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It is better to already have a wife at 18 years of age.

>>696710

My father had 2 kids and his own bussiness at 21

Mother was 16 btw

>>696710

Not wrong. Just determine whether you are capable of supporting a wife at 18 years of age.

>>696726

What if you're not promiscuous but also hardly capable of supporting yourself with the current housing market?

>t. intended to start a family around age 25.

>>696710

if you dont have a full time job and a place to live and money to eat

>>696731

then the collective inaction of all so-called christians against state tyranny is degenerate enough for God to not intervene in satan's attempt to destroy our families.

God has removed his hedge of protection from our families and our posterity because of our idolatry.

Your prayers come before God and He doesn't answer them because for some reason, it's not according to God's will for you to produce children when it is biologically expedient.

Maybe it's cognitive dissonance? Hmmm.

Hope that answers your question.

>>696772

>>696710

It's completely normal to want to start a family at 18.

Heck lots of problems emerged when we abolished teenage marriages (people starting families at 16).

One of those is that while puberty is turning every male into a hormone-driven lust machine they now can't have a family so;

- Porn and fapping to compensate sexual frustrations

- No real course or direction in life which can lead to puberty existential crisis and depression

- Keeping kids kids for longer, resulting in weak-ass nibbas

>>696711

FPBP tbh.

>>696714

Wait, how old is he now?

Can't imagine that still happening pre-WWII.

>>696710

>Is it wrong to want a wife

No.

>>696838

>Heck lots of problems emerged when we abolished teenage marriages

Do you think that was causal though?

>Keeping kids kids for longer, resulting in weak-ass nibbas

I guess the majority of people prior to 20th century must have all been weak ass nibbas then

>>696710

Definitely not.

>>696715

Less so much supporting, as any can live without and survive fine. It's more about whether you can contain and control your wife's rebellion in this age of feminism and shill warfare against the teachings of God.

>>696826

>Increased competition for work and property that came with globalisation

You mean women's right to work and free trade. The two most deadly things to a family and nation.

>>696865

>You mean women's right to work and free trade

Yeah free trade is what I was getting at there with globalisation. Without free trade societies arent effectively forced to have women work unless they win the geographic lottery.

Better question: Is it wrong to want a tomboy wife? For some reason I cannot feel attraction to a girl with long hair that dresses all proper and stuff, but I really doubt that there's a hoodie-wearing short-haired qt grill out there that actually gives a rat's ass about anything Biblical. Much less one that would give a rat's ass about me lmao.

>>696838

>Wait, how old is he now?

49. Also mother was an orphan and father from a working class family. The most important thing to raise a family is for the members to love each other, not career or stacks of money. Mother's deep belief and devotion to Christ helped a lot on that.

>>696710

Old enough to bleed, old enough to breed. As the saying goes.

>>696710

…no? That's totally normal. Or at least it was not too long ago.

>>696850

The concept of "adolescence" is extremely recent, historically speaking.

>>696973

And its only getting worse

>>696997

>contributed to the sorry state our society is in now

Why do you think these changes happened at this point in history and no other?

>Not really…If we go back to Roman times,

Ah I think I misunderstood you there I thought you were talking about kids as in cohabitating/living with parents.

>>696933

>only wanting a girl that looks and acts like a boy

You're as bad as the trap-lovers. They're gay because it's the dick that arouses them (because that's literally the only reason to prefer traps to women). You're gay because it's the otherwise male attributes that arouse you.

>>697055

>Why do you think these changes happened at this point in history and no other?

Well, everything can be boiled down to da jooz, but that's just the main group of interest here at work.

Why it all worked is another question.

For one, after the two World Wars there was a very nice environment for societal changes not seen in centuries; two immense wars of unprecedented and unseen scale recently ended, they brought lots of destruction which made room for growth, the then dominant conservative and authoritative political ideologies (Fascism, nazism, any form of absolutism) lost the war thus were the automatic bad guys, lots of scientific advancements due to coincidental in-war discoveries, but most of all a very VERY promising future of a long-lasting peace.

Long lasting peace means no need for men to draft nor defend their home country.

>But the Cold War!

Nobody was going to fire a nuke, and everybody knew that.

Besides we still have an army but it's not needed as direly as say…Germans crossing your borders for a überraschungsanschluss.

Now, you got no need for an instant army, and former absolutist ideologies lost the war, so you can push societal reforms now.

The climate was there unlike any in history.

>Ah I think I misunderstood you there I thought you were talking about kids as in cohabitating/living with parents.

You crazy mate? I'm of the opinion that when a man isn't married he has no real reason to leave their parental house and it has been that way for a looonggg time.

>>696772

>I hate this meme. How did this bullshit become so widespread?

Feminism; demonic Jewry incl. usury and capitalistic pursuit of self-interests and business that want to drive wages down though an influx of workers who shouldn't be working in the first place; communism, Cultural Marxism, and egalitarianism; hatred of marriage, monogamous sexual love, and children, and God's Law and Order; believing demonic doctrines such as celibacy and virginity > marriage and child rearing through misinterpretations of 1 Cor.7 and the Sadducees' question to Christ concerning the resurrection, Levirate marriage, and interpretation of the Torah (I'm so going there though every church and not just Catholicism is infected by this), etc. Pick your hellish venom.

>>696826

You've so gone far away from the target that I'm phtysically hurting right now.

>>696710

Wanted a wife and kids since 15, met my wife at 17, married her in my heart that day honestly, got married officially at 21, got two kids, planning more, life's good. Don't worry about finances, or troubles of the world, just find a righteous woman you can love and who loves you, and go for it. All other things fall into place after.

>>697153

Those are cartoons anon.

>>697172

Obviously there are real girls who are tomboys too, without being fullblown bulldykes or 'trans men'.

>>697158

just find a righteous woman … who loves you

Yup thats the part im not able to follow. Great advice though

>>697060

Don't presume to tell me why I like tomboys. Traps are different. Like you say, the only reason to like traps over girls is the dick, but with tomboys it's multiple things.

>cuter hair

>emphasis on personality as opposed to slutty looks

>not wearing pounds of makeup

>usually has a generally happy outlook on life

The only problem is that I have yet to find one that isn't a hardcore atheist or feminist.

Also:

>liking "boyish" looks on a female

<as bad as liking dick from actual men

Tomboys still have vaginas.

>>697186

Haven't found one yet, unfortunately. Still holding out hope, though.

>>697153

why post that image when shes not even dressed modestly