579427

read the bible please

>>579473

>>579427

Read bible and pray

>>575379

>Get thee to Asia and find a real Christian wife.

Some of us just don't find Asian women attractive.

>Please spare me any "muh white race" garbage.

Agreed 100%.

>>579658

>church approaching 0%

absolutely depressing

>>579662

the church based online scene is probably taking off though. yes, they exist.

>>579670

i know :(

I read a lot of "as a man you need to" rather than "as a woman, you need to"

Nope. Fix it.

>>579670

>>579670

Apparently Tinder's appeal is declining for all but the sluttiest of women who are using it purely to arrange one-night-stands. Bear in mind this is anecdotal, but I have heard from a lot of my female friends that 'no one is using Tinder anymore' because people have woken up to the fact that starting right off the bat with an openly declared sexual and visual interest the first time you meet someone is a rotten foundation stone for lasting love.

Someone I know described it as an attempt to start on two rungs of the courtship ladder at the same time. In a natural, face-to-face scenario, two people will get to know each other to at least some extent before anyone suggests a romantic interest. There are a few rungs on the ladder to climb first. But with Tinder, you are simultaneously trying to start from the bottom rung - meeting someone for the first time and discovering some basic information about their personality - and also from several rungs up - an explicitly-declared romantic/sexual interest. This is made all the worse by the fact that the declaration of interest is made on the basis of nothing more than a photograph and a brief self-introduction.

Unfortunately many people feel Tinder is a last resort because they do not make any opportunities to meet people in real life outside of a nightclub (no church, no hobbies, no evening classes, etc.). This is one reason why some women are moving to Bumble as a last resort, because it has the same functionality as Tinder aside from the fact that only the woman can initiate contact. It's only a matter of time before they discover that this supposed shield is a highly superficial one, and does nothing to remedy the fundamental fault with online dating apps.

Its yet another a contributory factor, alongside all the others we see around us: as online dating became more popular, the rate of marriage declines, the rate of divorce within marriage increases, and more and more people end up with longer and longer strings of short-term sexual partners.

>>575753

no shit ask her out in person you retard

>>574988

>but if you lack one of these, you potentially limit your dating pool to others who share your faults.

LOL good luck enforcing this. I've slept with over 21 women but I still would never settle for anything less than a virgin bride.

>>579767

and theres nothing wrong with that. women dont give a fuck about how many women you've been with in the past. yes, even virgin women. if anything, not being with enough women is a red flag to them

you fags need to stop pushing this male virginity thing. its irrelevant

>>579774

(you)

>>579774

Exactly. OP is probably a lanky virgin who thinks he deserves a beautiful virgin bride because he has the same moral strength as her.

It just rarely works out like that in the real world. If he was practical, OP would realise that it's guys like you and me who are best positioned to actually get that virgin girl because we have extensive experience approaching, flirting, dating, and physically connecting with all women in general. Meanwhile OP is the kind of kid who does the hover hand over the girl he likes in group photographs.

>>579790

Na. Fucking a lot of women will not make you a better husband to your future wife and OP being a virgin doesn't make him a bad husband. Simply put, the bible doesn't treat men and women the same and neither should we. There is no value in male virginity - that's all I'm saying.

>>579792

> Fucking a lot of women will not make you a better husband to your future wife and OP being a virgin doesn't make him a bad husband.

I never said that. I just said it puts you in a better position to actually seduce and marry the girl in the first place. I fully accept that fucking a lot of women won't make me a better husband.

>>579795

you want a woman who is a pure virgin, but you also want one that's vulnerable to seduction? if she gives it up to you seducing her, she'd give it up to anybody else and isn't really "pure".

>>579801

nigga what are you talking about, every female on this earth is vulnerable to seduction.

Every girl has the potential to give it up to anybody else and isn't really "pure". Do you really think you're unique and not interchangable? If you die your future wife would just marry the next kid off the block

>>579802

no, not every woman in the world is vulnerable to seduction. why are you even on a board about faith if you can't imagine somebody resisting the temptations of the devil? it's obvious you don't care about christ and are just here to stroke your ego. remember that pride is a sin.

>>579803

You're talking like seduction is a bad thing. Every girl gets seduced by their husbands unless it's an arranged wedding. Therefore every girl is vulnerable to seduction, under the right conditions.

When I say seduction I don't mean sex, but to elicit desire in the girl. Desire for a relationship or whatever. I think we are misunderstanding each other here.

