Are there bottoms (here) that want a dominant top boyfriend to order them around not only in bed, but only if it's orders to tend to appearance/cleanliness/being dressed in a certain way and things that improve your life, like your dom top bf telling you t

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Anonymous 02/20/18 (Tue) 15:39:18 No.373878

Are there bottoms (here) that want a dominant top boyfriend to order them around not only in bed, but only if it's orders to tend to appearance/cleanliness/being dressed in a certain way and things that improve your life, like your dom top bf telling you to go to bed at a certain hour or taking you for walks/make you exercise?

I've tried to establish this with someone that seemed to have lost interest after a while and now i've lost all my confidence i had in this kind of dynamic and now fear that people just don't want to be ordered around, even with best intentions and a lot of consideration in mind. I can't see myself in a relationship if it's not something like this.

Anonymous 02/20/18 (Tue) 18:32:23 No.373887

Depends on if you have the potential to physically enforce said orders.

Anonymous 02/20/18 (Tue) 19:09:23 No.373891

It all depends on your methods of enforcement. If it's like a punishment/reward system then I could see myself going for it but if it's "Do dishes or get the whip" more than once in a while then I can easily see it getting old.

Anonymous 02/20/18 (Tue) 19:37:07 No.373893

>>373891

I don't really have stuff like doing dishes in mind, rather stuff that either benefits my bf or to make him learn cute/effeminate behavior and unlearn manly behavior.

In terms of enforcement, I'm not really thinking about BDSM type punishments like whipping or spanking, but stuff like being more mean/rough with him when he misbehaves, less cuddly and warm and more strict.

Anonymous 02/20/18 (Tue) 23:36:03 No.373907

>>373893

Are you always mean if they're having a bad day or something? Because at any point you'd have to show some kind of affection to make them want to stay with you. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where I could get dogged on for days on end anyways.

Anonymous 02/21/18 (Wed) 00:24:35 No.373910

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>>373893

Pretty much what >>373907 said. I'm pretty heavily masochistic and wouldn't mind something leaning more strict or domineering (especially if I'm being bossed around by another cuteboy) but only in a strictly sexual context. Petplay has spoiled me on this aspect but in my opinion if you'd just turn into a drill Sergent just because I stood up when I took a piss then it just wouldn't last. I would say it'd sound like fun in a strictly casual fooling around arrangement

Anonymous 02/21/18 (Wed) 00:27:41 No.373911

>now fear that people just don't want to be ordered around

keine Scheiße, Scherlock

>even with best intentions and a lot of consideration in mind

It's a fucking fetish, probably caused by psychological insecurity, don't pretend it's actual altruism.

Considering my laziness this doesn't actually sound like a bad idea (particularly if you punished me with a chastity cage ;) but I'm afraid I'd eventually get bored of being bossed around all the time by the person that I should love, by someone who should be my equal.