Burgeranons and a good many countries don't have monarchies. There is an ordeal of monarchists without monarchs. Certainly you follow ideals? We could all think of an ideal leader. I'm afraid to say, the best leadership comes from the real leader. It takes someone to break ideals. We need a monarch above ideals.
>but what is your ideal
The prime monarch is young and pragmatic. Willing to comply with traditional institutions. Dislikes about everything you see in politics and doesn't put up with dogma and politically correct attitudes. This is a character that not only requires a lot of strength… it needs courage.