/abdl/ - Adult Baby - Diaper Lover★

What do you do? I know what you do to get me off: you try to renegotiate that whole thing about wearing the diaper around the house. Then film film and post, otherwise gay

>>66793

It sounds fun until I remember its my mum and she has no idea about the implications

Maybe if i cant come up with a good bullshit redemption plan lol

>>66792 (OP)

>She is pissed. She wants me to write a letter telling her how I can rectify this.

What's there to rectify? I guess you could offer to buy a lock for your bedroom door and/or cupboard. Maybe give her a "personal space for dummies" book.

If you want to preserve your relationship with her you could always claim you've booked in some therapy sessions with a therapist/priest (whichever would be more convincing), then later pretend to be cured and never mention it to her again.

If you're stuck living there for now, write any bullshit you think will appease her. She probably isn't going to understand kinks nor how futile it is to try and stop having them.

Though the thought of you being forced to march around in your poofy pink pampers excites me; probably not the ideal option.

Sacrifice for now, set realistic goals for getting the fuck out.

>religious

Just quote Matthew 18:3 at her.

>>66808

>And lo Jesus said "Thot begone!" and it was so

Well I'll be.

>>66792 (OP)

>Caught. What do I do?

Honorable Sudoku

Move out. Wearing them around sounds pretty hot, but what do I know.

Kill her

You got off light compared to some others op

> I found your sissy diapers

> I'm gonna make you soak the whole pack!

She does know that diapers don't work like cigarettes right?

Good look with that. I probably would have actually blown my brains out if this happened to me.

>>66792 (OP)

obviously you snoop around to try to get shit on her

Try to get in contact with her high school friends, if you can find anyone she dated before go for those first, look for anybody she talks to or knows but not anyone too close to her because they won't help you. Then you talk them up and pitch to them that your mom's acting odd or something just get her to be the subject of the conversation then lead up to asking personal stuff about her. She can't be a saint, we're all human and if she's got secrets you're the last person she wants to find out about them. Then you bring them to her and she cries because she feels like a shitty mother and then you win

Get in the fucking diapers you faggot.

>>66792 (OP)

Tell her it's not okay to search your stuff because you're an adult and that just because she own's the house doesn't make it okay for her to rummage through your drawers. Tell her you're an adult and your kinks are you're own business. That said you should limit your wearing to the bedroom and also not mess

>>66827

Unfortunately that's not how things work in religious households. I've been nearly kicked out for trying to tell my parents to stay out of my business. They want to know everything.

OP, just write whatever will appease her for the moment. Tell her you'll see a priest and talk about it with him like >>66799 said. Then pretend like you're "cured" and everything will go back to normal within a few months.

My dad heard me rustling under my pants once and confronted me. He doesn't know the full story but he was very nosy and wanted me to get therapy. If your mom is anything like my dad, she thinks you're "deviant" and just wants you to be her perfect normal little man. So play the part until you can move out. Keep the diapers out of the house at least until things cool down, then find a foolproof hiding spot or just don't buy anymore for now.

>>66842

hey, hey OP don't blame this on being a religious household.

Wack jobs often use religion to cover their desire to dominate others, but Christianity requires that the master be the servant. In an actual religious household, parents foster success and independence in their children - not morality by rule which any Christian worth his salt knows doesn't work. Internal betterment comes from a relationship with Christ, not belt-whipping or brow-beating.

I run a religious household and you might be like, hey wtf you doing here then? Fair point, we've all got a cross to bear and I haven't quite figured out how to move past this one- I'm not trying to pull a mote out of your eye, just saying the problem sounds like your parents inability to follow the teachings of their religion than the religion itself.

>"how do we deal with this disgusting habit? Do I make you wear one around the house?How proud would you be then?”

I'd reply, "I don't know, how proud are you to have mismanaged my childhood so bad that I got a complex regarding diapers? I'm not proud of it; a compulsion's a compulsion. Maybe if you hadn't shamed me so much for soiling myself practically involuntarily as a powerless toddler I wouldn't be so afraid soiling myself, even as a competent adult, that I can't feel truly relaxed unless I'm wearing a diaper."

At least, that's what I'd say if I still had any contact with my asshole Atheist parents. So, again, shit parenting not based on religion, it's based on shit people.