>>579676

I made it as gender neutral as possible, only does the section that specifically pertains to gender expectations, of which women's expectations are itemized. You probably think so because you're a man reading it, but I encourage you to re-read the OPs. Cheers

>>579767

>>579790

>ad hominem

You couldn't be further from the truth if you wanted to, but since it's all projection on your part I'll just pity and encourage you through this.

>Good luck enforcing this

What part of potentially don't you understand? Just as you don't want a whore, why can't a woman also not want a whoremonger? That's guilt messing with you.

Any tips for "about me" section for dating profiles? I'm a literal autist and I don't even know what to put. What do your profiles look like?

>>579816

Which gender violates these expectations more or less and who is the target audience of OP? Which gender do you THINK reads here more?

This more urgently belongs on /r/twoxchromosomes to women who want to get married.

>>579868

Talk about your wanting to replace your 2d daki for a 3dpd christ-chan, verbatim. Just bullying you, nerd Use the first paragraph to describe yourself using the general expectations OP paragraph. Then what you want from the general expectations OP paragraph. IE…

Hey, I'm insert full name here for fb stalking. I'm insert height here, insert weight here and insert age here old. sentences about gym frequency, church name, attendance frequency and hobbies. sentences describing your faults, any body mods. I am not looking to have any sort of physical relationship before marriage. (You should have pics in profile to back up the following:) I like to dress well for church and semi-formal events, because I know I represent God. I am a very traditional insert denomination here since year saved who is looking to start a family with a similarly traditional desired denomination(s) opposite sex for the glory and honor of our Lord and savior Jesus Christ. As such, I hope to find someone that insert desired height, weight/fitness level, age ranges. Someone who also wants to have a family, goes to church as often as I do, and insert desired opposite sex role characteristics. That means that they echo your levels of faults, body mods and sex responsibility. Its ok if you list compromises based on your shortcomings here, as the only one who's perfect is Jesus. If you don't have what I am looking for, I hope you have luck elsewhere but please don't message me. God bless you and thank you for looking at my page.

If you're lucky enough to not have any potential dealbreakers like divorce, side kids, body mods et cetera, I wouldn't even mention smaller things. Let the person see you in the flesh before they choose whether or not they want to continue the possibility of relationship. This is a really general format that depending on you will have to be rearranged for proper grammar/language/syntax. Best of luck.

>>579892

>reddit spacing

>assuming plebbit and our faith are compatible

>assuming one gender is more capable of faith considering the OP is written as gender neutrally as possible as to not alienate the odd /christian/ gril here

Why do you keep pretending you belong here?

>>>/reddit/

>>579816

LOL sorry for feeling guilty and 'projecting' bro

>>579898

what if I dont have a faceberg or social media?

>>579993

i dont have facebook or social media either. i was asking what to put to the about me on dating websites

>>579993

>>579995

>>575169. I'll add it to the next OP. Get your family/friends to take pictures of you in your sunday best and business casual. Nerds

>>576041

See this book >>574226

>>576071

>No hymen, no diamond.

That's not reliable since some women have either very little hymen that doesn't cover it entirely or have no hymen all together and naturally.

>>580008

>some grils don't have hymen naturally

Don't fall for that meme, my friend. There's only one way to perforate a hymen, insertion. The real reason it shouldn't be forced is because it is hypocritical to demand of women what we have denied for ourselves. If a man is a virgin, he has a right to want one for himself and vice versa.

>>580041

Would it surprise you to know that I love you all so much because I was once like you? I didn't have my first gf until I lost a considerable amount of weight at 18. I once weighed almost 290 lbs and have lost almost 100 lbs since. What I seek to do in this thread is to give you guys the advice and encouragement to stay firm in the faith and self actualize that I lacked at your age.

Don't go to uni anything, go to a traditional Orthodox or Roman Catholic parish to grow in. Modern, liberalized, charismatized Christianity is a mindpoison, only the baptists are worth anything on the protestant front at this point. More women are going to college in history because they are stupid enough to believe what the jew media tells them. This means that they don't believe in God, just what they have been convinced that reality is. You're not single because you're not as social as your peers, I'm autistic as heck and still found the truth. Go out on a limb, listen to my writings and stop making excuses for what you think you lack. If my retarded ass could do it, you can too!

>>580054

Hot dang anon, it's like you're trying to make something out of all these complainers. Godspeed!

