/fit/ - Fitness, Health, and Feels

>>133900

>Can I make it?

Were all gonna make it brah.

Also try getting in touch with friends of your friends and texting is cancer but you'll have to learn it by trial and error or get some advice from friends who are better at it.

Every bit of practical advice I have is overshadowed by one thing. The right person is never where you're looking. You'd be really surprised. But it's good to practice anyway.

> activity groups, sports, recreational classes

> dating apps - it's not completely garbage

> bars, clubs

> networking places?

> gatherings and parties with friends

Your best bet is to meet someone through a friend. But then you run the chance of ruining it and becoming the subject of gossip.

You can try meeting someone at work but that can fall through and shit is really awkward. It's the same with church. I hear things like dance classes might be a good place.

You might do well just throwing yourself at as many social things as possible. Of course there's the issue with a lack of time. But you might as well try even if you have just one day.

>>133900

>school me on where to meet women

Where you least expect it. Grocery stores, zoos/aquariums, entry-level college classes you would expect girls fresh out of high school to take (foreign language is a good one; say you are a German American, take the first level of a German language class and see if you can find young German-American girls that are interested in their heritage). Basically, any random place that doesn't attract trashy women like flies to a corpse, such as:

>>133903

>bars, clubs

Worst idea. If you just want to moisten your prick, go ahead, but not if you want a waifu.

Girls go outside and do things too, like shopping for food or clothing. IMO, you're more likely to bump into a decent woman randomly in public than by using a designated method like dating sites or bars that attract all the women with problems. So leave the basement, go out more, to maximize your chances. And when you do encounter a woman that seems good, do NOT make excuses, GO FOR IT. Otherwise, you'll deeply regret it until the next time you find one, constantly questioning if she was 'the one' and you fucked yourself. On that note, always keep yourself nicely groomed and ready to chat up girls; never leave the house without brushing your teeth or whatever 'cause "bah I won't meet a girl there anyway" 'cause you very well might. Quality women do not grow on trees, so treat every opportunity to meet one as something precious.

>>133917

MEDIC!

You'll be over it in another 4 months. I was saving up for a ring with my last ex before she got cold feet about my career and we broke up. I know I can do better.

>>133915

It always feels wrong to talk to random people in public areas. When I go to the grocery store, I go there to buy food. When I go to the gym, I go there to lift, not to pick up chicks. Etc.

Can't remember the last time I actually spoke to a woman in a public area. Maybe this is why I'm always single.

>>133969

>It always feels wrong to talk to random people in public areas.

Yes, it feels weird, but if you see a girl you'd like to date, then go talk to her anyway. It helps to smile and point out something humorous or amusing to break the ice and get some conversation flowing, then introduce yourself properly once you are comfortable speaking to one another. If a girl finds you attractive, she will smile if you smile and laugh if you laugh, even if she doesn't get the joke. Remember that there's nothing to lose; if the girl is taken, "taken" (doesn't like you), or it turns out that you don't want her for whatever reason, you just walk away and carry on with your life. Also, it gives you valuable practice and will make you more comfortable approaching women in general.

>When I go to the grocery store, I go there to buy food. When I go to the gym, I go there to lift, not to pick up chicks. Etc.

Remember that girls want a boyfriend as badly (or moreso) than guys want a girlfriend (although it is easier for them, since women are more in demand and play the passive role). Many of them spend an hour on their hair alone every morning, and wouldn't dare go out if it weren't on point. Why is this? They want to be appreciated, paid attention to, and lusted over by men, in order to reap the social benefits and potentially secure a quality mate. Men nowadays are largely beta and seldom approach women, so don't underestimate the value you bring by having the nads to be confident and treat a woman like a woman. The point I'm making is that girls want attractive guys to hit on them, even if it goes nowhere- it makes them feel pretty and thus valuable. You're not "harassing" her by interrupting her grocery shopping to make her smile and laugh, she'll be pleasantly surprised unless you're unattractive; women are highly social animals.