2f08a3 No.2039
how do i get rid of my femdom fetish?
serious question
2f08a3 No.2043
no idea.
2f08a3 No.2044
http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=8809.0If it wasn't induced by porn, if it was always there, you're fucked.
2f08a3 No.2055
why would you want to do that? Femdom is awesome.
2f08a3 No.2057
>>2044
i think its not porn induced for most here see:
>>1231
2f08a3 No.2060
I was like this since kindergarten and elementary school. What do I do?
2f08a3 No.2067
>>2039As above posters said, depends how you acquired this fetish and why exactly you want to get rid of it.
If you can't get rid of it, don't give up on yourself. There are plenty of successful submissive men in the world, and believe it or not some dommes are decent people.
2f08a3 No.2069
>>2055Because it's not accepted by society and as a submissive male particularly, your dating pool has dramatically shrunk.
2f08a3 No.2074
>>2039It tends to fade away over time in people who get more vanilla sexual experience and a good relationship. What is your situation?
2f08a3 No.2079
>>2074disagree, mine fades slightly for a few months then comes back with a vengeance.
2f08a3 No.2080
>>2074No, not really. It's like preferring dogs to cats. You wouldn't mind having a cat, but a dog would be awesome. Same goes with vanilla vs femdom relationships for someone with this fetish.
>>2044This, basically. If it's hard wired, you're not "growing out of it".
2f08a3 No.2088
>>2067>There are plenty of successful submissive men in the world, and believe it or not some dommes are decent people.The problem is that there are 100 submissive men for every 1 dominant woman. So being a submissive man is dooming yourself to loneliness.
2f08a3 No.2090
>>2088WHERE ARE THESE PEOPLE?!
2f08a3 No.2091
>>2090Doing something with their lives instead of posting on a low-tier board on 8chan.
2f08a3 No.2092
>>2091
>chan culture is predominantly male>porn consumers are predominantly male>8chan isn't even the most popular chan site>women are predominantly submissive Frankly, I'm amazed that we have any dommes posting here at all considering the context.
2f08a3 No.2093
>2092
Half chan doesn't even have fem.
Plus halfchan's pol was a piece of shit before moot transformed it into /s4s/ anyhow.
It's much better here.
2f08a3 No.2098
>>2092>Frankly, I'm amazed that we have any dommes posting here at all considering the context.You forgot that a chan board is an anonymous board that doesn't care about social norms, where almost all fetishes and perversions are accepted and where SJWs and white knights are actively driven out.
Most dommes and sex workers despise white knights and hardcore feminists as they are fed up of people who want to rescue them from their terrible fate, that want to forbid pornography and prostitution, equal BDSM with abuse or that tell them that submissive men are nonexistent as it doesn't fit in their world view according to which in our patriarchal society every men is dominant and potentially abusive.
I'm not surprised at all.
2f08a3 No.2099
>>2098well explained. As a recently self aware switch femanon and tumblr dweller, SJW mentality regarding to sexuality is unhealthy as shit, not to mention hypocritical. It's really gross and drives off more and more people away.
2f08a3 No.2100
>>2088If you are talking about openly dominant/submissive people then yes. But most dominant females don't engage in the BDSM community, they just watch shotacon, lurk cuteboys and watch that shy skinny boy on the bus when he's not looking.
>tfw he still hasn't noticed ;_: 2f08a3 No.2104
>>2099SJW mentality is always,
BE WHOEVER YOU WANT TO BE!!!
unless it somehow conflicts with our over arching ideology or you happen to fit into a category we consider to be too advantaged by society in which case we will demonize you and send you death threats 2f08a3 No.2500
>>2055I can't speak for OP but I know that if I don't become dominant and aggressive I'll definitely die a virgin.
Getting rid of femdom fetish would probably help with this.
2f08a3 No.2502
>>2055Well for starters the vast majority of porn in the genre is garbage.
>Look up facesitting videos>It's all latex/leather s&m stuff>or NTR>or degradation >or humiliation>or scatGOD DAMNIT I just want pretty ladies wrestling dudes to the ground and shoving their faces into their butts!
Why do you fucks have to keep insisting on putting this other shit in with it?
2f08a3 No.2503
>>2055subspace is too good to give up
2f08a3 No.2721
>>2502Girl-on-girl bdsm porn (whippedass etc.) is good, if you count it as femdom.