>>580601

The first step is admitting there's a problem. You're on your way to greatness in Christ Jesus.

I’m a porter in a huge hotel…I think there’s a gal who likes me. I’m too shy to ask her out, as afraid of being reject as to receive a yes from her. Also, she’s Romanian this Orthodox and I’m Catholic… is it true that we are often indoctrinated into being such weak men? I recall how they used to tell me to “respect” women and thus making me always worried around them, like they were superior beings I was not allowed to even look at, even less think of touching them (yes, I long for human contact that badly…)

>>580041

I’m 27 and I never had a gf; all I had was homosexual intercourse, women taking advantage of me and a mouthful of rape when I tried to turn away from that past.

My friends from a former workplace of mine had a work night out and invited me the other day, there were some Christmas temps there, a quiet girl caught my eye, she was so shy and lovely, attractive in an unconventional way, but she is in a relationship. From what I gather, is like her, quiet, shy and possibly autistic.

However after adding her on Facebook, she messaged me, asking how I was feeling (Hungover, obviously).

It isn't often a girl messages me and I can't help but misread the situation.

>>580700

She's looking to monkey branch to you. The assumption is that if she does it to someone else, and will do it to you. I would tell you to go for it only if she's even Christian and you are strong enough of character, body and faith that she couldn't ever consider leaving you.

>>580690

I was indoctrinated with the same train of thoughts. When I told my ex-girlfriend of how I am astonished that women actually find men (in one way or another) attractive and also long for physical and emotional intimacy, she was quite surprised to hear that. You have to keep in mind that women are also human, differently wired, but human, with humans needs like everybody else. My upbringing and misguided media consumption corrupted my view on women until I was 19 years of age. Do not be afraid to be the aggressor and approach the woman, for you are born a man and have to learn to act like one, like it or not in the beginning, you will get accustomed to it with perseverence.

>>580723

The thing is: I’ve been hurt so many times I’m lottery either too afraid or too in need for human relationships… I often flee from those who love me and stay next to people who abuse and take advantage of me like a kicked dog which comes back to the abusive owner. I think the events which led to me being raped further wounded my mind and now I see relationships only as a power play similar to violence at one’s hand and submission to it on one end

>>580731

My brother, I can relate to your pain since I suffered, also, a great deal in my life. The discrepancy between repelling your fellows but also having the urge for company is a problem, so, I isolated myself from everyone in order to not be exposed to any risk. Now that I am out of the toxic environment I lived in, the chance to have it better is now there. Do the same, cut off ties to those who are poison to you; it hurts only short term, but on long term you will notice the overall positive difference.

>>579903

>>579892

>when you don't have an argument

>>580723

>>580731

>>580751

Enough with this gynocentric bs. We were raised by feminists to think a certain way only to find out that they require us to unlearn the very same bullshit they taught us. I know at least one of you attended public school and were indoctrinated as a CHILD to learn that bullshit. What's the message then? The message is that they don't give a shit about you. They effectively taught you that it's better if you do not exist.

The only way to solve the problem hypothetically is to take women's rights away. There is no other way around it. Women are just reproductive livestock. They have no coherent thoughts. They don't build anything.

The talk on this thread is to knuckle up and improve yourself for a woman. And? What are they doing to better themselves for us? They're not doing shit. And obviously you holy mother white left beta cucks aren't saying shit.

>>580759

You're supposed to have a wife to better yourself WITH her, not FOR her. She's not the prize, the man is. And the woman makes the man.

>>580759

You were raised on the internet, your sample group of women are yt/twitter feminists and dating profile screenshots.

> Women are just reproductive livestock. They have no coherent thoughts. They don't build anything.

Take that flag off and shut up.

Knuckle up and improve yourself for yourself, and for the glory of the immutable God.

>>580759

Women really don't have to do anything though. If they're average looking and not totally psycho crazy, they'll do just fine. I remind men every chance I get, you can't really begin to imagine how much male attention a woman gets. Loads of messages, people hitting on them, they can really have their pickings. And nowadays, the trend is haremization, they would rather share a man with 5 other women than 'settle' for a man they consider sub par.

>>580759

>holy mother

>white left

Go away, Black Pigeon!

>>580772

That video was awesome, but I'm not bp.

>>574988

Hello christian mingle marketing team.