Id write a letter saying how right she is and that maybe you should wear only around the house

Do whatever pleases her, write a bullshit letter, say you'll go to therspy and become "cured"

Doing otherwise is probably going to fuck up relationship with your mom for life.

Do the right thing, make her happy atleast, shes your mother afterall.

>>66855

>Do the right thing, make her happy

That's some major cuck thinking right there

>>66842

So they're equating diapers to being gay or something? Is every kink the same as gay to them? Are their own married kinks oddly kosher however? I've always wondered what the christian conservative view on kinks is

>>66857

Yeah, cuck me daddy.

Feelsmoralfagman

Might I suggest some bullshit-story about "just having experimented with this" or something like that? As a mother she might know that these phases exist and it worked in my case pretty okay. Because I got caught like 2, possibly even 3 times.

>>66860

The tl;dr for my story is this:

>freshman year in college

>dad finds plastic pants in dryer

>tell him it's to make masturbating easier to clean up

>somehow he buys it

>3 years later

>hears me rustling under pants

>assumes it's the plastic pants

>confronts me and I admit a non-sexual obsession (it is very sexual though)

His first two questions were if I was gay and if I was a pedophile. So yes, they pretty much equate everything sexually deviant to one of those two things at first. I've read stories of people trying to explain it but it does no good. It's "unnatural" or "impure" or whatever other bs and you're a freak for liking it and need therapy/God.

>>66844

>Don't blame this on being in a religious household.

Sorry, her wackjob practices are due to her wackjob religion. I'm not saying every religious household is like this; my gf's parents are very open and accepting. But most parents who take issue with this do so because "God said so".

>>66875

>Sorry, her wackjob practices are due to her wackjob religion. I'm not saying every religious household is like this; my gf's parents are very open and accepting. But most parents who take issue with this do so because "God said so".

Exactly what line in the bible says you can't wear diapers? Yeah, it's not her religion, it's her. I had atheist parents that were just as sh#t as your parents sound to be. Belief system might matter, but their belief system doesn't sound like Christianity.

Being conservative + judgmental /= Christian, though it usually equals calling yourself Christian.

>>66890

Holy shit this isn't about your insecurities over labeling religious parents. No one fucking cares what your idea of true and in name only Christianity is. His mom is the way she is because of her interpretation of religion.

That isn't negated by you having shitty atheist parents. All types of parents can be shitty for many reasons. Pocket your autism ffs.

>>66844

Religion is neither sufficient nor necessary for parents to be shitty, but there's certainly a correlation. It depends on the exact sect and the degree of devotion, but in the worst cases the religious leaders absolutely do encourage all sorts of abhorrent practices. Some atheists might be shitty parents, but at least they don't have preachers encouraging them to be shitty parents every week.

>>66894

>His mom is the way she is because of her interpretation of religion.

This is true

>All types of parents can be shitty for many reasons.

This is true

Since you're agreeing with me, why are you calling me out? He's the one suggesting it was religion's fault. I'm saying it's the individual's problem, which you just agreed with. Do we share in that alleged autism then?

>>66896

I am not even that guy, but referring to seppuku as sudoku has been a thing for at least a decade.

In short, that guy was memeing, but at least you got the chance to show off that you know what sudoku is.

I'd advise making a post on r/ABDL great advice is over there.

Just know at the end of the day, she is your mom, and parents do love their kids. Information and discussion is key, especially in this type of situation, you'll need to keep the atmosphere level and aimed toward conveying info you need her to know and you need to know.

Don't want to have the discussion? Eh you're stuck I guess, unless you find a friend to take the blame for you.

Seriously ask r/ABDL, great ppl there

>>66903

He's saying quit using this board as a platform for your fucking faith. Nobody gives a shit, least of all a bunch of diaper perverts.

>>66906

>Just know at the end of the day, she is your mom, and parents do love their kids. Information and discussion is key, especially in this type of situation, you'll need to keep the atmosphere level and aimed toward conveying info you need her to know and you need to know.

Sorry but I respectfully disagree. I know you mean well. But there is no reasoning with parents like that. I'm sure OP's mom loves him very much. That much I don't doubt. But she's set in her ways and isn't about to listen to a "diapers r normal mom" spiel.

