>>14345
Define unattractive please, because you say you put effort into you (in order to look better). The blackpill is that when you are man, you either have good genetics or you don't. Men aren't supposed to look good/beautiful, they are supposed to have healthy genetic material. Only girls will see first your hairline, or your new t-shirt. Women will notice your posture, your wide shoulders, your facial structure, not much of that you can influence, there are limits (like your physical fitness). The great news are that right after this women notice your status which means for her potential background. That's why men still care about looking sharp. You can influence that. Part of status are your values, what you did in your life and who you are now. That's why I'm asking what do you mean by "putting a bit effort" because there are numerous things, some you can influence, some you can not. Or maybe you have just your standards too high, even poor lazy and ugly men get women because maybe they have charm or something, I don't know but there is a saying that "there is lid for every pot". Being ugly in the face isn't excuse imo, unless you are seriously burnt or something. Being confident helps, because face doesn't reflect only your hygiene or genetics but also shows your personality/behavior.
For women this doesn't work this way, often she can just put on some make up, your dick goes *boink* and deal is done. Many weak dudes realized this and they try to become girls.