>>580776

>find someone who does need/want you and date her

They don't need me, they have 10 other guys waiting in line at any point in time. Also, define outgoing. It necessarily includes going to bars, that's where most women are. The ones that don't frequent such places are so rare and in such high demand that an average male can't really hope to get them. I stopped being outgoing because I saw there was nothing for me out there. And before you mention Christian youth groups, that's a very, very mixed bag in my experience.

>>580768

>>580776

There's that gynocentrism I'm talking about. No that's not all they have to do. If your daughter can't resist, then the father whose responsibility is his daughter's chastity needs to be taken more seriously than that hypothetical "he" is taking it. And if your daughter is deflowered, pursuant to exodus 22:16-17 the father can demand marriage. It's called a "shotgun wedding." No sane father who wasn't stripped of his authority over his family would allow his daughter to be a whore. Would you?

I'm not making excuses for shitty women and shitty fathers, they've already made enough for themselves. And you're effectively being a cuck

>>580777

lol checked

>>580782

Bro, I understand all about that father protecting daughter thing but my dude, that's a thing of the past, a loooong past. Realistically, how many fathers today do that? We can larp about that all we want, but that's no longer realistic. I've never heard of anyone doing it. The closest thing was one girl telling me she doesn't go out because here parents don't let her, then I saw her in a club photo 2 weeks later in a mini skirt and high heels.

>>580759

>We were raised by feminists

We were raised by the Jews who follow the Talmudic law, feminism is one of many symptoms. Also, when have I come off as insufferable about the whole indoctrination? Are you illiterate? I wrote about the past, not the present.

>>580787

Then you just proved my point. Men have no authority over their family. That's a significant bargaining chip removed by the state for marriage.

if the corresponding privileges to marriage have been removed, why should I as a man take on the responsibilities?

I get to enjoy the same lack of privileges with or without marriage. If it's gone, fine, it's gone. Then there's no point of contention remaining on your end. =/

>>580789

Because you're just playing the it's this it's them game. Yeah the Jews are at the head of central banking is evil but that's not even relevant because if we were all secure in our property then the state which enforces taxation and the use of federal reserve notes would have no effect on our lives on an individual basis.

The state enables the Jews. The state enables feminism.

>>580813

>I get to enjoy the same lack of privileges with or without marriage.

I don't dispute this. I dispute the proposition that men should 'improve' themselves just to get modern women. That's all I keep hearing, about responsibility and whatnot. What for? It just leads to pointless suffering, Chads are not a meme, they're very much real and for a reason.

>Hey once I get into church some more I'm gonna meet some trad qts

>Get in church

>Leadership

>Meet the trad qts

>Still don't like them

I really am going to be a priest, aren't I?

>>579898

All you forgot was you bank details to become full nigerian win.

>>581106

I thought Orthodox priests could still marry?

>>581110

Only if you marry before you're ordained I believe.

>>581112

>>581110

Yes. I wouldn't speak for anyone else but they are two separate vocations to me. I couldn't balance being the father of a family and being the father of a parish. I only realistically see myself joining the clergy after becoming a widower or something.

I still have plenty of time time, but it's discouraging to not even be remotely interested in these women. If anything, I'm tempted to be harsher on them. This worries me now that I'm coming in a position of responsibility.

>>581106

is me phoneposting. flag up now.

>>581110

>>581112

Orthodox priests can marry whenever they like, before or after ordination. Orthodox bishops cannot marry.

>>581180

Nope, >>581112 was correct, Orthodox priests cannot marry after being ordained but can be ordained while married if it's their first marriage. (http://www.sourozh.org/orthodox-faith-texts/priesthood.html I know it's the case for the Greeks too but can't be bothered looking too hard). Bishops at least have to be celibate and in practice are almost exclusively hieromonks (regulars).

>>576126

>He only goes to church once a week

>He then misunderstands another man, and insults him, not realizing that he goes to church everyday

>>578344

How do you even get into a situation like that? If she is, in fact religious, then I'm a bit jealous

>>582048

Even the greeks and baptists dress down for weekday services. I love you, get over yourself, papist.

>>582051

Guard your heart against jealousy my friend, listen to the counsel before you and the Lord will bless you with a spouse of your own.

>>581106

Don't blame the women. How can you not be into such virtuous women? When my girl has a long skirt and sleeved shirt, it takes considerable will power to not defile her before our wedding day.

>>581206

I'm surprised you'd even care, but it does inspire me to one day take up the cloth.

