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Your dad is a retard. Marry him and have kids immediately.

>>660304

I fell for the late twenties shit from my secular parents. I have a wonderful wife and kids but, if I had it to do all over again, I'd have hunted her down earlier and had the kids earlier too… provided they'd be the same ones…

The point is, nothing has made me happier than my family, and I put it off for no good reason except "enjoy your youth" which I didn't, because I didn't have a family. I spent those years catering to my mother's and father's whims (they're divorced) and then when I finally had kids they got so uppity about me putting my kids and wife ahead of them I had to cut off all contact in the end.

I learned about not having two masters, and about hating my father and mother in order to follow Christ.

So, yeah, ignore them, get married at eighteen. God will surely bless you if you're doing it to act in accordance with His will for you.

TL;DR - Same thing as the guy above me said.

>>660304

Hey if it means anything, your skin will look healthier in the long run since you don't smear synthetic mud on it every day. Also yeah what everyone else said, marry young and kids young. I did and my parents did and I am so thankful that I had young parents as opposed to rich parents.

I will say though, you will catch a lot of grief from secular people for marrying young. Worth it though.

If you two have income that is sufficient to sustain new family, there is no problem that you should marry. Your parents pretty much have nothing to say about it

>Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Just be really thoughtful about it. Marriage should last for life

>>660307

>marry your retarded Dad

Anon I….

>>660323

>How is he already a junior at 19?

Quite possible in some places. In Bongland, if you are fine with your GCSE O-Level; or skipped a grade or two; or just went straight for A-Level if you are capable enough. You should be able to go into university by year 10~11 (3rd year middle school ~ 1st year high school). So it is possible to be 16 and already a freshman.

On the topic. I am really quite envious of OP, getting the chance of marrying at proper time. My sister wed at 25 and also my friends at the same age. They truly know life. Meanwhile, I am at the last stage to save my own (possible) marriage life. I do not want to wed late, but I do not want to be single either.

>>660304

I wish I had the same luck, I'm 18, almost 19 and I desperately want to marry and have lots of children (maybe adopt children), I personally believe I can make this world a better place and give myself motivation to work and get more healthy and active, I never drinked the "you're young, go and travel the world!" koolaid my school and parents always told me, but my relatives tell me about the economic issues it comes along with it.

I really wanted to make a thread for this, specifically how to handle or manage to raise a huge family.

>>660304

Marry him, make babies. You sound like a great lady and he sounds like a good fella. The big question for you is: is this a guy worth submitting to? For the rest of your life? Is he someone who would die for you if need be, as Christ died for his church? If so, yeah, go for it.

>>660310

Yes, this. I didn't have a kid until 30. Now we're in our mid-30s trying to have as many as we can. Raised properly, and with the correct attitude, children are a blessing and not a curse.

>>660304

>17

don't you have to be 18 to post on this site?

Also, if God wills it, go for it. Pray. Jesus will show you the way. Good luck, Anon!

>>660304

Sounds like you've got it right, really I wouldn't dissuade you. Besides you sound like you're in a much different situation.

>Your family bitching about muh makeup

If you need ammunition about this point, it's actually scientifically proven that makeup ruins your skin over the long term. I don't have any sauce to prove this, but any google search will do.