2f08a3 No.2725
>>2502Such is the curse of all non-vanilla internet porn.
2f08a3 No.2728
>>2055Femdom is a slippery slope to cuckoldry.
2f08a3 No.2733
>>2728No its not. Its just that cuckolding is invading porn right now.
2f08a3 No.2754
I literally lose all interest in femdom after ejaculating, after ejaculation the idea feels disgusting.
Does anyone else feel like this?
Anyway I want to get rid of my femdom fetish because there are very, very few women into femdom, and most of those are just trying to steal money.
It's far better to be Vanilla or slightly dominant.
2f08a3 No.2757
>>2754
>I literally lose all interest in femdom after ejaculating, after ejaculation the idea feels disgusting.I have the same feeling. Your fetish will not go away no matter how many times you masturbate. You are stuck with it. Eventually you will hate your orgasms because they break your cognitive focus into dissonance by hating your most cherished fantasy. You will probably develop an orgasm control/chastity fetish if you have not already.
>Anyway I want to get rid of my femdom fetish because there are very, very few women into femdom, and most of those are just trying to steal money.
Doesn't matter. You're going to try to find a Dominant woman, and you're going to fail horrifically. Your love life will soon become a train wreck as you no longer possess the will to have a normal submissive gf. You will instead hunger for a dominant woman, but this will you obviously not find.
Soon enough you will masturbate once a night just to stave off the fantasies, because if you don't orgasm daily you'll get an undeniable craving for domination. At least if you are me.
2f08a3 No.2761
I find the best thing to do when I am too into a fetish I don't much care for after cumming is to bolster up another fetish that I have or dive into the deep end and see if there is something else new that excites me that I can focus one.
This really helps me with fetishes that I have developed/cultivated as I was older. Femdom for me was something that I know has roots in my early childhood so the hooks are in deep, but with the internet and like twenty other fetishes I can bury it deep whenever I want. It is a lot easier to spread your sexual attention out among a lot of things to decrease your dependance on something you don't like than to try and scrub it from you head.
2f08a3 No.2762
Easy. Stop caring about sex entirely. If you must empty your balls, just do a quicky and get on with your day. Wait long enough, and your libido will drop naturally anyway. Just hang tough until then.
2f08a3 No.2763
>>2728Cuckold is gay maledom disguised as femdom.
2f08a3 No.2765
>>2757I really doubt that.
I am into femdom exclusively when horny.
If I'm to have a dominant gf she can only be dominant in bed, If she is dominant outside of our sex life the relationship will not last because I won't tolerate her bullshit while I'm not horny.
When I think about it the gf I really want is a submissive gf, but one that can roleplay femdom in bed.
2f08a3 No.2768
>>2765thats not so impossible. Sex personality=/=real life personality for a lot of people.
2f08a3 No.2776
something that helped me was i explored femdom with my then current gf who was very overly motherly towards me and i let her take control and hold me down. it was so hot. but then began to resent her after for being so much like my mother and it became annoying. so i guess just indulge if you can? the more you participate in femdom the less you will want it. just let it out and it will leave
2f08a3 No.2786
>>2039>how do i get rid of my femdom fetish?I don't think it's possible. You can simply choose not to indulge it BUT then you're life is going to be boring and shitty.
Remember, in a grand scheme of things you don't live very long. Enjoy your fetishes while you can instead of trying to repress/change them.
>>2069>Because it's not accepted by society and as a submissive male particularly, your dating pool has dramatically shrunk.What sort of stupid-tier nonsense is this? You realize that you can still date all the same people as person without a femdom fetish can, right?
A good girlfriend will indulge your femdom fetish just like a good girlfriend would indulge any other fetish.
>>2074>It tends to fade away over time in people who get more vanilla sexual experience and a good relationship.Are you retarded? The more vanilla sex you have the stronger you fetishes become, that's the whole fucking point of fetishes dummy, to remedy boring, vanilla shit.
>>2088>The problem is that there are 100 submissive men for every 1 dominant woman. So being a submissive man is dooming yourself to loneliness.HURRRRRRRRRR you don't find women that are into femdom. You find women that are into YOU and then roleplay whatever you like.
Just hire a dominatrix if you're looking for release without a relationship.