>>583068

i will pray for you

>>574988

>Similar body types, gym attendance rates, intellectual pursuits, income levels, race, etc.

I'm a /fit/ guy, but I don't like /fit/ women. A girl with my body type is simply disgusting to me. This might be great for you, but not for some of us.

>>583327

Read your bible more, because the ease in which you equivocate "similar" with "exact" saddens me. I know you don't compete, and only the women who compete are the ones that are universally considered ugly due to excessive musculature.

So, have there been any success stories as of yet? I've been seeing some guys claim of cuties near them, but no confirmed dating has been happening.

>>582048

Even priests wear slacks, a buttoned shirt and their collar under their vestments for every one of their services, stop being a baby.

>>584939

That's strange, I'm on week 3 of nofap and I feel like a sexual monster. I hope those cath cuties can reignite that passion for a great, Christian relationship fellow anon.

>>584939

In time, pumping all that iron is gonna increase your test. I've found that no fap increases the difference between your baseline emotional state and the aroused emotional state. I no longer get riled up just upon gazing on the odd nude female form, but even holding my girl's hand is becoming a temptation.

>>588390

I would also like an answer to this. How far are you allowed(if at all) to go into that stuff or is it a satanic?

>>588390

>>588501

Try getting a wife a finding out for yourself, retard.

>>588537

What kind of post is this? What did you mean by that? We are asking here because we don't know if it's sinful, what does a wife have to do with this?

>>588390

>>588501

I can't think of any reason why dressing sexy in private or having your wife be sexually submission would be a sin. The exact rules for sex/fetishes as to if they are sinful are different among denominations.

How much social media is a red flag? There's a girl I know who posts several times a day on Facebook, but it's mostly just jokes, Christian activism, and apologetics stuff. Avoid?

>>589341

It's not a red flag if her posts are wholesome like you say.

>havent been on this divine cesspool in ages

>feel like checking out a dating thread

>theres an entire general for it now

God bless every single of you

>>575013

>mid 30s and up

24 year old here. Yeah older women are a dream, much more interesting to talk to. More vivacious.

>>575379

why not both? american hapa.

>>575334

>So long as you're still trying to get better and you live in Christ's way, you are always worthy of a wife material woman.

Th-thanks anon. Glad to read this, great affirmation.

>>575334

This is one of the most idiotic things I’ve ever read in my life…

>>578191

not him but 24 here. still going for 18 year old catholic virgins, good luck trying to stop me

>>578235

>17 turning 18

Well well well, welcome to my dilemma!

>last summer, 23, visiting friend's ice cream/burger joint her mom owns

>one of their employees is 16 and looks at me like im Sexy Actor Man #5657 (Channing Tatum I guess?)

>24 now, she is at least 17

>age of consent in IL is 17 so not even society can stop me

Obviously it's still frowned upon but…I need to get to her before society does and fills her head with degen trash. Approaching her father, of course. Just need to see her again…

I pray for you, brother. It is a rare, rare thing to meet a beautiful woman who somehow in her right mind also finds you attractive. God speed.

>>578344

We need to hash this out.

>if she's religious

If she hasn't done anything beyond innocent kissing, isn't the answer "who the hell cares"? You can lead her to be religious. Obviously don't force it, but in her will spark a natural fascination with religion simply because guess what? You are religious. Yes, it's that simple because YOU'RE the leader. You don't even need to "try", it's just the natural state of things. So I wouldn't drop her if she isn't religious, just as long as she is showing signs of being open to it/receiving it well and hasn't jumped on that infamous carousel I hear so much about.

>>581117

Why would you want to be harsher? What? Why do you dislike them? Or are you just not attracted to them?

>>583475

Not him but who gives a shit if a woman is fit? Just as long as she isn't a fat ass and that might be natural+good diet. I guess it's a good habit so she STAYS fit through the years but she doesn't need muscles at all.

Whereas yes, all men should do cardio and I would say even learn to box so you can, God forbid, defend your family should the occasion arise.

>>589420

Seriously. Skimmed or semi-skimmed "milk" is on par with soy "milk" or similar garbage. If I find out that someone I know drinks anything but actual full-fat milk I instantly lose all respect I had for them. Only if forced to would I drink skimmed or semi-skimmed "milk".

