I saw a thread about recreational sex, which I guess includes loving sex within a monogamous relationship as being degenerate.
I am here to ask/make a counter argument I guess.
LOVING SEX WITHIN A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP IS UPLIFTING
I don't know if any of you know what I am talking about but when I practice NoFap and abstinence. Sex is the most invigorating thing that I can possibly do. When I have sex with my wife after a period of NoFap, I feel more in love than ever before, every single time but the most important thing is it gives me boundless energy. I am filled with creativity and energy each time afterwards, I can work for hours straight, I see problems from new perspectives, I can write for hours without hitting writers block. I can sit down and learn new math for hours without getting distracted. I can work on my business with a flow others would envy been with her 11 years and she has been with no other male in any sexual way apart from kissing two other men in her life.
Does anybody know about the this after sex energy with your partner? As in sex for the sole purpose of loving and being intimate with your partner and not procreation.
I get this my seem weird and be a touchy subject for some but I am genuinely curious if other Anons experience this or have any reading materials on it I do not want to offend.