>>66911

Finally a faith I can actually follow

>>66911

Based horsefucker. /mlpol/ shall rise again

>>66908

I didn't start the subject, asshole, I sea-lioned it. If people don't like it, don't bring it up in the first place or just concede the point. On either action, I stop talking about it.

>>67196

>OP's mom is against diaper fetishism for religious reasons

>OP asks for help

>instead you give him a spiel on "not all Christians are like that"

gtfo

>>67342

I did give him help, I advised him not to be a religious bigot. It'll help him a lot in life.

>No U

maybe don't permenantly destroy your relationship with your mother over a sexual fetish

just a thought

>>66808

>Matthew 18:3

Woah, this is actually a relevant and appeasing verse.

Quick and easy solution is say it's a compulsion and you need therapy to find the source and deal with it, offer to find a therapist yourself so your mom doesn't have to deal with your "deviancy" any more than necessary, then find a therapist who isn't gonna sign you up for a conversion camp, go to a few sessions, explain the whole thing, and voila, after a few sessions the shrink will tell your mom your fixed when she comes prying around. You then just tank the loss of your stash and wait til you move out to do more than come here in incognito mode with a vpn.

Hard mode, you do all that, but have your mom go through the sessions with you, so that your shrink can get her past whatever bullshit hang ups she has, you two end up with a better relationship, and best case scenario, she accepts you as her darling little sissy gurl and puts you in your pink diapers and satin nighty before tucking you in at night. Worst case scenario, she feels personally attacked by the shrink questioning her belief system she put all of ten seconds of real thought into and either kicks you out or sends you to a conversion camp.

In either scenario, make sure you say you've already tried prayer, avoid priests, pastors, etc. bring up church gossip, or "the lord helps those who help themselves", whatever you have to do to keep this away from religion. If you go hard mode, make sure you have some means of forcing your mom to go through the whole process without bailing when she gets offended, a promise, some way to redirect her anger, something. Either way, good luck man.

>>66808

>Matthew 18:3

Underrated

OP will you please let us know how this all turned out. We get so many threads like this and they never get answered afterwards.

>>67576

Is that Tyler1?

This thread convinced me not to buy diapers until I'm done with college and can move out.

>>67565

Makes you wonder if they were lying or not.

>>66792 (OP)

>" Do I make you wear one around the house?"

I REALLY wanna know your moms thought process behind this one

This may be hard to take in, but relize your mom now knows about it and you may just have to lie to her and say mom you were right I was just over thinking it and that its in the past, but really its not. my mom found out about my diapers and so did my brothers and my dad wasn't pleased about it either and they ask from time to time if I get rid of it all and have came to the point and tell them if they love me they won't ask about it. You are an adult figure out what you want to do with your life, get an apartment and fill it with a nursery and diapers and go crazy.

>>66802

>>66827

>>66842

>>66844

Parents snooping through the belongings of 18 and up kids I think is a soft form of abuse, they're basically taking advantage of the fact that you live under their roof to do what would be breaking and entering if you had your own place. I think it indicates a serious lack of trust

>I'd reply, "I don't know, how proud are you to have mismanaged my childhood so bad that I got a complex regarding diapers? I'm not proud of it; a compulsion's a compulsion. Maybe if you hadn't shamed me so much for soiling myself practically involuntarily as a powerless toddler I wouldn't be so afraid soiling myself, even as a competent adult, that I can't feel truly relaxed unless I'm wearing a diaper."

I'm not sure a guilt trip would work. OP just needs to double down about boundaries and sexual privacy, but if parents are behaving this at this age then clearly they have their own issues to work out.

>>66792 (OP)

Can we get an update on this? You made this thread over 2 months ago and I'm curious how things are going now.

>>73029

>OP just neeeds to double down about boundaries and sexual privacy

Having lived in a Catholic household with a controlling mother, no privacy, no boundaries and many questions about my personal life, I can tell you this is not an effective solution. My dad has seen my plastic diaper cover and questioned me thoroughly about it, going so far as to say I need to see a psychiatrist. He continued this for months, insisting that it is in fact his business. My mom never saw or suspected anything, but she has threatened to kick me out multiple times over unrelated issues. Even worse, she brings up the past all the time and makes me feel like total shit, like when I was depressed for 10 months following a harsh breakup.