>>589392

My grandfather married a 21 year old when he was 31. I also want that life

>>589611

Yeah, my great-grandfather started dating his wife when she was 14 and he was 20. He asked her father and he okayed it. He had his own farm and they raised my grandma and 2 other kids together. Back then they did it right.

>>589341

What >>589346 says.

Its not really that big of an issue if shes not posting constant updates on her life.

eg. Feeling Sad ))))::

or

eg. Posting pics of herself multiple times a day

If its relating to Christian activism or apologetic, thats good stuff. Can never get enough of that. Unless its some crap about Christians accepting gay marriage or something.

Instagram is the biggest red flag imo.

Is it okay to try and redpill your gf/wife to try and make her more anti jew and anti black?

Or is that sinful because of trying to alter the way she is

>>574988

>Recommended height up to +/- 9 inches

So you're saying I stand a chance with that 6'5 musclefu at the gym? Let's do this.

>>589770

> Is it okay to try and redpill your gf/wife to try and make her more anti jew and anti black

> anti black

I think you need to stop being anti an entire race. Being aware that blacks have a lot of problems, being aware that racial differences exist, even advocating for racial seperation, that is not inherently against Christianity. Those subjects are up for debate. But actually being opposed to black people generally? Not acceptable, because we are all made in God's image, and all are in need of his grace. Christian Identity is meme tier heresy. I should add that being against the Talmudic fake Jew identity isn't bad, though again hating everyone who is of the Semitic race is (especially considering the racial "diversity" of Jews these days, they range from fully middle eastern to fully white to that weird mixture of white and middle eastern).

> Or is that sinful because of trying to alter the way she is

What? No, trying to alter someone's opinions isn't bad, that's silly. That certainly isn't the problem here.

>>589341

Its a red flag when its nothing but selfies in their place/job and other solipsistic egotism. Church posting is ok unless its selfies of holding a bible and a out of context scripture.

>>589398

Because if you date someone that's not your aesthetic peer, you will grow to disdain their lack of personal responsibility. This is someone you're gonna be waking up next to for the rest of your life, why do that to yourself? That's avoiding entirely the health aspects or the argument too. Stop filling the thread with single replies.

>>589420

>>589423

Look up the nutrition facts for full fat and fat free milk. Once you start to get to the 2 year mark of being in shape, you're going to have to start leaving things behind to reach higher goals. Just the fact that you're unwilling to even sacrifice something as superficial as muh taste lets me know you don't even, as fat free milk is actually nutritious and lacks the excess fat with xenoestrogens of soy based products. Your call. Stop filling the thread with single posts.

>>589770

I hate people like you, so utterly brainwashed that you can't think outside the jewish pilpul paradigm. Being knowledgeable about the jews and blacks shouldn't fill you with hate, just pity. Its not hate to ask her to not being in black infested places since they are 25x more likely to assault/rape her there. Its not hate to be aware of how jews are trying to exterminate us Christian and distort our history with their passive aggressive media campaigns. Grow up.

>>589776

Whatever floats your boat. As funny as I find that fetish to be, the sad part of life is that it would be biologically impossible for such a woman to desire you in such a fashion, because their desire for hypergamy will force them to desire someone more "desireable" than they are.

God bless you all, the second thread is in the oven, I appreciate all of the discussion and encouragement!

>>589776

>>589859

>anti jew

>anti black

how is being anti-something hating it? It's just acknowledging that it is bad, and avoiding it / not associating with it.

>>589859

>>589876

>I hate people like you

hypocrite much?

>>589890

>is it true or a myth that if I continue not fapping girls will be drawn to me and then I can choose one?

pride. no fap/no porn does not make you better by nature of doing it. Christ does.

>>589895

I asked a biological question.

if I continue not fapping girls will be drawn to me and then I can choose one?

>>579705

>Social media has blown the ego of woman out of proportion and nothing short of a technological collapse will bring it back down to stable levels. I genuinely pray that God sends a solar flare to earth that will render technology useless and send humanity back to the dark ages over night.

We could have a whole topic about this problem. The other problem is thirsty men giving women attention over every little thing they do. They get addicted to this nonsense social media praise much in the same way men get addicted to porn these days.

>>589890

>>589896

In all honesty, no. It's a myth. You'll feel more confident, and that will reflect in your composure, but the confidence is what women will find attractive, and you can choose to display it or not. Women aren't magically attracted to you when you don't fap, but not fapping helps you develop the personality traits more attractive to women.