2f08a3 No.2787
>>2786>The more vanilla sex you have the stronger you fetishes become, that's the whole fucking point of fetishes dummy, to remedy boring, vanilla shit. wtf am i reading
I got off to femdom ideas and shit before i even jacked off to the first time.I tried to find videos of girls tying up dudes or kicking them in the balls before I even watched porn for the first time. That's what a fucking fetish is, not some bullshit "oh I'm bored" of normal sex escapism. I've literally had a hot red head gf sucking my cock and looking fucking incredible and had to think of her beating me in order to actually get off.
Maybe you don't have an actual fetish. This shit is burden.
2f08a3 No.2789
>>2787>I've literally had a hot red head gf sucking my cock and looking fucking incredible and had to think of her beating me in order to actually get off. >This shit is burden.Not being liking something isn't a burden dummie. Do the things you enjoy, instead of wishing that your preferences were different.
That's like me listening to classical music saying "OH GOD I CAN'T ENJOY THIS, I HAVE TO HUM POP MUSIC IN ORDER TO HAVE A GOOD TIME." If you don't like classical, don't fucking listen.
If you don't enjoy vanilla shit don't do it.
2f08a3 No.2804
>>2789not liking something much more available is a burden when getting what you want is nearly impossible and is generally looked down on. You are purposely missing the point which is that fetishes are not about "likes" or getting "bored" with something else. If that's what you think a fetish is then you don't have one.
2f08a3 No.2808
>>2804>not liking something much more available is a burden when getting what you want is nearly impossibleI don't like eating chocolate but I do like driving Lamborghinis (which I obviously can't afford). Yet I don't really feel burdened or upset by this.
>You are purposely missing the point which is that fetishes are not about "likes" or getting "bored" with something else.Of course it is. I can enjoy vanilla sex, but have since discovered BDSM type stuff and there's no looking back for me. Why should I settle for boring, vanilla stuff when I can do the fun stuff?
I'd say poster
>>2787 simply discovered his interest in femdom before he started having vanilla sex, thereby bypassing the realization that vanilla sex is boring.
Obviously if you've been eating fine steak your whole life and then someone offers you some rice you're not going to enjoy it very much.
>getting what you want is nearly impossibleAnd this is just silly. I have never in my life been with a woman who wasn't willing to indulge my fetishes in some way.
If the women you're with aren't receptive to it, maybe it's because they don't really like you very much to begin with?
>If that's what you think a fetish is then you don't have one.afaik I fetish is simply sexual focus on a specific bodypart (e.g. feet) or behavior (e.g. femdom)
I find both to be arousing thus I consider myself a fetishist.
2f08a3 No.2811
>>2808>Of course it is. I can enjoy vanilla sex, but have since discovered BDSM type stuff and there's no looking back for me.Its always interesting to me when people are so confident in their knowledge when they are not really understanding something. Look, I was that previous poster as well and I remember being attracted to this book we had in first grade that depicted an evil female teacher lowering a tied up male student into a pool of sharks… I remember hearing a story on NPR in 4th grade in which a guy did this sort of "performance art" where he tried to catch a chicken in a cage while blindfolded and in his underwear and somehow this turned into a fantasy in my mind of a man naked in a cage rolling in the mud trying to catch a chicken while women and girls laughed and watched him humiliated to try and earn some money… I remember hearing about this shit:
http://mastertu.com/iron-crotch and being fixated on the idea of being made to pull girls around by a cart tied to my balls. These things were not even sexual, I had never had an orgasm, they were not presented in a sexual context, I barely had any idea what sex was and the women in these scenarios were not even naked. It was my mind that invented fantasies of cfnm humiliation, bondage and ballbusting.
When I say fetish I suppose what I really mean is a paraphilia but most people refer to femdom as a "fetish"
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ParaphiliaYour "Of course it is. I can enjoy vanilla sex…" is uninformed bullshit. I can enjoy vanilla sex on an emotional and physical level but not truly on a sexual one.
