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3ef3ec No.561611

Pick up (term synonymous with seduction), differently coined "game", is a relatively new thing, although it seems that the very thing that this term defines has existed ever since the beginning of mankind (Or perhaps since Adam's fall, this is a pretty interesting thing to consider). In order to get the female, men had to "game" otherwise they would remain without a spouse, and ultimately without Marriage.

There is a pretty considerable amount of people on the internet (and off the internet) that name themselves pick up artists (PUA short), and what they do is that they go out almost every night and, for the most part, try to have sex with a girl. From their standpoint, the sooner, the better, the more, the better.

From the Christian standpoint, this is obviously wrong, especially the sex part.

But, as with every thing, there is a grey zone in the Pick Up community. Some people use pick up to get girls but not for the goal of meaningless sex, but for a long lasting relationship.

The question I want to ask is – is this a sin? If you are manipulating someone to love you, and especially if you are doing so by putting up a mask of a different you, are you commiting sin? Im not sure this relationship would last and end up as a healthy and stable marriage, because a lot of facades fall off when two people live together, even if they were trying their best to be "themselves".

so tl;dr, how do i get girls? :(

447766 No.561632

Understand that PUA works for various reasons that the manosphere often discusses at length. Your goal should not be to imitate the PUAs, but understand why what they do works, and mold yourself into a man that exhibits the attractive characteristics that PUAs exaggerate. For instance, a common concept in Game is aloofness. The lesson there isn't to push-pull a woman into having sex with you; the lesson for you as a Christian man is to understand that women are turned off by men that cling to them or are much too attentive. Women want men that respect the nature of men and women - that the man comes first, and the woman is his helper. As a beta male, your tendency is likely to pedestalize the woman. PUAs understand that they must not treat the woman as a prize to be won; instead, they treat the woman as though the man himself is the prize to be won by the woman instead. That is aloofness applied correctly. It's insanely attractive to women - a man that appears to know what he's worth to women.

The point is that PUAs understand that gender roles have been thoroughly confused. They develop methods of demonstrating normal gender roles, but exaggerate them within the hookup environment for an easy lay. As a Christian, you can learn the principles behind normal gender roles and apply them in a moral manner.


104c54 No.561642


2e1db1 No.561645

Do not look for sex. Make new friends where ever you can. Sex will follow naturally after that.

Start jacking off if you don't already.

(USER WAS WARNED FOR THIS POST)

3ef3ec No.561647

>>561645

>start jacking off

sorry but just so there's no confusion this is very bad advice


2e1db1 No.561650

>>561647

It's a lot easier to find a woman if you aren't just desperately searching for sexual relief.

It's a lot easier to keep a woman if you can last in bed.


7158df No.561652

>>561611

>If you are manipulating someone to love you

I don't get the line some people draw here. When someone does a set of actions and they come from their own personality and are unforced, just their natural actions, then its ok and there is no manipulation going on. On the otherhand someone who is very uncomfortable with women and does not have natural actions that will help him with women essentially studies the actions of the successful men and reproduces them, but for whatever reason the same set of actions is now manipulative. Its roasties setting rules to make them look less foolish, and their pet men enforricing those rules.

Inb4 take a shower, learn a language, take up a hobby, spend more time on your career, learn an instrument, practice mindfulness meditation, and volunteer

>>561642

Get of the internet Tyrone

>>561645

Back to reddit


ab1c1c No.561654

>>561611

All that game/pua is just learned charisma. There are some christian "pua" sites if you are interested that focus more on attaining a wife than random flings and fornications.


3ac8eb No.561655

>>561645

>anglicans


ab1c1c No.561657


fd4a88 No.561660

it DOESNT exist so discussing it is moot,like discussing wheter eating mermaids is cannibalism or not.


7158df No.561662

>>561660

It's not, mermaids only have an animal soul


fd4a88 No.561664

>>561662

they dont exist, we'd have to rely on greek mythology


3ef3ec No.561665

>>561657

these seem interesting, thanks anon


47e595 No.561671

>>561632

i heard this is waht models by mark manson talks about idk ive only read summaries


347da8 No.561711

>>561645

>Just start sinning

Terrible advice


931924 No.561748

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>>561611

>Pick up (term synonymous with seduction), differently coined "game", is a relatively new thing

Most people don't know the history of this meme. It dates back to the early 90s to a Usenet group named alt.seduction.fast.

