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12c0b0 No.643660

So, after the fall, man is left with this great gaping hole in which God used to be, and, because of abandoning God, he is now left with hatred, sadness and grief, rather than a life of joy and peace in presence of God's Grace.

As a result, we try to fill that infinite void inside us with virtually anything: food, sex, money, cigarettes, drugs, alcohol, video games, clothes, status; among many other things. This sort of addiction, where we become slaves to things we shouldn't serve, rather that they should serve us, is sometimes, in Christian literature, is known as a vice/passion. And what a passion/vice, according to the Holy Fathers essentially is, is a God given faculty we've misused and corrupted. Think of the desire for food: it's okay to eat regularly because you need strength and you have to consume food to survive - it's bad if you overeat out of pure pleasure and like to eat only certain kinds of food, becoming a slave to your stomach.

My theory is that people we meet in everyday life can become objects of passion as well. I'll take the example of women. Falling in love with a woman is good: the brain chemistry helps you to cultivate Christian love in your marriage (is easier to put up with someone if there's biological attraction present, i'd view it as training wheels).

What would be bad, is if we'd put that feeling of "love" at the throne of our heart, right where Christ should be. More closely put, it would mean making that feeling the meaning of my life, making it become some sort of heroin shot. And you become addictive, and you can't last a single day without seeing her, calling her, or texting her. Thus you become needy, ultimately harming her and harming yourself.

To be honest, I caught myself thinking like this. There was someone I treated badly and I needed to go and set things straight. But there were a lot of girls present at that event, so the thought arised: "Well, even if I don't manage to talk to my friend again (whom I treated badly), I may get a girlfriend there so I will be happy anyways." See what I mean? Liking girls is okay, but it seems that putting your love life as the core of your happiness, making it the core of your, perhaps even spiritual life, is a corruption of this God given gift.

I don't mean to say friendship cannot suffer from this too, but I think the brain chemistry is just toned down a lot more, so it's harder to become dependent on it. But, even then I think we sometimes depend too much on the comfort of our communites, our friends, families, etc.

What drove me to think about this and come up with this theory is that I have a lot of neediness problems with girls, and the huge festival I was at gave me such a sense of false happiness, being around so much people where everyone was happy and nice, gave me a illusion of false heaven. I think it was just the fact that I had so much girls around me and so much people whom I had the chance to socialize with.

What do you think? Could this have some legitimacy?

9d22f2 No.643665

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>>643660

You are correct when it comes to passion enslaveing people. Espically when it comes to loving the opposite sex. You sound like me when I was a teenager. I put women before God and it caused much unhappiness later in my life.

God calls us men to put him first in our lives. God will than give us a wife as a reward

>Proverbs 18:22

>Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord


12c0b0 No.643670

>>643665

So what did you do? Did it take time to fix it?

Honestly, when I give this a second thought, everything checks out at the rational side, but i don't feel right about it. I wouldn't advise anyone to adopt it unless they talk it over with their priest. Sorry i may have spread lies


7f040d No.643675

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>>643670

>So what did you do? Did it take time to fix it?

Lol well funny thing about that. One day I was smoking on the weed-a-juana when I came across some videos called "The Bible project" on (((Youtube))). I was already baked and normally I wouldn't watch it because I was catholic I thought I already knew the Bible. I watched one of the videos (I think it was on the book of Job) and the art and the perspective it had opened my eyes to God's greater glory. I watched more of the videos and it really helped me understand the words of the Bible.

Eventually I actually read the Book of John and…I don't know it's like I heard a calling from God and I allowed my heart to be taken by Him. Intense feelings of joy overcame my heart, knowing God loves me so much that He would sacrifice his only Son to save not just me, but everyone.

It's through Jesus' example of self sacrifice I learned to put others before me and I started to take care of myself. I joined the liftwaffe and watched my diet. Eventually, my fiancé found me and we have never been happier.

TL:DR

Put you faith in God and He will take care of you. Build up the temple of your body and allow the God to make His home in your heart. Never stop learning and remember the two commandments Jesus tells us:

>pic related


76f2ae No.643676

>>643675

>I was catholic

>was

dropped


7f040d No.643678

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5f076f No.643680

>>643676

>dropped

D R O P P E D


ca5a23 No.643684

>>643660

>What would be bad, is if we'd put that feeling of "love" at the throne of our heart, right where Christ should be.

You could have just quoted 1 john 3:18-20

>My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.

>And hereby we know that we are of the truth, and shall assure our hearts before him.

>For if our heart condemn us, God is greater than our heart, and knoweth all things.

<but it seems that putting your love life as the core of your happiness, making it the core of your, perhaps even spiritual life, is a corruption of this God given gift.

Indeed see hebrews 12:5-11

>And ye have forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him:

>For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.

>If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?

>But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons.

>Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?

>For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure; but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness.

>Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.

Most cultural false-christians would tell you to winnie the pooh off if you quoted hebrews 12:5-11 because they are in it for the feeling and not the fact of the matter of serving God in spirit and in truth john 4:24. They'd also reject leviticus 19:17-18 on these same lines of feeling good rather then doing what is right in the eyes of the LORD.

>Thou shalt not hate thy brother in thine heart: thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbour, and not suffer sin upon him.

>Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself: I am the LORD.

So rebuke your neighbor and suffer not sin upon him in any wise, if you love him as yourself that is. And see luke 10:29-37 for who your neighbor is.

>But he, willing to justify himself, said unto Jesus, And who is my neighbour?

>And Jesus answering said, A certain man went down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell among thieves, which stripped him of his raiment, and wounded him, and departed, leaving him half dead.

>And by chance there came down a certain priest that way: and when he saw him, he passed by on the other side.

>And likewise a Levite, when he was at the place, came and looked on him, and passed by on the other side.

>But a certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came where he was: and when he saw him, he had compassion on him,

>And went to him, and bound up his wounds, pouring in oil and wine, and set him on his own beast, and brought him to an inn, and took care of him.

>And on the morrow when he departed, he took out two pence, and gave them to the host, and said unto him, Take care of him; and whatsoever thou spendest more, when I come again, I will repay thee.

>Which now of these three, thinkest thou, was neighbour unto him that fell among the thieves?

>And he said, He that shewed mercy on him. Then said Jesus unto him, Go, and do thou likewise.


7f8b78 No.643695

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>>643675

Thanks for sharing your testimony, brother. I think it speaks volumes at how much God is reaching out to us, even while we are neck-deep in sin. His Love is truly fierce.

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. (John 3:16)




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