>>981532 (OP)
I will have to finish the video later, but he brings up a lot of good points so far. This is why I'm generally lean towards event sourcing architectures, where the DB is a materialized view, because it separates out the reads from the writes.
The ideas behind event sourced systems:
https://www.confluent.io/blog/turning-the-database-inside-out-with-apache-samza/
Greg Young has a funny video introducing the concept more concretely:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JHGkaShoyNs