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2e3832 No.545849

I desire marriage and companionship from women so badly it's making me suicidal.

Unfortunately, I'm just too ugly and shy. (It is what it is.)

The longing for emotional intimacy is even stronger than any sexual urges. I want to cuddle with a girl, and feel her body against mine. To feel desired and loved, and to love and cherish her.

I try not to engage with masturbation and pornography. I really try, with the aid of the rosary, Scripture reading, etc..but I always eventually relapse and then go forward trying to abstain from this deadly sin, and relapse again. It's terrible. I hate offending God so much.

Naturally, the remedy for this is marriage (1st Cor. 7), but such is not available to me. So I must become completely asexual and aromantic (?).. somehow..

What are the best spiritual practices, herbs, WHATEVER, to combat the desire for women? I'm thinking of considering chemical castration, or even physical. I don't know if that would rid me of the emotional desires, which are extremely strong, however.

What is that one great secret the most holy and chaste monks don't want you to know? (heh)

948575 No.545860

Yes, you can become asexual. But I don't think you want to.

Matthew 19:10-12

>His disciples said to him, "If the case of a man with his wife is so, it is not expedient to marry." And he said, "Not all can accept this teaching; but those to whom it has been given. For there are eunuchs who were born so from their mother's womb; and there are eunuchs who were made so by men; and there are eunuchs who have made themselves so for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Let him accept it who can."


3109e8 No.545881

>>545849

>Unfortunately, I'm just too ugly and shy. (It is what it is.)

Lift.


ad129a No.545890

Study human anatomy and you'll learn how ugly human bodies are inside ,youll feel disgusted and stop wanting to have contact with woman.

Also dont attribute any importance to woman so as to deem them worthy of desire.


ad129a No.545891

>>545849

> I'm thinking of considering chemical castration, or even physical.

That's like winning a game with cheat codes.


301f1d No.545892

>>545891

Let him accept it who can.


ad129a No.545894

>>545892

No no.

Cheating is bad.

it's like praising an starving man for not being a glutton.


8af529 No.545897

blackpill yourself on women and go mgtow. women will pay more attention to you when you stop valuing them, anyway.


69461c No.545900

you can remove a desire from your heart. I'll recommend three things, but you should go speak to a traditional priest and he will help you much.

>remove shyness

it is impeding your journey to heaven

> Do you fast on Fridays?

fasting and prayer are ways to get closer to God's will, and so become less carnal. fasting is eating three meals, where two meals are the size of the other and don't drink water to fill your hunger

>cold showers in the morning offered for the remission of sin.


45ff9e No.545902

>>545890

>not understanding the full beauty of God's creation, inside and outside.


ad129a No.545903

>>545902

>attributing the fictional quality of "beauty" to women

if beauty existed that means some people are ugly and some people are handsome.

since that's unfair, beauty can not exist as a thing.


09da5a No.545935

Why can't you go to a foreign country and find a wife there? If you're a /pol/ type, why not use a Russian bride service? Just find one who is compatible with your beliefs.


a9b869 No.545939

The concept of Christian Monks are not biblical. Just one more example of eastern belief systems perverting Christianity.


ad129a No.545949

>>545939

He never mentioned monkhood just celibacy.


a50fbe No.545968

Paul's OPINION ("I have no commandment of the Lord…") is for married people to be continued to be married, and singles to remain single. There's nothing bad about being single, but don't psych yourself out of finding someone.


c70e53 No.545972

>>545891

Sounds a lot better than going to hell, though. Is it a sin to use such "cheats?" Is Jesus alright with taking His words on casting away body parts that cause us to stumble literally?


905008 No.545974

>>545939

>The concept of KJV onlyism is not biblical. Just one more example of eastern belief systems perverting Christianity.


ac3883 No.545977

>>545968

>There's nothing bad about being single

Stop lying, of course there is. If a man does not marry and does not have children, he is a failure. End of story.

>>545935

All of those kinds of services are full of gold diggers. A marriage isn't a transaction, it's much more.


be19cb No.545978

>>545977

Is Jesus Christ a failure or a special case?

>End of story.

This sort of talking is for people who can actually show people the 1+1=2 they had in their head. As I am right now, I can't tell if you are dull, or if you are just tired, so share your findings on why single men are a failure.

Be careful not to insult any of the chaste saints, by the way.


ad129a No.545985

>>545972

no no, mutilation is clearly sinful and you can't use chemicals to cut your way into pious-ness.

whats next, an anti-hunger pill to stop gluttony?


ac3883 No.545989

>>545978

>Is Christ a special case?

What do you think? Single men are biological dead ends.


be19cb No.545990

>>545989

And? What does it matter? This world is not important as the next, and many will reproduce anyways.

(Actually) BEGOME ORDODOX


2244f3 No.546016

>>545849

Alternatively you could strive for self-improvement through the Lord's iron temple.


4c3f60 No.546201

>>545903

>since that's unfair, beauty can not exist as a thing.

>/r9k/ theology

It's only unfair if you have an unhealthy, worldly attitude towards it. Or if you think the only kind of beauty is physical beauty. This is what happens on /pol/, where they claim to value beauty but their idea of beauty is a purely worldly one. Hence they practically worship testosterone and "Chad" is their Messiah. If your ideas of beauty are like this, then yeah that's ungodly.


ad129a No.546282

>>546201

No, I defend and UPHOLD r9k's ideas on some stuff of life.

Unfair is bad, it is evil. Only matter,the psyhical,is aesthetic.

this is what it means.

other stuff without psyhical bodies are not beatiful- Use another adjective.




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