>And this is just silly. I have never in my life been with a woman who wasn't willing to indulge my fetishes in some way. If it is not innate for her the same way it is for me then it is going to cause tension. Of course most people will be willing to try having you tied up or something once or twice. That's not what I am talking about, what I am talking about is having your entire sex life devoted to female domination. For me anything less than that is unfulfilling and leads me to resent someone who I would be freely in love with if it were not for this fetish/paraphilia. If I love a girl enough then I am able to put this aside for a while and be content with occasional light femdom play but it always comes back. When it comes back it demolishes my normal sex life and makes it impossible for me to get hard without some femdom involved. Do you have any idea how much stress that causes people? Do you understand what it is like for a girl who gets off on being submissive and loved it when I was able to be more vanilla for a while to now feel as though I am not attracted to her at all? Do you not see how selfish that makes me seem when I am physically incapable of returning the favor when she does indulge this?
The only way a relationship longer than 2 years is going to work for me is if I find someone who I click with on a basic dating level and has a strong complimentary fetish for dominance. That is extremely rare.
>If the women you're with aren't receptive to it, maybe it's because they don't really like you very much to begin with? Fuck you dude. Seriously, fuck everything about you.
2f08a3 No.2822
>>2811>I can enjoy vanilla sex on an emotional and physical levelSo you tell me that big, long ass wall of text special snowflake story to ultimately conclude with "I can enjoy vanilla sex, I just prefer femdom"
Bravo.. *slow claps*
>Do you have any idea how much stress that causes people?Meanwhile in Africa…
>Do you not see how selfish that makes me seem when I am physically incapable of returning the favor when she does indulge this? Yes, you're 110% a selfish fuck. Relationships are about compromise and be willing to go out of your comfort zone.
Here's an idea, if you have a girlfriend who prefers being a sub, try:
* Monday, Wednesday and Friday: you top her.
* Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday: she tops you.
Problem fucking solved right? Oh wait EVERYTHING has to be about you.
>Fuck you dude. Seriously, fuck everything about you.No, fuck you. You're one of these self centered creeps that gives BDSM related activities a bad name.
All you sound like is:
WAAAAAAA MY FEMDOM FETISH IS MORE REAL THAN YOURS WAAAAAAAAAA
You were gifted in having a awesome, fun kink and all you can do is whine and bitch about it.
2f08a3 No.2823
>>2822
>Meanwhile in Africa… Guess what, relationship issues can exist and Africa can be shitty at the same time.
>Problem fucking solved right? Oh wait EVERYTHING has to be about you. That's what the fucking issue is, thats why its a burden to have a fetish. Congrats on almost getting it.
>No, fuck you. You're one of these self centered creeps that gives BDSM related activities a bad name. Yeah because I have a god damn fetish and I wish I wasn't like this. If you don't know what that's like then stop pretending to be an authority on the subject.
>Here's an idea, if you have a girlfriend who prefers being a sub, try:
>* Monday, Wednesday and Friday: you top her.>* Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday: she tops you. right, tried this but it falls apart when I physically can not get turned on by topping. Because I have….. a fetish!
>You were gifted in having a awesome, fun kink and all you can do is whine and bitch about it.Because it makes it difficult to build a successful relationship when I can't successfully fulfill the needs of others. You are in a thread about people trying to get rid of the fetish, don't be surprised that people don't view something that severely limits their long term relationships as a "gift." I don't want to be self centered but I have a fetish that fundamentally controls my sexuality and again, if you don't get what that is like then stop pretending you are an authority on the subject.
I don't care if you are into this because you are bored and looking for a thrill but stop pretending that that means everyone should be like you. I would if I could but I don't know how to erase something that has been with me since I was 7 or 8. Do you understand that? I am having trouble explaining this in simpler terms for you.
2f08a3 No.2824
>>2822oh and,
>Yes, you're 110% a selfish fuck. Relationships are about compromise and be willing to go out of your comfort zone.Yeah, I've done that a lot but if I can't get hard it kind of ruins the domination aspect. That's why it sucks to have a fetish. Believe me, I've tried. I've been trying to change this for at least 6 years now. Its not about comfort zones, its not about compromise, its about extreme rarity of true compatibility for those with a femdom fetish.
2f08a3 No.2826
>>2823>right, tried this but it falls apart when I physically can not get turned on by topping.Supposing you can't use your imagination to get hard during vanilla sex, there is a magic little blue pill called Viagra. Retard.
>Because I have….. a fetish!Jesus, you are genuinely a fucking retard.
>>2825I didn't call him a creep for having this fetish, I think it's great fun. I'm calling him a creep because he lacks empathy and has the mind of a twelve year old.