Usenet groups were the "imageboards" of the 80s and 90s: The place were redpilled people met. (Usenet was not the same as the Internet, it used to be a cheap non-commercial/non-military alternative to the Internet mainly funded by the education sector.)

The "game" was extremely effective during that period in the last century, because it was essential a coordinated psyop on offline women, who had no clue what happened to them. TV and newspapers didn't tell them, what was going on.

When the iPhone came up and leveled the playing field, PU not only became ineffective - due to hypergamy increasing to global scale all relationship matters became null & void:

http://www.rooshv.com/women-who-own-iphones-lose-the-ability-to-love

Nevertheless the meme is still floating around, because it's a great business model to make some guys rich with fancy promises, but the Internet going mainstream made it completely obsolete.

The stuff which is in the standard works of PU is still true, but just like swords became obsolete with the introduction of firearms in war, digitally empowered women not only got their advantage back, but they turned the game completely around, leaving the bottom 80 % of all men with the bottom 20 % of available female partners.


f7062f No.561756

Lift.

Learn confidence in general. Fear nothing but the Lord.

Get good posture.

Don't be afraid to embarrass yourself and get rejected a few times.

Be direct with girls.

Keep it simple stupid.

If a girl puts out too early that's a red flag. Ya sex is nice but don't let it own you. Sin is sin.


815622 No.561768

>>561645

Get behind me Satan


a69f9f No.561772

>>561748

Something to consider in relation to this is that despite all the insanity involved with ubiquitous casual sex, many women still crave being seduced and ravished by men who know how to play the game. The vapidity of Tinder culture and it's fellow class acts is only one part of female sexuality; hypergamy is merely a facet of the behavior, not the bookend as so many claim. Ultimately the most important decider in who a woman opens her legs to is time and experience: if she has lots of positive experiences with you the odds steadily increase in your favor.

Remember that Tinder relationships do not exist, it's merely a cabal of the most sexually attractive men and women taking advantage of the fact that they are the most sexually desirable, nothing to say of real relationships.


e1d357 No.561785

>>561645

Reported.


4fdf45 No.561798

>>561611

>how do i get girls?

Get all the PUA crap out of your head.

Be a righteous Christian as best you can be and be social in general. Love everyone. If you meet allot of people they'll introduce you to more people. Some are bound to be single women but never target a woman and try to seduce her, it's evil, talk to her, be honest, and be a man. It's not about what you want from her, it's about what you have to offer. Be selfless and follow what the scripture says. It's full of all the wisdom and guidance you need and will keep you safe. God will see your effort, and he knows what you want, and if it's his will you will find your wife.


e36647 No.561816

>>561611

Bearing false witness about yourself? Probably.


e36647 No.561817

>>561816

Which is to say yes, definitely, avoid this trash


d9444b No.561952

>>561645

>Start jacking off if you don't already.

For some reason this was really fucking funny to me kek


7f8b44 No.561955

>>561645

APOSTOLICS YES!


c984a9 No.561969

>>561955

Call Anglicans apostolic as much as you like, it doesn’t change the facts. They’re Protties just like the rest of you.


3e76ff No.561970

PUA is trash. It's not going to help you, as a Christian; it's not meant for people like us. I've done it myself before going Orthodox, and I was heavily into it. Downloading millions of programs, going to nightclubs, 8/9/10 hours a night, the works. Let me explain:

PUA is geared towards sex. That's it. If you learn PUA, all you will get, is sex. You will not get a good relationship, you will not get a quality girl, you will get sex. That's all they teach you. Popular PUAs know nothing about relationships and don't give two hoots about dating, finding good women, and so on. All you'll really learn from them is how to create something that isn't even a relationship. And even then, you won't know if she's quality or not.