Unfortunately you just can't do anything about it until you move out. OP is living under her roof and off her paycheck. I'm not saying that makes her snooping okay, but it's the facts, and OP is just gonna have to suck it up until he gains financial independence.

>>73047

>Having lived in a Catholic household with a controlling mother, no privacy, no boundaries and many questions about my personal life, I can tell you this is not an effective solution.

I too was raised by a similar parent, minus the Catholicism. Religion is just a vernier for boundary violation. The kind of behavior OP is describing stems from mental illness on the parent's part and has nothing to do with religiosity.

>Unfortunately you just can't do anything about it until you move out. OP is living under her roof and off her paycheck. I'm not saying that makes her snooping okay, but it's the facts, and OP is just gonna have to suck it up until he gains financial independence.

The "it's my house" fallacy. I hate to be an armchair psychologist, but everything that both you and OP are describing are very similar to narcissistic personality disorder. Most parents don't snoop past their kids turning 18, and if a parent can't respect that, then that's dysfunctional. If you're past 18 and your parents are still snooping, then they're at best violating boundaries and at worst doing so out of mental illness. If your parents are treating you in a way that your peer's parent's would consider taboo, then something is clearly off.

Really I'd suggest OP stockpile some money that his parents don't know about and use it to consult an attorney.

>She wants me to write a letter telling her how I can rectify this.

Is this an American thing?

>>73052

>Religion is just a vernier for boundary violation. The kind of behavior OP is describing stems from mental illness on the parent's part and has nothing to do with religiosity.

Pretty sure we've been over this before but fuck it. I'm not saying there can't be decent religious parents, and I'm not saying there can't be shitty non religious parents. But Catholicism historically has adhered to strict rules and harsh discipline, and many parents still follow those outdated teachings. As a direct result, there is a disproportional amount of emphasis placed on respect for your superiors and sexual purity. When you combine these things, you get parents who think it's okay to snoop through their children's belongings to make sure they're not engaging in deviant behavior, and justify their snooping with "my house, my rules".

But hey, maybe just stop defending religion where literally nobody cares and where the conversation isn't even focused on it anyway.

>>73057

>>73077

At the very least it's a midwestern thing. I had to write a letter for damn near everything I did wrong as a kid.

>>73088

>But Catholicism historically has adhered to strict rules and harsh discipline, and many parents still follow those outdated teachings. As a direct result, there is a disproportional amount of emphasis placed on respect for your superiors and sexual purity. When you combine these things, you get parents who think it's okay to snoop through their children's belongings to make sure they're not engaging in deviant behavior, and justify their snooping with "my house, my rules".

Are you sure you're not conflating strictness with domineering behavior? Strict parents have a rigid set of norms you're expected to follow lest their be a harsh punishments. Abusive parents, on the other hand, have rather arbitrary rules and get angry over nothing, so your constantly in trouble for no reason. This, alongside snooping, are telltale signs of narcissistic disorder. In that case, the point of their scolding isn't to discipline you into order, it's simply to power trip, even if you've obeyed them anyway. Narcissistic parents define themselves by contrasting themselves against favored "golden children" and disfavored "scapegoats." They treat their children as vessels to fill their positive and negative emotions with. You like you're a scapegoat. And narcs also gaslight their children into thinking the abuse is normal.

>>66792 (OP)

Had a similar situation with my father after my mother died.

He semi-understood but asked me to get rid of what I had. I did so and moved out a month later and bought new stock. It's wasn't as hard as I was lead to believe about getting a a job and move somewhere.

>>73057

>>73077

>>73088

More importantly, we could write the letter for him one word at a time and then he has to use it.

Ill start:

Dear

>>73322

Mummy-Dearest,

>>73329

You

>>73344

slag

>>73345

I

>>73480

clamped

>>73481

my

Dick

>>66890

>what line in the bible

1 Corinthians 13:11 is pretty close.

>>73544

ouch!

>>73483

diaper

>>75149

full

>>73730

Pretty sure that line is saying not to think, talk, or reason like a child more than saying it's a sin to wear a diaper.

"So you like diapers huh? Well you're not leaving here until you pee a whole carton of diapers"

>>75176

Make it a crate and we have a deal.

HAPAS ARE SUPERIOR TO WHITES