Seriously read his post. He makes it sound like a relationship is nothing but sex and refuses to do anything for his partners other than what satisfies himself.
I truly hope he decided to 'cure' his femdom fetish with a gunshot to the head. The world could do without retards like this.
Honestly this moron could find a way to complain about a bag of diamonds on his doorstep.
"it's not about compromise, it's about extreme rarity of true bags for putting my diamonds into"
2f08a3 No.2827
>getting preachy on a porn board
oh shit nigger
2f08a3 No.2830
>>2826>Supposing you can't use your imagination to get hard during vanilla sex, there is a magic little blue pill called Viagra. Retard.
>if people are not turned on by certain sex they should get diagnosed by a doctor and spend tons of money on pills that may or not help them have that type of sex even though they don't have ED just a strong fetish
>Honestly this moron could find a way to complain about a bag of diamonds on his doorstep.>having a fetish which complicates relationships=finding a bag of diamonds
>I truly hope he decided to 'cure' his femdom fetish with a gunshot to the head. The world could do without retards like this. >comes into thread about trying to deal with a femdom fetish and suggest people kill themselves while comparing it to diamondscongratulations, you are the biggest retard on the board.
2f08a3 No.2831
>>2826almost forgot,
>Seriously read his post. He makes it sound like a relationship is nothing but sex>goes to porn board>goes into fetish discussion thread>criticizes someone for talking mostly about sex0/10 pls leave
2f08a3 No.2833
>>2826mfw this entire response
2f08a3 No.2836
>>2728Uh, no. It's not.
I like femdom because I like worshipping women, not because I want to watch my girlfriend cheat on me.
2f08a3 No.2837
>>2728no that's the biggest fucking turn off.
2f08a3 No.2838
>>2826>Supposing you can't use your imagination to get hard during vanilla sex, there is a magic little blue pill called Viagra. Retard. Viagra helps you get hard when you have ED and costs like 30$ a pill. I don't have ED, I have a strong fetish. Additionally, I don't have $100 bucks to blow on pills every week and here's the kicker… I actually tried this too at one point but the doctor said he could only give me a trial of a few pills. They didn't treat the actual problem which is the fetish, they just made me even harder for femdom stuff.
>I'm calling him a creep because he lacks empathy and has the mind of a twelve year old.How do I fit either of those descriptions?
>He makes it sound like a relationship is nothing but sex and refuses to do anything for his partners other than what satisfies himself. I don't think you are reading my responses at all. I've tried being dominant many many times and I've had relationships lasting multiple years. I've compromised and tried to change for partners for years but I don't know how which is why I am in this thread. I am talking mostly about sex because we are talking about sex. The problem is that the fetish always ends up causing issues eventually. Sexual compatibility is a big part of a relationship for most adults.
>I truly hope he decided to 'cure' his femdom fetish with a gunshot to the head. The world could do without retards like this. Right back at yah buddy. I think
>>2830 already summed it up.
>Honestly this moron could find a way to complain about a bag of diamonds on his doorstep.Do you understand you are in a thread about people trying to get rid of the fetish? How is this like a bag of diamonds at all?
You are embarrassing yourself.
2f08a3 No.2842
>>2789>If you don't enjoy vanilla shit don't do it.>>2789>Do the things you enjoy, instead of wishing that your preferences were different.>>2822>Yes, (if you don't act a dominant) you're 110% a selfish fuck. Relationships are about compromise and be willing to go out of your comfort zone.>>2826> He makes it sound like a relationship is nothing but sex and refuses to do anything for his partners other than what satisfies himself.
>I truly hope he decided to 'cure' his femdom fetish with a gunshot to the head. If you are going to be a cunt at least be a consistent cunt.
2f08a3 No.2875
>>2754Not if its just "normal" femdom but if I go to the really intense fantasy shit where there are dudes getting killed or shot with arrows or sons getting abused by mothers… then I feel horrible. If its just a girl on top of a guy in chastity, facesitting or some light ballbusting have no issues.
2f08a3 No.2876
don't.
2f08a3 No.2883
>>2721Shit does nothing for me sexually, but I do love how the dommes seem a lot less scowl-faced and more tender with a girlsub. I wish it was like that more often when the sub is a guy,
2f08a3 No.2884
First, you avoid 8ch.net's femdom forum like the plague.
