No.1311
ITT, w-we discuss how to meet Dominant girls and share tips.
So, so far we have come to the consensus that there are two main sites to meet Dominant grilles on. The first is Collarspace, which is basically a buggy social site filled with shady as fuck people and findommes/poor people. However, it's very easy to talk to these people and meet them.
The second site is called Fetlife, and this is more of a Facebook clone, with most of the interaction being done in group discussions and meetup boards. This site tends to attract alot less Female Dominants than above, but you can still find a few of them on here.
Does anyone have any other experiences they like to share? How do you meet Dominant Women in vanilla life? How do you word it without outing yourself as being some kind of sexual deviant?
No.1315
1) Acquire Girlfriend
2) Explain that you're into this
3) She's either cool with it or doesn't want to
4) You either have your fetish satisfied or you don't , but you still have the girlfriend
No.1316
Having a full-on femdom relationship is about as rare as winning the lottery. Best case scenario is if your regular girlfriend occasionally indulges in the fetish from time to time.
No.1320
You know that kind of girl who always fixes your hair and makes little teasing jokes at your expense?
They always turn out to be into this shit.
No.1353
So, you're interested in meeting dominant girls? If any of you are in the UK, message me on my fetlife account, IndigoCollar.
I'm looking for a tall skinny male sub, aged 18-25, who wants a relationship and who loves orgasm control and cuddling. So if you're like this description, message me!
No.1364
>>1353Where abouts in UK before I sign up for this site?
No.1366
>>1353You look beautiful, Miss. I hope you find some good subs to make your life better~
No.1367
listen in, for I have officially made it
For reference, my one and only gf is into power play, calls me cute and will be my queen quite soon, which involves me on my knees kissing her feet. She also is very cuddly and I love her.
You need to find the right environment for a girl like this, I met her at an electronic engineering course, and I think that she has rather high levels of testosterone, judging by behavior and facial features. Anything stem related will be good, and you don't have to appear as a sissy to them, other people think of me as quite intimidating in an autist way. With regards to the risk of being "outed", simply take that risk outside of your normal social circle or local area, you'll be fine then.
good luck
ganbatte~
No.1368
>>1353>18>qt>inexperienced>affectionateTfw you don't live in the UK.
No.1370
>>1353I'm 23, over 6 foot and have muscles but basically no fat. I fucking love both of those.
Butttt obviously, I live in Boston where I am doing graduate school for the next 6 years. I have a ton of family in the UK and visit fairly often… yeah. fuck.
Nice to have you around the board though to offer the perspective of the type of person we are all dreaming of.
No.1372
>>1353hey
>>1370 here, I forgot to mention I'm also on fetlife profile is YES-YES-ME-YES. I am just barely starting to actually use it but I'll friend you if you want.
I think you'd be my first friend over there.What's it like using that site as a young dom? I imagine theres probably some desperate fucking messages in your inbox.
No.1375
No.1376
>>1366Thank you.
>>1368Ah, drat. I'm sure you'll find a femdom where you live someday.
>>1370Hnnng the good ones always live in America.
>>1372But, sure, I'll add you! Honestly, being a young femdom I do get quite a few strange messages. Like that one guy who was obsessed with smelly feet and hoped I had bits of dirt in between my toes. That was bizarre.
No.1385
No.1391
>>1385Nope, Birmingham. Sorry.
No.1461
>>1375Ah, bit too far for me to travel seen as how I'm in the North-east.
No.1478
>>1376Hello Mistress, you look and sound amazing!
6'1"/185cm medium build US dude here. I love cuddling and orgasm control, and British accents at that… Figures you would be so far away :((
I'm GasMaskDude on Fetlife, I was just wondering if you're cool with just adding me?
Thanks and good luck finding that sub, Mistress!
It shouldn't be too difficult if I had to guess, with a QT mistress like you and the amount of us subs out here No.1998
Anyone try slaveselection? Any luck or just a waste of money? I noticed a lot of the doms use same photo
No.2025
>>1353Lol damn. Would hit you up if I wasnt in freedomland/murica. Im guessing youre gonna have a pretty nice selection though with those criteria.
No.2072
>>1391Haha, I'm actually a tall skinny 19-year-old sub from Birmingham. I already have my own mistress, but good luck! ^_^
No.3611
>>1311
>tfw met a great dom girl
>too shy/insecure to ask her out
>she gets a gf the next month
>tfw forever alone with no dom gf ever
;_;
No.3621
I would love to meet a sub guy, I knew a wonderful one who lived across country, but distance and whatnot has made it difficult. Finding you irl is hard :P
I would say just stay positive about it, there is someone out there who wants what you do and is probably just as deviant. Happy thoughts.
No.3623
>>3621
Only because I gotta ask, which side of the country are you on?
No.3624
No.6059
>>3611
Get them into findom and tribute them.
You'll be subbing to two women at the same time.
No.6367
No.6390
>>1320
that reminds me of this one girl i used to work with who was a complete bitch to me but secretly i found it very sexy
No.6435
>>6390
Feels like girls like that are always submissive though, at least usually.
No.6436
>>1370
Why is it essentially impossible to find this type of girl in the northeast online? In RL, I've met four or five, but on boards or personals, there's nowhere that's not fin.
No.6438
>>6367
So are pegging, chastity, and foot worship, and people still do those.