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The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

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b14a51  No.693601

Hi /christian/, sorry for the bad english.

I am doing a master on mathematics on a good college on south america. I've been a christian my whole life, but just 5 months ago I truly converted. Previously I took it as a family tradition more than anything serious, but I had to come to terms with it. The reason of my actual conversion had to do with my studies. I always had high levels of anxiety, specially on college, It took a lot of me to finishing my bachellor degree on math. 5 months ago I was on to presenting my master thesis on a conference and the stress + anxiety was reaching a all time high, then it happened, the panic attack started

The panic attack was in the subway, I felt shortness of breath (in fact I couldn't breath right, I felt like drowing), my pulse reached 110 when doing nothing and my mind feel fuzzy, I wanted to run but I was inside the subway. That is not the worse part, after going home I had passed the last 3 month on a panic disorder state where I got an sensori motor OCD (I am obsessed with my breathing, feeling I got to control it to avoid a panic attack), agoraphobia (crisis was outside), fear of hot air (subway air was hot), permanent high pulse, pain in the stomach (I couldn't eat the first 2 weeks, I lost 9 Kg), general depression and inability to do basic stuff (I couldn't wash the dishes, neither study mathematics).

I found God in the middle of this. He didn't cure me but gave me strength to confront my fears. I overcame the agoraphobia, the fear of hot air, my general panic sensations, general depression. My obsession with breathing is better now than before (I couldn't fall asleep before because I was too obsessed, I even dreamed about it) but it is still present and on August I came back to college.

I keep asking God during those 3 months to cure me, I couldn't support it. My mind wasn't my own, I didn't have peace on my own self. I keep obsessing over stuff (breathing), I couldn't stay still because there I would be obsessing. I couldn't sleep because I had to be still. It was hell and I don't think I learned anything from it except that hell exists and can be inside of us.

I got therapy, CBT with a christian therapist + psychiatric. Now I am better. I came back to college and I got to study a lot, I seem to have forgotten a lot of my material, I can't even integrate hehe. But the deal is this: I have to face anxiety on college, there is no way around it. I could face it as before (years with anxiety) but before nothing happened, now I *know* something could happen and have another 3 months of pain that I don't know how to deal with. That is my fear, my fear of coming back. If I knew God wanted me to follow this path I could deal with it, if he cured me I would know that I won't have those months of pain back. But I haven't spoke with him, I don't know what he wants from me and that scares me. I don't want to gamble my health on this, but I want my degree.

How have you got answers from God? How did you know God allowed you to follow a path? I just want to know I won't go back to those 3 months of pain ;_;

2a4c2b  No.693604

>>693601

Yes but I need to go to adoration so I'll say more when I get home. But yes the Lord speaks you just need to listen.


301bfd  No.693605

I went through that when dealing with my MfA. Know how I fixed it? I finished college and got my MfA … then, as if magic, all the stress about college went away. Maybe God wants you to finish what you started.


b14a51  No.693611

>>693605

OP here

What does MfA mean? I want to finish college, but I don't want to gamble my health. If God answered my prayer that I won't come back to those months I would be happy, just really happy!


301bfd  No.693649

>>693611

MfA = Master of Fine Arts. I studied literature at Rice University. I don't think you should be using God as a genie in a bottle who grants wishes. Remember that he helps those who help themselves.


5ba126  No.693651

Matthew 7:7-12

Keep the faith!

You fear to relapse into that depressive state, it creates anxiety. That's a vicious circle. Go consult your therapist, spiritual father, whoever you can express you're deep feelings and fears. Try to relax. Sounds easy. But do it! Believe in the power of the word of God!


2a4c2b  No.693673

>>693601

>>693611

OP God's first language is silence. I am going to be presumptuous and assume you are Catholic if so here are some things you can do.

Pray the Rosary.

Attend Eucharist adoration and spend an hour in silence and just talk to the Lord.

Pray a Novena over nine days and ask the Lord for help.

The Lord is a Doctor he could heal you immediately but you will be left open to the Devil and his tricks and will eventually fall down the same path. To heal your soul and mind will take time but you need to lean on him entirely. When you start counting breaths pray instead force it if you have to.


bb5cc1  No.693799

>>693673

This. Sometimes silence is the key. Remember when Jesus Christ spent a day on a rock in silence.

I will pray that you find your answers anon.


bb5cc1  No.693804

>>693601

I am in the same situation somewhat to be honest, I don't know what God wants of me and I can understand how difficult it is when god isn't answering you.

I am trying to become a doctor but my past problems keep on haunting me. I was bullied in middle school and have some family problems. Even after studying for hours couldn't even get into my 3rd choice of college.

Even in college my dorm mates are honestly irritating me. But one thing I've found is that I am now in a area where churches are nearby, and maybe God wanted me to convert here. (I was born a Hindu but started moving towards Christianity in mid 2017).

At this moment I am just reading the Bible that to not perfectly, but I hope God will guide me as he knows what is best for me.


ba8b2e  No.693905

I sometimes go to random bible verse generator websites, just to get something different to read up on. While I find more applicability to things I read every day, they do not always speak to me in a profound way. The other day, however, I opened five random verses from three different sites, just to see what I would get with different sources picking from the same source (the bible). This is what I received, and it truly spoke to me. I wrote it down to remember, and I think it can be helpful to all of you.

O the depths of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! how unsearchable are his judgments, and his ways past find out! - Romans 11:33

The LORD shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace. -Exodus 14:14

And the LORD, he it is that doth go before thee: he will be with thee, he will not fail thee, neither forsake thee: fear not, neither be dismayed. - Deuteronomy 31:8

I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world. - John 16:33

For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any many should boast. -Ephesians 2:8-9

I received and read these verses in this order. To me, it is a coherent message. I pray it reaches one of you the way it did me. God bless.




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