PUA has its roots in evolutionary psychology. You cannot separate the two, and as a result, you'll learn nothing about relationships because relationships aren't a thing in an evolutionary context. Nearly every pick up program out there will teach you these main things as beliefs and mindsets you need to have in order to "succeed" as a PUA:

- Women are all non-monogamous sluts with depraved fantasies but religion and society make them hide it

- Monogamy doesn't exist because men evolved to just want to impregnate as many women as possible

- Relationships are a societal construct

In fact, "relationship management" sections of these programs teach you nothing. You know what they teach you? That you've still got to "play the field" and "see other women" to keep your girlfriend jealous otherwise she'll leave you. That's what they all imply and in some cases, outright tell you: the second a woman knows she has you, she will leave you. That's a cancerous mindset and demonstrably a lie, but it's the kind of belief you'd have to accept if you want to make the PUA thing work. And if you're here, I'm pretty sure you want something meaningful and not just empty, meaningless sex and no real chance of having a wife/true relationship.

Additionally, these people are manipulative as hell. The guys who run the show are liars and conmen who can talk a good game. The biggest PUA company currently (RSD)- the CEO (RSD Tyler aka Owen Cook), is the largest liar of them all. I have reliable information that he doesn't actually practice what he preaches. He uses his money and status to get girls on a sugar daddy website called seekingarrangement. Another RSD instructor does the same thing. If "game" is the be all, end all of things, why is it that the CEO (someone with over a decade of experience) of a PUA company suddenly starts using money? A second instructor does the same thing.

The way they do things is that they alter their images in a manipulative way. They tell you that rejection is expected and everyone has "off nights", but the truth is that this stuff actually isn't as effective as they'd have you believe. They do this so they can still be seen as experts, but they seem more believable because they don't shy away from discussing failure. And if you're failing they'll just tell you it's your fault, so you end up not considering that maybe what they teach is just trash. Another of RSD's instructors, RSD Max, actually gets kicked out of clubs by bouncers, guys start fights with him, etc etc due to overall creepy behavior, talking to taken women and whatnot, but they won't tell you this.

Don't believe the hype. Just lift weights, dress well, put yourself out there, treat meeting women like loot box gambling and don't be insufferable. That is all. Stay woke boys.

>>561748

The thing is that alt.seduction.fast relied more on heavy NLP/conversational hypnosis type stuff- that's why it worked so effectively. For whatever reason that stuff has fallen out of favor, and I think that's why PUA is overall just a joke in modern times. I would recommend people look into it if they're desperate to learn something.


fdbbc4 No.561976

>>561611

>If you are manipulating someone to love you, and especially if you are doing so by putting up a mask of a different you, are you commiting sin?

Deception is a sin. Do not deceive your neighbour.


931924 No.561985

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>>561772

>Something to consider in relation to this is that despite all the insanity involved with ubiquitous casual sex, many women still crave being seduced and ravished by men who know how to play the game.

The idea behind the original concept was playing the hypergamy of women by increasing the so-called "sexual market value". This worked, because they guys they were competing against ("Average Frustrated Chumps") were offline too and had no clue, because bluepilled media was teaching them bullshit all day long.

>Remember that Tinder relationships do not exist,

Tinder exists and gives women easy access to the top 20 % of men near them and that alone changes the relationship dynamics of a whole society.

There is a reason, why it needs to be banned, not only from a Christian PoV. Ravaging fornication completely destroys the fabric of a functioning society.

>>561970

>The thing is that alt.seduction.fast relied more on heavy NLP/conversational hypnosis type stuff- that's why it worked so effectively.

The media became more effective in brainwashing, too. When everyone upgraded from swords to firearms, your own one loses its advantage.


f4cde4 No.561996

>>561969

>Call Anglicans apostolic as much as you like, it doesn’t change the facts. They’re Protties just like the rest of you.

Baptists are NOT protestant, they are part of John the Baptists' and Jesus' real Church, you probably never heard of it.


4fdf45 No.562006

>>561969

>>561996

and so it begins


3186b9 No.562701

>>561996

recent trolle perhaps?


23fd09 No.563377

>>561970

my Dad told tried to get me to read The Game when I was 15 or 16. Even as a dumb teen i thought there was something greasy about trying to manipulate women into giving you ass. The seed of truth is there in that being confident friendly and not afraid of rejection will lead to relationships but everything else just went off the rails


e36647 No.563380

>>563377

I JUST LOST UGH




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