/cuteboys/ - Boypussy

>>352084

hey OP, I was born a few months earlier than i should have been with some problems so I didnt hit puberty until I was 15/16 and as such i have major problems with testosterone and other junk

ur not alone dw

>>352084

Is there a site thats for real dating? It seems like OP wants a relationship, which is something I would love help with too.

I'd love to date someone, not just have booty call man texting me. What I would love is to one day marry a nice guy and have kids. I know thats not a popular thing for gays. Its gotten to the point that I thought about "adopting" a NEET to date and maybe marry to make that happen.

At least as a virgin my libido is out of weak high, but even then I really am not too interested in fucking myself. I kind of feel your pain. Good luck. From what I can tell you will need it.

Bout the same OP. At this point, I have no idea how to find/meet cuties. Grindr is an unreliable cespool, dating apps/sites are next to useless (especially when you don't live in a terribly populated area), Tumblr just attracts weirdos.

I've actually had the best luck on 4chan, but I don't post there much because a few people like to post my full name which is kinda annoying. I'll probably just buy a body pillow and resign myself to being alone forever

>>352084

I have a similar problem. I didn't hit puberty until I as 18 and I'm androgynous as hell. Makes for a good trap, but I can't seem to find anyone who's just nice. Everyone wants sex, which I don't want.

I don't think it's actually that rare for romance to spark out of just non romantic/sexual relations. Wether it be coincidental or not, in my experience, romance that sparked out of friendship has lead to far more healthy relationships than any of the desperate losers who have approached me from dating sites, chans and whatever other pools of people actively looking for them. Do you really expect anything other than desperation and sexual tension from these places?

You would be very lucky to find anyone reasonable willing to go out with you if you're a clingy, desperate weirdo yourself, better yet looking in places specifically designated for this type of individuals. Either settle for an exhibitionist /cuteboys/ nutjob or drop the desperation shit and don't focus so much on finding a partner. Unless you're a total hermit, I'm sure you'll find someone who likes you through normal social interaction. And if you are a shut-in.. well, there's your problem buddy.

>>352131

>I'm sure you'll find someone who likes you through normal social interaction

What's normal social interaction? Because holding down a 9 to 5 and going out on weekends has led me to constant disappointment.

>>352136

That would ultimately come down to your personal interests and preferences. Clubbing, bars and whatnot, contrary to popular belief tend to not exactly be the right pool for getting to know new people. In Sweden especially, people tend to go out but stick to either themselves or their friend groups, as bars and clubs are more designated for shallow entertainment; getting hammered, rather than general socializing.

I've made lots of friends from my hobbies (archery, videogames, art exhibitions), business meetings and less narrow than clubbing-type social events and venues. Though really I'm sure you can find people on chans and social communities as well, I think the intrinsic problem really lays in specifically looking in pools of people desperate for relationships.

Sure, maybe you wont end up in a relationship with every person you meet, but it's asking a lot to try and find somebody sane yet desperate for romance.

>>352084

Zeemaps is a good place to start. After years of it not working out I've finally found someone I care about.

>>352084

This >>352140

very recently met someone through the zeemaps after someone put their marker down where i live in the middle of no where. It's a good place to find people near by that are atleast interested in similar things

>>352139

>>352131

From what I've heard, good relationhips come when you least expect it. or when you're not looking for one.

I'd prefer just good friend relations with potential friends-with-benefits things, (but that's not necessary at all) but I'm not into casual hookups. But at the same time I don't want a serious monogamous relationship, and usually people want one of those two things. I think I'm kind of doomed to have a life where I'll never feel completely "right".

>>352084

This sounds very cute. There's plenty of cuteboys looking for cuteboys on the map/discords, most people who aren't too damaged find someone pretty fast though

>>352175

Holy shit anon, you judged described me word for word, though I think because she f what you mentioned in your last paragraph we probably wouldn't make for great partners. It's definitely not too greedy to ask for both, as you said it's the perfect relationship, I think we're all looking for that one person who can take us off edge and just let us be completely open. I hope you find your other half my spiritual twin.

