I mean like… Good for the ugly fat fuck for having the confidence to post themselves shitting themselves. I sure as fuck wouldn't dare to.
But… I know for a fact that there are good looking guys. I know because I have a good collection of pictures involving them. It would appear the most accessible and surface level of this fetish just seem to involve 30-40 year old fat, hairy fucks, who don't even want to bother to do little bit of self-grooming or maintenance to keep up their looks. I'm not even talking about having to try to look like 8/10. Just change your bed sheets at least once a week so your acne gets better, go for a 1hr of walk daily while keeping your posture in order, was your hair and care for your facial hair (if you have some).
Imo. You don't need to lose weight till you are thin, you can be chubby and still look good. Important is that you are toned, that you got muscle supporting your body under all that lard. You can easily tell the difference between a fat dude, who just sit on their ass all day, and a fat dude who works out/has a physical job. They carry their body in a totally different way. It really is all down to posture and support.
If you are fat and you waddle like toddle with a turd in their pants, then you are fucking ugly. If you are fat and walk like a normal fucking human being, your knees and hip isn't waiting for a chance to collapse under your mountain of self-loathing and disgust, then you can be good looking.
Some people carry fat well, mainly older men. Most people, do not carry fat well.
Now. When I mean "fat" I don't mean few kilos of extra weight, "love handles", dadbod or bit of "living standard" on the belly. I'm talking about those fat tubs of lard who's every movement send a ripple through their body. Those who sweat like cold bottle of beer during a warm summer evening, just from existing, even if it is -20 celcius and they are wearing just a fucking T-shirt.
Back on topic: Whats wrong with reddit fetish groups specially abdl? They are mainly filled with people who have some form of self-diagnosed autism or mental health issues. In the style of "I can't muster the effort of acting like a normal human being when I'm around other people, it isn't because I'm a pathetic loser, it is because there is something wrong with me. I shan't make an effort to improve myself, instead I will bitch and moan until society gives in and lets me sperg out while paying me welfare."