>>386109
Pretty sure it was Contrapoints that clued me in on this. They pretty briefly talked about their time as a twink and experiences with woman during that era where they were "just experimenting" with crossdressing, and had some kind of massive success and surge of interest from existing partners. I know for sure I've consistently and dramatically had more luck both with actual people and on places for erotica by going all the way with trying to trap, rather than existing in the weird place young soyboys do.
"In my late teens and early twenties I was a longhaired, smoothchested androgyne, which suited me well. It was around then that I first crossdressed, when a woman I was seeing asked if she could dress me up in her clothes and do my makeup. God yes, I said! Through my twenties I was on and off in relationships where there was this feminization dynamic. More women are into feminizing boys, than you might think."
Before I heard this from them, I thought what I was doing was a weird, niche "just me" thing I was fucked up to have my mind set on, but in retrospect, straight femboy tropes are such an underdeveloped, underexploited scene that you can literally be a semi-normal person amongst the crowd and automatically be in the top ten in any given community. It's filled, overbrimming, with edgy, aggressively-depressed "hurt me" femmes and "m-mommy" shota-alikes that just drip with creepy vibes so hard it makes me doubt my choice of identity, and then make me sure of it. I worry I've developed a weird abstract savior complex about the whole idea.
And, of course, it's more or less nonexistant in real life, so when women see what you're about, it can be a bit of a mindblower. An extremely significant percentage of women already find themselves bi or "confused" and "exploring," significantly more than dudes, so being able to reconcile that in their head in one well-kept package is like magic. It becomes extremely jarring once you get over the soyboy hump and enter femininity, how quickly women's attitudes towards you shift. It feels like cheating, the way everything seems to "loop over" from the hell "just-not-masculine" guys live, directly and near-instantly into simultaneous attraction and sisterhood.
>>386127
I'm concerned, anon.