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f45f12 No.640935

I’m quite dead inside…reasons to stay Catholic?

da5133 No.640937

>>640935

If you have chosen the path of faith in Christ, follow through till the end.


f45f12 No.640940

>>640937

I do believe in Him, but I have grown bitter and angry at myself for my past life and towards others… I also have this problem with priests: when I go to confession, Iwant to feel rebuked, humiliated, and to receive harsh punishments; there’s no use in soft admonitions and only words of hope. I’m in for the pain and joy, not just the joy.


da5133 No.640941

>>640940

Don't be bitter and angry at yourself, but do mourn it. Because your sins are forgiven, but the result of them is with you forever. And that is something to be sad about, but it also must be accepted. With pain and joy, give yourself pain. Take up some ascetic practices that all Christians do (like defining fasting as no food and no water or just no food, and fasting 3 times a week). Do the harshest opposite of your past sins to make reparations, etc. Whipping and cold showers (only using the cold knob) as well if you can take it. Just make sure you use it properly. Priest won't always give you that, some are too kind about sin for some reason.


a26306 No.640943

>>640935

>reasons

Maybe because it's the truth ? Maybe because you have sworn an eternal oath to your Lord and Savior ? Maybe because you have a responsibility for Creation and all those poor lost souls that never heard of Christ or condemn His Body, the Catholic Church, because they have been blinded and mislead ?

Look, why is it important what YOU want ? You need to do what God wants. And if you think you lose faith and don't believe in God anymore - if that happens - you need to make yourself one thing clear: God believes in you. He loves you, limitlessly and unconditionally - you just gotta grab for it and re-align your heart with Him.

I tell you, go to Confession - and have a long and big talk with your priest. Stop fishing for non-reasons on the internet. You're having a faith-related problem ? Go to the one person that is able to help you.

God bless


e92ab6 No.640945

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>>640940

Confession is not the time for that, it is a time of healing and forgiveness, you should talk to a priest another time about those feelings. You have to remember while priests might discuss things with you during confession the primary purpose is the confession itself.


f45f12 No.640949

>>640943

There was a time when I never doubted all this…now because of many things I have taken up many doubts. Indeed, I am selfish and self-centred in many ways. Thanks, I’ll work on loosing these bad habits. Any suggestions? I bought the spiritual exercises of St. Loyola, but I’m open to suggestions.


f45f12 No.640955

>>640945

I took this “distaste” for priests from my family (one simile is almost entirely Communist whole the other is mostly Cafeteria and progressive Christians).


a26306 No.640957

>>640949

When you're entirely untrained but want to run a marathon, it's a bad idea to start off with 20km runs in under 150 minutes.

Spiritual exercises of St. Loyola is a great great piece of advice - but it's fairly advanced and it's a "program" (so to speak) for weeks. What you need is something "handy" and making that a habit - every single day.

The thing that comes to mind is the Rosary. It is our best weapon against evil and our greatest tool to convert people, including ourselves. It has everything: Pater Noster, which is THE prayer authored by God, the angelic salutation (Hail Mary), which again are words granted by God, the minor doxology and the sign of the Cross, which is us humans paying tribute to the Holy Trinity and directing our intentions. If you want you can add more prayers like the Fatima prayer (keep in mind that this is not part of the taught Rosary, because it's a prayer of divine revelation - but it's obviously a good thing)

>Oh my Jesus, forgive us our sins. Save us from the fires of hell. And lead all souls into Heaven, especially those most in need of Thy mercy

the Hail Holy Queen (in the end)

>Hail Holy Queen, Mother of Mercy, our life, our sweetness and our hope. To thee do we cry - poor banished children of Eve - to thee do we send up our sighs, mourning and weeping in this valley of tears. Turn then, most gracious advocate, thine eyes of mercy towards us, and after this exile, show us the blessed fruit of thy womb, Jesus - oh loving, oh clement, oh sweet Virgin Mary. Pray for us, so that we may be worthy of the promises of Christ.

