/nofap/ - Fappers Anonymous★

>>15170 (OP)

As soon as you change your perspective on humans fundamentally, and especially yourself, porn will lose all power. Whether it is that all people are your family, that you are the kind of guy who doesn't get pleasure for those things, whatever it is, it will help. Also brain healing by prayer and denial of sexual thoughts.

if your afraid of being addicted to the dopamine you actually get more of it out of nofap then out of fapping, because the receptors get blocked up by another chemical right afterwards

Porn is made to arouse, so as long as it is in line with your sexual preferences you will probably be aroused. Ideally it shouldn't matter, because you shouldn't be looking at porn.

>>15176

It's the supernormal stimuli part of porn that really messes me up, I was just scrolling through a thread (not on here) and some guy had put a picture of a "boypussy" thing and I could feel my brain getting something out of it.

I've fapped to a whole host of shit so of course I had been conditioned to like traps.

It wasn't so much my dick, it was the feeling I got in my brain from it, like chemicals being released.

>>15170 (OP)

What >>15176 tried to say but really didn't convey the meaning.

Coming from someone who was regular on PMO, when you start nofap you will become more sensitive to it, meaning lighter stuff will trigger you much easily, this can also be a good thing since you will get aroused by real women more easily, and may switch to real relationships instead of fapping for good.

But also an indicator that you're getting off the stuff, eg an addicted needs more substance abuse to get the same high, so he becomes less sensitive, so its a good sign that you're actually getting more sensitive and easily aroused with lighter stuff, just don't let it fool you into relapse.

For real change though it takes more time and a real change in perspective, just getting off porn altogether may easy on your most degenerate fetishes, but this change will slowly occur on a more deeper level. Like for example, you could get to a point where you find regular porn actually disgusting, but it requires a change in view from that just being a sexual act to being like a disgusting drug where the lives of people involved are pretty horrible.

I think I'm really getting to change now, because I'm thinking of how beautiful life can be with some of the girls and kids in my christian community.

You can't. That's like asking will there ever be a point where I won't get high by crystal meth? The entire purpose of porn is to make you aroused. It's a drug. Avoid it at all costs.

>>15371

I get what he is saying though, I wouldn't expect anything else with porn itself, but with anything casual triggering arousal.

For example watching some Tv series and you cannot get over the shape of a hot actress, or even personally, a slighter hotter or well dressed girl can make you momentarily crazy.