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>grindr
Even /soc/ is less greasy
I know this is going to be a textwall already, but I think it deserves a longer reply since I was in your same situation and it'd suck to see someone make the same mistakes.
When I was your age (a whopping 1 month ago) I was super stressed out about potentially being a 20 y/o virgin and had a hookup with an average looking 24 year old fellow virgin at my uni. It really wasn't that great - don't get me wrong, he was fine but it was just sort of empty. Didn't feel much different afterwards and hell, I felt very silly for worrying so much about the sexual aspect, so I'd say don't sweat it about being a virgin, take your time and find a proper qtbf. As a bonus you won't have to worry about fucking it up, which you will certainly do the first couple times. Besides, a surprising number of homos are still virgins, it's quite normal to be desu
If you're really set on doing it then there's not much me or the other posters can say to stop you so at least follow this:
>meet him at a coffee shop, the mall or somewhere public for the first time.
>make it clear that it's just to talk, no lewd
>If he refuses or is only looking for a hookup you're better off not, since he probably isn't going to take it slow and that'll really suck for a virgin
>Spend this first night talking and only talking to get some readings off your sketch-o-meter
>If you get any bad vibes, just bail after that day no harm done to either of you. Whole lot easier than deciding to nope out after you've gotten naked or something
>Otherwise, have more intimate dates, do whatever you feel comfortable with and don't feel pressured to do anything too fast. It should hopefully go naturally from there, just make sure to communicate what you want or don't want.
Most people have no problems with doing it that way, it avoids putting yourself in a potentially dangerous situation and hey, you might meet a new friend even if it doesn't work out.