>>549638
>not wanting to pat your wife´s head during the coitus
>not wanting to hold her hands while on top of her
>not wanting to look at her flustered, red face
>not wanting to nibble on her earlobes as she moans into your ear
>not wanting to look into her eyes as they swell with tears of happiness
>not wanting to kiss her on the lips as you both climax at the same time
What are you, gay?
Depends on how long you have been together - if 2 years+, wife her, if less, see if she is wife material.