/abdl/ - Adult Baby - Diaper Lover★

My advice is to not do it. At least not how you're describing. Unless this is something she's actually into and is too shy to admit it (even to herself), dropping her in at the deep end could be counter productive.

My exes have always had ageplay or diapers be a hard limit, so I have no personal success stories. But if I were to attempt it with someone more open minded I'd make it slow and gradual.

Convince them to wear and use a diaper first and foremost. Lots of positive reinforcement, probably bring them to orgasm in a wet diaper. All the same reassurances most ABDLs need when they first wear and wet diapers. Eg. it's okay to wet yourself, the diaper won't leak, just relax etc etc

That's probably the biggest hurdle. Then I might introduce bottle feeding milk before bed as a source of comfort. Maybe encourage pacifier use in the day time, especially as a gag. Depending on how submissive she is you could set times or periods of time where she HAS to keep her pacifier in, with potential punishments for disobedience. During those times she should be encouraged to communicate non verbally .

I think just starting off with an afternoon of full on RP may be a bit much, and it almost certainly won't live up to your expectations, especially if she's not yet comfortable to the various aspects of ABDL. I'd take it slow and get her to enjoy each individual aspect, adding more as you go along

>>70296

This. OP, listen to this guy

OP here.

I see - going slow might be better. I don’t know if I was clear though- She has a submissive kink and wants to be forced into it. We both read “Under lock and Key” by HOFBondage and thought it was really erotic.

Does that make it at all different?

>>70302

being forced as a kink .. means she want's to please.

however the advise to "go slow" is good.

for a start keep it simple.

by that .. i would seperate elements.

no diapers. go with a cute outfit. see if she responds by being little. or a horny teen ..

try some coloring books and a sippy cup or pacifier. see if she likes baby things.

diaper. do this on its own or with the cute outfit.

dont make her use it. just wear it.

reward her for wearing it.

if i was mean and you did link to a story about chastity i would deny all orgasms when she isnt wearing a diaper.

when she puts it on and tells you she is horny and then expects you to let her cum.

then tell her it has to be wet.

you've got a submissive that wants to please so break it down into steps rather than jump straight into the deep end.

less scary.

more opportunities to dominant and control in the sense that it leads to changes which are accepted.

also if any single element isn't that enthusiastically received by introducing them one at a time you know which ones to drop .. or only reintroduce later after further acceptance.

you might make the first time she gets to cum in a wet diaper something you force with extended bondage or lots of water to drink after denying her orgasm for the prior week.

if that fits her submissive kink.

a submissive will be willing to please and this will encourage them to do a lot but everything all at once IS probably too much.

also - find out a few things she does really like that you don't normally. you want ABDL.

she might want flogging or canes. Do that for her because she is doing this for you.

over time you can train her to enjoy the ABDL just as much if not more ..

What the fuck man.

GO SLOW.

You're introducing her to your fetish. You're lucky enough she's willing to give it a try, she's most likely into the "cute factor", don't force her into your fantasies, at least not just yet.

Honestly, I'd start by giving her a nice hot bath, maybe with baby shampoo for the immersion effect, then diaper her slowly and carefully, making sure to rub baby oil and/or lotion and/or powder into her "intimate area", as slowly and sensually as you can.

Make her love it, appreciate it, maybe even get off on it before you go forcing her into anything, potentially risking to scar her and ultimately ruin your relationship.

Once she's in a diaper, unless she asks to be dominated/treated like a complete baby, I'd let her take the lead, be the nice daddy who just wants to spoil his daughter, see where she wants to go with it, unless she has no idea and clearly wants you to take the lead.

Either way, don't lock her in diapers or force her to wet/mess, let her take that decision, or at the very least, make her think it was her decision. A pacifier and baby bottle probably isn't too hardcore, girls in raves used them all the time back when I was in that scene…

Once you've given her enough to drink to ensure she'll need to wet soon enough (make it alcohol to lower her inhibitions and make it harder for her to hold it, if you really want to "force" her into wetting herself…), if she asks for the bathroom, tease her about the fact she's wearing it, and gauge your next move based on her corporal language, if she looks disgusted at the suggestion, don't insist, let her use the potty and hope she'll open to the idea.

Anyhow, it's your GF, you know her, I don't, so maybe your plan will work, but honestly, if you're not 100% sure, I'd go as slow as possible and make sure you have a safeword so if you do anything she doesn't want, she can get out of it.

Then again, if you've done BDSM or other kinky stuff with her in the past, maybe my suggestion is actually too slow, especially if this is a one-time thing, in which case you might not be able to make the most of it, but really, unless you're 100% sure she's on board with being "forced", don't force her, use this first experience to initiate her, not to test her limits.

On the other hand, you can make it easier, maybe, by being her playmate for the afternoon, instead of her daddy. If you're doing everything you want her to do, she might feel less humiliated by it and be more open to try things she wouldn't want to do on her own.

Anyhow, good luck and keep us posted, I need to know how this will go.

I recommend tying her up, giving her a large enema, and laugh at her while she mess herself.

Afterwards, while squirms helplessly in her quishy mess while sobbing, take a magic wand and press it where her clit is to force her to come in her mess.

The mix of total humiliation and intense pleasure will mess with her mind in ways she won't even be able to process. Do it a few times and she'll become your dumb, helpless little diaper slave who begs you to make her mess her diapers again.

>>70346

Have you ever touched a girl?

>>70296

OP, I would ABSOLUTELY take it slow. Maybe just start out with JUST wearing a diaper, and IF she is comfortable, wetting it (again, only if she wants to. Like, make the option available at the beginning, and then do not bring it up again unless she does first.)

If you push too hard, or take things too fast, then you will probably freak her out. There is a significant amount of cognitive dissonance that goes along with this fetish, especially the age play aspect. If her brain keeps trying to tell her "wake up, this is real life, none of this makes sense" then she will always associate it in the future with that unpleasant experience.

First of all, you want her to enjoy it, and second of all, she will never agree to do it again if you push too hard.

>>70361

I'm going to guess no. >>70362 >>70331 >>70322 >>70296

Have the right idea. Pull out some disney movies and a bong, put her in cosy pjs, and let her lay down as the little spoon. Stroke her softly, put a paci in her mouth. Maybe start out with goodnites. I think most young straight girls actually do like being littles, you just have to ease them into it. Also let her have "her turn" sexually where you do things to please her sensibilities.

Also sauce on OP's pic

>>70286 (OP)

Hey OP I concur fully with those who say to take it slow (I'd ignore the specific what to do's) Only thing I'd add, is to talk about it before and after. Find out what she's expecting before and try to work it in.

Once day one is all said and done, talk about the things you two did, and try to find out the things she liked and didn't like, and why. You're not going to know this right away because we're wired quite differently. The more you communicate, the more you learn. The more you learn, the deeper you get to go into your fantasies with her.

Good luck. Have fun!

>>70331

THIS OP DO THIS HOLY GODDAMN. Don't force her into it you will fuck up everything. Go as slow as you possibly can with this shit. If you do you will be rewarded.

>>70296

>the diaper won't leak

Mine did the very first time, you liar.

I really love babys!

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