2f08a3 No.2885
>>2883Something about men just makes their blood boil, I think.
2f08a3 No.2886
>>2885That's stupid I think its just that people consider men to be able to take harder punishment.
2f08a3 No.2899
I can get off to nearly all types of porn, but not equally
femdom > vanilla > femsub
Problem is, that society is the opposite. Most women tend to be submissive and a minority are dommes, making it harder to find a gf.
That would've already been bad but it's worse because I already have a hard time with girls because of social anxiety, shyness and lack of confidence.
I think that that stems from my femdom fetish, and that if only I can replace my femdom fetish with a femsub fetish, I'll have more success with girls.
2f08a3 No.2908
You know what I realized?
Worrying about liking femdom, just because girls will find it a repulsive trait in me, is silly. Even if I had no interest in femdom, I'd still end up dying a virgin. So why worry about it?
If your tastes are never going to be an issue involved with other people, if you're always going to be alone either way, there's no reason to fret and punish yourself. Just enjoy what you enjoy, since it doesn't matter either way.
2f08a3 No.2918
>>2908>just because girls will find it a repulsive trait in meThis isn't true at all. If a women likes you she'll enjoy getting you off, regardless of your specific fetish.
I've literally not been with a women who has rejected me because of my interest in femdom, in fact most found it intriguing/exciting.
2f08a3 No.2919
>>2899>I think that that stems from my femdom fetish, and that if only I can replace my femdom fetish with a femsub fetish, I'll have more success with girls.Changing your fetish won't improve your success with women mate. Most women aren't really "submissive" either, not in the same way you are.
There is only a very small percentage of women that actively fantasize about BDSM related activities (femsub). The rest of the women (the ones you'll be dating) are only going to do it because they want to get YOU off.
It'll require roughly the same amount of effort to warm up a your girlfriend to femsub as it will to warm her up to femdom.
Despite what porn may've lead you to believe - you can trust me when I tell you that most women would much rather kick you in the nuts or hit you with a crop then they would choke on your dick for half an hour. (unless that's specifically her fetish)
2f08a3 No.2921
>>2918>This isn't true at all.I think you're full of shit but even if we say it's true, it's still irrelevant as far as (nonexistent) relationships go and so there's nothing wrong with enjoying it.
2f08a3 No.2926
>>2921>there's nothing wrong with enjoying it.That's the thing though, retard: you're not enjoying it. You're too much of a little fucking pussy to find a partner or hire a professional to indulge your fetish.
Your life experience is limited to looking at pictures on the internet so you have literally no business giving advice to anyone about anything.
Maybe once you've had half a dozen sexual partners, been involved in the BDSM community and explored this fetish some more you'll be qualified to speak on the topic, but until then fuck off with your keyboard jockeying.
But no… _I'm the one who's full of shit_
2f08a3 No.2927
>>2926>Maybe once you've had half a dozen sexual partners, been involved in the BDSM community and explored this fetish some more you'll be qualified to speak on the topic,jesus christ
2f08a3 No.2928
>>2926> you're not enjoying itI'm pretty sure I am.
I'm also pretty sure your reaction to being called out on your bullshit being to flip out and get salty kinda confirms it's true - you're full of shit.
2f08a3 No.2931
>>2039 (OP)
I think I got into femdom because of some psychological shit pre-puberty that I don't feel like typing about. I kind of envy the people who were vanilla and then later discovered femdom but even then are only into vanilla gentle femdom.
>>2093Halfchan has high traffic boards filled with normalfags and /cgl/.
>>2786>What sort of stupid-tier nonsense is this? You realize that you can still date all the same people as person without a femdom fetish can, right? Bullshit. Yes you can date the same people but many will either not be into it or revolted by it, especially if you're into the BDSM side of femdom and not gentle femdom/role reversal. One thing a good relationship is built on is compatibility–including sexual compatibility.
>that's the whole fucking point of fetishes dummy, to remedy boring, vanilla shit. No it's not you fuck. Alot of us were like this our entire lives. It took me years to find out what femdom was before I realized this is what I was looking for my entire time.
>>2808>I don't like eating chocolate but I do like driving Lamborghinis (which I obviously can't afford). Yet I don't really feel burdened or upset by this. Liking chocolate isn't the same as having a sexual preference or specific sexual orientation.
Just change this guys posts of talk about femdom/fetishes to homosexuality and you"ll see how retarded he is.