It is important to make it a habit to pray daily. Try to think of something like a "prayer day rule". Mine for example: Wake up, make the sign of the Cross, thank for the new day and dedicate it to God. Then prayer when you eat (before and after you do eat). Usually I do at least a minor Rosary (5 decades) a day - in the order that is taught by the Church - and I do the Compline in the evening.

For resources:

Keep reading St. Loyola - even for the "plebs" he has some great advice. Other things you might want to read is "Introduction to the Devout Life" by St. Francis de Sales, "Imitatione de Christi" by Thomas de Kempis, the monastery rule by St. Benedict (even though at times it's really expressing harsh things - because it's for monastic life (which is bloodless martyrdom so to speak) - it has some good advice in it. And obviously the Bible [especially the NT].

For things Rosary you want to read St. Louis de Montfort -> "The Secret of the Rosary" (link here Louis-Marie Grignion de Montfort but avoid most of this page beside the book, it seems borderline sede). That is already enough - and in case you don't know how to do it: http://www.rosary-center.org/howto.htm

That is already A LOT to go through. As I said, the Rosary is your weapon of choice. Make it a habit to pray it and everything else will follow from that. I'd also advice you to immediately also read along in the book of St. Louis (which I mentioned above) for clarification and also motivation. Don't do all things at once. Read 1-2 books + the bible at the same time at max, otherwise you'll just lose track or get overwhelmed. Also make your prayer day/habit something you can start off with rather than ramming 3 hours into your day - that is probably bound to not succeed.

All the best, God bless


a26306 No.640959

>>640957

And also, what I said above: Have a talk with your priest. As you said, it's about "me me me" but it should be about God. And your personal taste literally doesn't matter. Talk to your priest, make him your spiritual advisor - and when you're ready for it, confess.


a26306 No.640960

>>640957

Second addition: I forgot the link to the book of St. Louis

-> http://www.catholictradition.org/Classics/secret-rosary.htm

There you go


756d47 No.640965

Ever been to a FSSP priest for confession? They are usually excellent preachers and handle the sacrament of reconciliation very well. They tend to take everything a little more seriously. It is well worth driving an hour or two for a confession with them. You don’t even have to stay for their Latin mass. You can just use them for confessions. (and they are 100% valid, licit and completely in league with Rome. )


f45f12 No.641024

>>640957

Thank you so much for the very detailed replies; I was also thinking I better learn to stop coming here, since I only see the worst of the RCC in display.


a26306 No.641032

>>640957

>…because it's a prayer of divine revelation…

Of course I meant personal revelation, sorry.

>>641024

You're welcome bruh. It's hard often, because especially internet Christians are … well they are … let's say "special" in many ways …

And yes, you're not entirely wrong. To get better and keep a good soul hygiene, you will want to avoid temptations and "the bad". Although this board is not entirely bad or lost or whatever, there is many stuff going on - especially when it's raided by /pol/ gnostics and neopelagians or other people like atheist groups etc. … it's often more harmful than good, at least if you try to look for serious advice. It's technically the same as with pornography, violence etc..

The language has grown so cruel and un-Christian … but yes, toning it down to eventually avoid it is part of maturing, part of learning to silence your heart.

I hope I could help you a bit at least.

May God bless you on your ways and all the best.

Yours sincerely, anon.

PS: What I didn't mention (but which should be natural so to speak) is of course going to mass on Sundays and other days of obligation at least. Don't take the Eucharist in state of mortal sin, but go nonetheless - 1) it's a commandment of the Church and 2) Christ is present, everytime, also for you. You can say a prayer for spiritual Communion when you can't commune in the Eucharist but also in general. It's meant to be made frequent (though I, myself don't do it often … I simply forget about it :/ ):

https://www.catholic.org/prayers/prayer.php?p=35


f45f12 No.641035

>>641032

Yes, I haven’t skipped mass even if I felt the urge to run away and hide. Been a long time since I’ve been in a state of grace to receive Holy Communion, but I’m at least clean from porn and masturbation for now.


a26306 No.641036

>>641032

I mean go to Mass nonetheless, not to Communion when you can't D:


8100b5 No.641692

>>640935

>reasons to stay Catholic?

Meh, not really. Just begome ordodog or babdis


474c39 No.641700

>>640935

Read the word of God (KJV)




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