>>6265
I'll share my story and give some advice:
>met my gf in a femdom chat, we talked for a while and I caused her a good impression, so she gave my number.
>talked for a couple of months and learned almost everything about her, she lived almost 500km away, she also was depressive and had some issues which she managed to correct for the most part.
>Strong character, open minded and fun, I felt very comfortable with her. She also was kind of a feminist, which was kinda annoying, but ok overall.
>95kg, almost 6ft tall, taller than me when on heels, pretty face
>I'm a skinny guy, so when she dominated me I felt quite powerless, that turned me on a lot.
>we had some skype sessions, at that time I didn't had any toys so we had to improvise.
>we meet for the first time after a couple of months, she was not particularly good at improvising, but I enjoyed it
>she bought me a dog bowl and a collar, I remember one morning…, we were going to have breakfast, she poured herself a bowl of milk and cereals and told me to get naked on the floor, she then filled my bowl with milk and made me cum in it, had to drink it all while she pet me
>we met regularly since then about once a month and talked every day
>bought around 100€ in toys, magic wand, vibrator, strap on, gags, plugs…
>skype sessions turned rougher, had to fuck my ass for hours before being allowed to cum, had to be obedient and careful or else I would not be allowed to cum
>IRL sessions were also rougher, she fucked me with her strap on while on chastity, it was wonderful
>then she started acting like a submissive, she wanted to try it too, confessed she was a sub before meeting me, she also had a babygirl fetish
>o-ok, I'll guess I can switch roles
>not a very good dom, but made her a contract for a week to try, it was quite boring, I didn't get anything out of hitting her with a riding whip, it even felt wrong, she appeared to like it a lot
>she even told me what to do with her, I kinda enjoyed restraining and playing with her, but it wasn't the same
>months passed and the sub role turned into vanilla for the most part, we had occasional femdom sessions, but it wasn't the same
>I had to stay by her side when her family started to have economic problems, her emotional problems also grow worse, she had a strong character, so she would often be mad at me with no reason.
>I still helped her emotionally and economically
>started arguing more and seeing each other less
>when her situation was better better we split, I didn't want to leave her when she was having problems
Don't expect 10/10s, at best you'll get a 6/10. Women who use those pages do it for a reason, the ratio is not in your favor, attractive and mentally stable girls who also like femdom are a pretty narrow section of the population.
It's probably easier to meet a girl IRL and introduce her to femdom than to find a 8/10 or 9/10 domme online, once you know each other you can't talk about it without feeling too ashamed.
Sorry for my broken english, hope this helps.