>So what if you're into men! Just take some viagra and fuck her! 2f08a3 No.2941
>>2786>HURRRRRRRRRRDURRR HURRRR DUR HU R DURRRRR HURRRRR. DURRRR HURRR DURRRR HURR, DU R HURRR, DURRRR'R HURRR DU HURRRRR DU HURR DURRRRRR HURR DU HURR DUR HURRR.
2f08a3 No.2944
>>2055>>2786>>2808>>2822>>2826>>2926Is this all just one particularly challenged anon?
2f08a3 No.2968
>>2926>>2926>You're too much of a little fucking pussy to find a partner or hire a professional to indulge your fetish. Finding a partner can be hard for some people and not everyone wants to spend tons of money on an ultimately unfulfilling interaction with a BDSM prostitute.
2f08a3 No.2969
>>2926>Maybe once you've had half a dozen sexual partners, been involved in the BDSM community and explored this fetish some more you'll be qualified to speak on the topic, but until then fuck off with your keyboard jockeying. What a pretentious dipshit. Worthless fucking post.
2f08a3 No.2980
The problem with Femdom is that I feel disgusted by it after I'm done.
I don't have any feelings towards vanilla when I'm done, but the idea of femdom when I'm not horny feels disgusting
2f08a3 No.2981
>>2980
Used to happen to me and I figured out it was because I saw being a sub as something bad. Once I got rid of that mentality, that feeling went away.
2f08a3 No.2998
>>2980
>>2981
I'm somewhere in between these, I don't feel bad about being a sub but I have gotten off to some disgusting shit in the context of getting off to being a sub.
2f08a3 No.3019
>>2980
That's why the real thing is always better than fantasies. Your imagination doesn't do aftercare.
2f08a3 No.3678
>>2757
>>2757
>You will probably develop an orgasm control/chastity fetish
>tfw developed a massive hard on for being denied orgasm (joi countdowns with denied at the last second)
Not into chastity though, fuck that shit.
I want rid of both my femdom fetish and denial fetish.
Ignoring the femdom lead to the denial fetish, how the fuck am I getting out of both?
2f08a3 No.3680
Try lurking tumblr for porn. The amount of cringe, SJW shit and general annoyance works like some kind of aversion therapy.
2f08a3 No.3694
It's impossible to get rid of. It's a paraphilic mental disorder.
Basically your brain reacts similar to
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Photic_sneeze_reflex
Just with humiliation and sexual arousal instead of bright light and sneezing.
People who say "lol it's just kinky sex =) get over it" don't know what they're talking about and are most likely female.
Maybe in 20 years when we have a greater understanding of neurology we'll know how to fix this shit. I know it can cause a lot of self-hatred to have this piece of shit paraphilia but there is absolutely nothing you can do about it so it's best to cope as best as possible. If you ever plan on having a serious relationship it would be best to hide it since almost all women find it repulsive to be with a man who likes to feel weak and humiliated.
2f08a3 No.3734
Real life dommes and switches aren't even that rare, they just don't lurk on chan and have the same standards as normal women (which you probably don't meet).
Vanilla sex can also be spiced up if you go in with the right mindset. Going down on her speaks for itself, have her lay her hands on your head and lick her like a good boy! Plowing a girl also gets more exiting when thinking of it like you are really in the submissive position: that of a stud working like hell to satisfy her.
I can't fap to vanilla either but can enjoy it irl.
I'm actually wondering if op is virgin.
Btw cialis is better than viagra and cheap. Half a pill should be enough if you don't have ed.
Lastly: SUBSPACE is fucking heaven, you can go completely under without noticing anything other than excitement and then when she unties you or stops beating and starts cuddling, BANG dillated pupils and everything, it feels remarkably similar to MDMA in a way! (The subdrop too unfortunately)
2f08a3 No.4663
>>2919
>r hit you with a crop then they would choke on your dick for half an hour. (unless that's specifically her fetish)
Why do I have a boner
2f08a3 No.6227
Start lifting and do nofap for at least 3 months straight.
2f08a3 No.6252
>>6227
That's right, nofap is a godsend for quitting fetishes. I've been holding the key for a friend of mine for eight months and he has not relapsed fapped to femdom even once. He thanks me profusely every time we meet. Highly reccomendable!