>>352181

awe thanks, I hope you do too anon, as for my last paragraph I wish it wasn't so but It is what it is

>>352183

You can have hope anon I've talked to people who have autism but are in happy relationships it's just a bit harder for them and takes a little more effort on their part to communicate things. Don't give up

>>352183

What kind of autism? Do you interact with people at school or a job? How do you usually convey your emotions?

>>352175

>>352181

Niggas that's like every proper relationship not some pipe dream. Just take the step and talk to people who you like that are nearby

>>352270

What are you in college for? Also Cali is so far away! :(

>>352326

You seem like a cool guy! Maybe you should look at the clubs at college and see if theres any like minded people there? Thats how I made my friends in college. That being said I totally get doing your own thing.

Also if you are looking for someone, maybe they are on the map? You seem very stable and cool so I don't think you'd have a problem with getting a bf! I think if you just tell them after you are both comfortable with each other, you should be more then set :)

>>352170

Sounds like you're not sure what you want anon.

Anon who posted before. I'm a trap. I've done very little with anyone, some small lewds with another trap but not penetration. I've never been in a relationship, and frankly I'm afraid. I don't even know if I'm gay, maybe just lonely. I just feel so confused too. I want a relationship but I'm so closeted and unsure that I don't want one at the same time. And to top it off, I want biological children so I know any relationship I have will need to be aimed for that in the future or else it's doomed to fail. I feel terrible, and I don't know what to do.

>>352340

What is social anxiety like? I don't have it but it has to be rough.

> lewd stuff

I know the feeling, I'm 23 now and that all any fags on the internet want to do. The only guy who wasn't trying to get dick pics I blew it with, he was a NEET and I flaked :( I've been looking for a relationship that isn't sex based for a while. Maybe it's because I am too old for this board :( I probably said too much, lol, I hope you find you find a nice BF and some friends at college Anon :)

>>352341

>What is social anxiety like?

https://www.adaa.org/understanding-anxiety/social-anxiety-disorder

>>352342

That sounds awful anon, has it gotten better since it started?

>>352341

Makes you feel like everyone is going to criticize/make fun of you at any time over anything/everything and makes you feel uncomfortable in your own skin to an irrational degree. I got bullied for looking like a girl from 7th to 11th grade constantly by everyone and developed it really bad. I'm 23 and still have it sometimes just going out in the yard to get my mail even though I know there is almost no reason for it. I feel like a lot of people say they have it but actually don't have it

>>352348

Man that makes me feel happy I was too socially inept to understand people were making fun of me as a kid, I might have gotten that. Man that sounds so awful

>>352349

It can be pretty bad especially if you're actually being made fun of. I'm really envious of people who genuinely don't care

>>352351

Does this extend to personal relationships?

>>352352

Not good ones, for me at least, but I'm sure it probably can. It extends to people I don't know well and large groups of people and there is no way to rationalize it away until I'm there socializing and having a good time. I've bailed on hanging out in the past just because the thought of going turns me into a nervous wreck. The only cure I've found is to go out and actually socialize which I've done a lot of since then but it's never fully gone away.

>>352795

I know how you feel anon, i have social anxiety as well, it's not as bad as it used to be but i still have a few things to get over such as being intimate with someone. The only way to overcome it is to take small steps and do things that make you anxious , it sucks but once you get over the anxiety you just do not care.

I'm low libido and I just really want someone to cuddle with and have less sexual intimacy, not asexual but I just don't feel like constantly playing out fetishes and fantasies.

I just want someone who wants to explore more parts of life, mostly things that can be done inside because I'm anxious outside, than sex and likes being andro/fem as well.

>>352795

>interrogation marks

fucking frenchies

You might want to actually ask your doctor about injecting testosterone. If your sex drive is non functional and you're weak it might improve your life quite a bit.

>>352084

you an idahoan, cutie?