Allow me to give a bit of context:
I was baptized Catholic. My grandpa on my mom's side was studying to be a Catholic priest (I never met him, he died before I was born) I took religion classes and everything so I am most familiar with the tradition and ritual for Catholic service.
However, before my recently renewed faith, I had a big falling out with Catholicism. Typical edgy teenager atheist philosophical stuff. And the ritual all seemed so funny. I couldn't not keep from giggling with my friend, so it was all a big joke to me. This made my grandma cry.
I grew up in a small area with lots of German heritage, and many communities are divided between Catholic and Lutheran. There are jokes like, "Don't trust that family, they are Lutheran." Which are just jokes, but there is definitely a stigma.
My dad is not really religious at all. But I have since done research on my dad's side and found that they were all Lutheran. Lutheranism makes more sense to me on paper, it seems reasonable.
I recently attended a Catholic mass, the first time in 10 years, and I was rusty on all the call-and-response stuff. Plus the priest was using moments in the mass to sell his special brand of coffee, which left a very sour taste in my mouth (the act of selling, not the coffee itself, which I didn't buy) like, he's just trying to pull one over on innocent believers. He's a corrupt guy that is a pretty decent summary of the current state of Catholicism to me.
Mass ought to be kept sacred. Part of its power is everybody is there focusing in harmony. We're trying to make a connection. Exploiting this undivided attention for a sales pitch is disgusting.
So I want to try a Lutheran mass to compare. But I am afraid I will stick out like a sore thumb because I don't know the subtle differences in the rituals. What's the process of a Lutheran mass?
Is there any Lutheran anon's with any insight for this curious Catholic?